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The Meekness of Wisdom
||January 26, 2008|3364 reads
 

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Cheryl
January 26, 2008
Hooray for the young man's determination and courage.  It sounds to me that he has more wisdom then most.   I too will pray for him, Kathy.
June Melchior
January 26, 2008
Kathy, you are awesome.  Thanks for sharing this story.  Perhaps in his class they will learn to be good listeners as well as speakers, and all will be built up.
Jerry Webb
January 26, 2008

The simple but powerful nuggets of wisdom we find in his words are great. Thanks for sharing Kathy.

Steve Simms
January 26, 2008
Learn to do something you're not good at -- now that's a great concept!
Jen Rebo
January 26, 2008

Great blog, Kathy!  This is something I need to practice more: getting out of my comfort zone and gaining wisdom through learning. 

I like your thought, June, of the rest of the class learning to be good listeners.

Mike n Laura
January 26, 2008
Kathy, I absolutely love the sentence in bold: "Do I seek for others to think me wise, or do I humbly seek to learn? "

Man if all my Christian brothers and sisters (and yes, especially me!) would live this way...oh how beautifully our cause would be seen.
Sue
January 26, 2008
Sorry Kathy, but the font is too small for me to read this.  I will go ahead and give my online friend a star anyway :) 
Kathy
January 26, 2008

Thanks for the heads up, Sue (and for the star)!!  I had typed it first on Word and didn't realize how small the font was!  It should be better now!

john cummins
January 26, 2008

An excellent thing to do is to continually (daily) seek for Wisdom from the Proverbs. Also, take note of the word throughout scripture. Wisdom is something that is more precious than silver or gold, literally. It does take time and attention to detail. It is humble by definition.

 

Sue
January 26, 2008

That’s much better Kathy!  Thanks!

Dennis Howe
January 26, 2008
Thanks Kathy,
I will be seeing this first hand down the road, my son, and others I know, will be trying to go to college with TBI. This will require them to have assistants to help them through some of these kinds of things. When they did my son's eval at the VA, he scored above average in all areas except aural memory. In other words, if you tell him something he'll never remember you even told him, but if you write it down for him he seldom forgets. It will be interesting how the "system" works out for these young soldiers when they come back into the system. It's wonderful to have people who care to help through these things, and it also is an encouragement to move beyond our comfort zones.
Kathy
January 26, 2008
Dennis, thank you for personalizing this story.  The young man in this story is representative of so many precious lives that are too often overlooked and misunderstood.  I'm sure the other readers here will join me in praying specifically for your son.  God's blessings to your family!

June, I love the picture you paint of his speaking class!  May it be as you describe!

Pastor Tim and Mike, Amen!!

Cheryl, Paul, Jerry, Steve, Jen, and recon, thank you!!!
Kathy
January 26, 2008
Sue,   :)
Deb Rockwell
January 26, 2008
Great story Kathy.  Thank you for sharing it with us.  This young man sounds very wise.
Jenily
January 26, 2008
Thanks! good!
mstovall2003
January 26, 2008
“Isn’t that why you take a class, to learn to do something you’re not good at?”   

Our comfort zone is our security blanket ,where we know we can do and not be made fun of.  I think everyday God attempts to pull us out of our comfort zone and we resist.  We resist by not speaking his word to people we run into, we resist by not doing something at work or school we have never done before, we resist by not confronting people or problems that we need to.  All of these things can be done if we let the Holy Spirit lead us and already know in our hearts that the victory is won.

We can't and never will know EVERYTHING but there is so much to learn if we just take that first step and trust that the Holy Spirit always leads un in the right direction...
Thanks Kathy  
Forgiven
January 26, 2008
Kathy, Thanks for sharing this word!!
Mark Scott
January 26, 2008
Beautiful!
Valya Filimonova
January 26, 2008
Mmmmm, so many thoughts... Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. I hope I do learn to listen while he learns to speak. I tend to like the shy and taciturn people, because they are usually the ones who really have something to say...
Kathy
January 27, 2008
Deb, Jenily, Cathy, and Mark,  thank you!!  And thank you, Marcella!  You are never late!!

