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December 05, 2007 at 8:15am
I was shocked to read this response when I sent this info to a friend:

"I'll pass on this read. I have no interest in visiting this topic of depression, grief, the why or any part of it. No thanks. It may be a good book but I don't need to revisit the past or solve the riddles; they can stay in the ground. Or, I could blow my head off like a friend of mine did."

People, this is not a book about a bunch of  folks sitting around psychoanalyzing themselves and discussing the past forever and ever. This is a wonderful book about the continuum of life, how everything plugs into what God is doing in the earth, and how we may find a wholeness of identity again. I sure don't need another self-help book that discusses my issues ad infinitum without any closure.

What I liked about Sittser is that he states what others often don't--that some kinds of loss are less like broken bones and more like amputations. Those kinds of loss break our very identity unless we can understand how they play into the very purposes of God in our lives and in the people He wants us to become.

I'm sorry to go on about this, but I was abhorred to receive such a response and further nauseated to think that anyone could think I am all about maintaining misery. It's attitudes like this that prevent people from processing things properly. I'm sorry that my friend prefers to get through life by sheer grit instead of real healing. But, as I told her, I'd rather take the opportunity to become untwisted and whole if I have it.
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