Arlene and Valya, thank you for sharing of yourselves!

Thanks, mstovall, for sharing your wisdom.

Chafas, sophia?
vance728
January 27, 2008
kathy,  i really liked this blog.  i never thought of it that way.  i pray for wisdom knowledge and understanding each night.  i went to college when i was 39 yrs old and received my bsn 4 yrs later.  i was terrified of speech class.  if i only had read this then. i wish i had looked at it with this young mans  wisdom.   vance
Gordon Greene
January 28, 2008
W hen

I

S eek

D irection

O utside

M yself



Often the answer to our prayers for direction or a word from the Lord come in just this way. A word or the life of a "divine nobody". In Ecclesiastes there is the story of a poor wise man. In a time of great danger thru his wisdom the city was delivered from its' enemy. And then it says nobody remembered the poor wise man.

Most people do not notice the insignificant ones. Most times their influence is unnoticed but the seeds they plant bear fruit. They don't get any glory from man but they are greatly loved by their heavenly Father.

I think many times GOD speaks to our need but we are so busy listening to the great speakers, reading the "name" authors, seeking counsel from the spiritual that we miss the quiet wisdom of those like this young man. We are like Elijah listening for the voice of the Lord in the wind, fire or quake. GOD does not speak in any scenario we make. But He does speak if we listen. Usually thru one or to one who is meek.

.....peace.....



Kathy
January 28, 2008
Vance,  again welcome to MyChurch!   I can relate to being terrorized by the thought of speaking in any class, and we aren't alone.  Public speaking is one of the most common of all fears!  It can be overcome though!  I do it for a living!

Great acrostic, Apureheart!  Thanks for your comment!
Gene Boecker
January 29, 2008
Wonderful Words of Wisdom, Kathy.

People often say that public speaking is one of the most terrifying things they'll ever have to do in their life.  Then make the group small enough to be comfortable - say 10 or 12.  Still too large?  Try 4-5.  Still too many?  OK, One on one.  Just like he did with his sister.

Thanks!
Cheryl Whit
January 29, 2008
Beautiful Wisdom!
Kathy
January 29, 2008

Gene and Cheryl, thank you!!!

Kathy
February 03, 2008
Thanks, Lara!  Your words could belong to many of us!  We don't really like meekness or humility, so we redefine them to better fit who we are, rather than redefining who we are to better reflect Jesus.
Victor Obunadike
February 04, 2008
thats a nice one from u kathy ,since i joined mychurch this is the most compelling and touching story i ve read.keep it up.
Kathy
February 04, 2008
Thank you, Okwyvic for your kindness!  Welcome to MyChurch!  Is Okwyvic your name?  Does it have a special meaning?  Where in VA is Keller?
Prayer Warrior For God
February 04, 2008
Beautiful blog for sure..
Patrick Hazard
February 05, 2008
Wow.  That is all I can say.  Wow.
blessings845
February 06, 2008
That was a very good story Kathy,we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us
God bless you for sharing,i am sure someone who reads and is in a similar situation, will
be encouraged.
Thanks
Linda K
February 06, 2008
That story is wisdom unto oneself may we all learn this lesson
Kathy
February 06, 2008
Megan, thank you, and I'm so glad you decided to stay!

Patrick, big thank you for your big kindness!

Blessings, thank you, and welcome to the MyChurch family!

Linda, thank you for reading and commenting!  I'm glad you found MyChurch, and I look forward to seeing more of you!
childofGod
February 07, 2008
Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord and He shall lift you up. James 4:10
Great last line Kathy. I loved it! Most of the time we get up to speak so people would know that we have book smarts. But God isn't looking at all of that. He can use anyone He pleases. He wants to know what do you do with what you know. Do you trust Him. Knowledge puffed up, but charity edifieth. Thank you so much for that inspiring story. I will take it, run with it, and bless someone else with it, as I have been blessed. Brought a tear to my eye. Strive to be the best we can be in Christ Jesus.
Kathy
February 07, 2008
Hi ChildofGod!  Welcome to MyChurch, and thank you for adding your great thoughts to this blog!  I look forward to seeing more of you and getting to know you better!
dorgordonp
February 09, 2008

Hello Kathy:

Thanks for writing this article reminding me to do some real soul searching and the importance of humility.     
Kathy
February 10, 2008
Hi dorgordonp!  Welcome to MyChurch!  I look forward to getting to know you!
bikergonebad
February 12, 2008
AS i finly took time to read this i need his word more then i can express im stuck with a disabilty my slef and the door to job do not opean for me in colorado not shure why any ways i thank you for posting this .
BikerDan
Kathy
February 12, 2008

BikerDan, welcome to MyChurch.  I'm glad this blog was helpful to you.  God never turns His back on us.  He will provide for you and take care of you, and He will always have a job for you in the building of His kingdom.

Heavenly Father, you are the Provider.  Hear the cries of BikerDan, and provide for his needs, whether by work or other means, and shelter him with your Peace.

Glenn
February 14, 2008
Wow, Kathy this is a timely blog for me.  My wife and I are helping our second son find his place in the college world.  He has a learning disability and has totally amazed his teachers in high school.  We are just a little nervous about sending him away for college.  Our desire would be to keep him close so we can make sure he is doing what he needs to do, but that will not give him the opportunity to truly grow.  So we need to learn all over again to let go of our children.  Your blog is an encouragement in that regard.  I know that God wants to teach each of us His wisdom, and that often goes against the grain of our personal desires, but thanks be to God for his Grace as we struggle along.  Thanks again for your insight.
peace
Doyle Crowe
February 15, 2008
 Thanks and God Bless You!
Kathy
February 19, 2008
Glenn, I will be praying for your son.  Letting go can be so hard, because we want to protect those we love from being hurt.  Thank you for sharing your story so others can join you in your prayers.  And I hope you'll share with me here or privately how he is doing.  God's blessings on your family!

Thank you, Doyle, and God bless you also!
Glenn
February 20, 2008
Thank you for asking, I hope you don't mind my link through.  Geoff is doing very well and completely recovered.  He is back at school and has not struggled much at all with getting back in the school swing.  Thank you again for your prayers and God bless you today.
peace
Kathy
February 21, 2008

Hooray Geoff!!!  Great news!  Glenn, your link is very welcome!

Voice in DC
February 23, 2008
Not sure how I missed this one, Kathy. Makes me wonder how often I lean on others and my own comfort zone. I like to think I am a front liner who boldly goes where others don't, but sometimes it is easier said than done.

Great post and I enjoyed the comments as well.
Shirley Stevens
February 24, 2008

Kathy, Beautiful story.  I hope the fellow students don't crush him.  Sometimes people can be so cruel, even by accident.  He sounds like a special young man with a special something to teach us all.  God Bless and again thanks for sharing.

Kathy
February 24, 2008

Voice, I'm with you on that!  I sometimes choose not to learn something new, mostly for the sake of time.  But why do we need to "learn" what we already know or keep reading more of our own opinions (question to self)?  You, though, IMHO, are a truly exceptional person whose positive characteristics overshadow whatever very small imperfections you might possibly have!

Thank you, Shirley.  You are so right, and I too hope his classmates are being kind to him.  I didn't make a note of his name and have no way of checking on him, but fortunately this blog reminds me (and others) to pray for him and to be sensitive to others like him.  Thank you for your encouragement!

Kathy
May 21, 2009
I have a heart for the underdog too, Warren.  This story is from January 2008.