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| The Meekness of Wisdom |
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I had never seen him before he sat down at my station for advising and registration. A young man slightly unkempt, as one who perhaps had just gotten out of bed and left home without combing his hair. Never mind that it was already late afternoon. I noted that this must be his first semester of college, as a young woman I took to be his sister was there for support. She quickly responded to all my questions, and, sensing his embarrassment or perhaps frustration, I began to direct the questions solely toward him. His speech was slow, and I realized her intent was to protect him.
In those few minutes I spent with him, I imagined that this student was one of those rare and special people, who was a genius at math and science but who struggled with some of the most mundane tasks in life. My heart reached out to him as we pieced together his schedule, which was not easy at such a late hour, many classes having already filled and closed. We struggled for quite a while to find one more elective for him. He would call out a course from the catalog list, and I would check the computer listing and say “It’s closed.”
“What about Public Speaking?”, he asked.
It was open. His sister immediately jumped back into the conversation. “Are you sure you want to take that?” she asked him, and I could sense her protection and love for him. “Isn’t that why you take a class,” he responded in his slow deliberate speech, “to learn to do something you’re not good at?”
Ah, the meekness of wisdom! He understood something that few ever grasp. He was willing to attempt something that was outside his talents and experience, even if it meant he probably would not be at the top of the class, and his brand of wisdom might not be recognized in that environment. I smiled inside and breathed a silent prayer for this young man that his classmates and teachers would not devour him or break his spirit, and that this new endeavor would be a positive one for his life.
A question that hovers here for each of us: Do I seek for others to think me wise, or do I humbly seek to learn?
3:13 Who is wise and understanding among you? By his good life let him show his works in the meekness of wisdom. 18:2 A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion.
Let no one deceive himself; If any one among you thinks that he is wise in this age, let him become a fool that he may become wise. For the wisdom of the world is folly with God. (1 Cor. 3:18-19a) Woe to those who are wise in their own eyes. (Isa. 5:21a)
Then I said to myself, “What befalls the fool will befall me also; why then have I been so very wise?” And I said to myself that this also is vanity. For of the wise man as of the fool there is no enduring remembrance, seeing that in the days to come all will have been long forgotten. (Eccl. 2:15-16a)
Do you see a man who is wise in his own eyes? There is more hope for a fool than for him. (Prov. 26:12)
Be not wise in your own eyes. (Prov. 3:7a) Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth. (Matt. 5:5)
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| Hooray for the young man's determination and courage. It sounds to me that he has more wisdom then most. I too will pray for him, Kathy. |
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| Thanks for sharing this man's story. |
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Kathy, you are awesome. Thanks for sharing this story. Perhaps in his class they will learn to be good listeners as well as speakers, and all will be built up. |
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January 26, 2008 at 11:47am |
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The simple but powerful nuggets of wisdom we find in his words are great. Thanks for sharing Kathy. |
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| Learn to do something you're not good at -- now that's a great concept! |
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| I really like this blog. Trying something that we might not be an expert at in order to broaden our horizens is a sign of a of humility. This man should be an example fto all of us that we should not to be afarid to attempt something that we may not be the best at, but would cause us to grow as a person. |
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January 26, 2008 at 12:25pm |
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Great blog, Kathy! This is something I need to practice more: getting out of my comfort zone and gaining wisdom through learning. I like your thought, June, of the rest of the class learning to be good listeners. |
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Kathy, I absolutely love the sentence in bold: "Do I seek for others to think me wise, or do I humbly seek to learn? "
Man if all my Christian brothers and sisters (and yes, especially me!) would live this way...oh how beautifully our cause would be seen. |
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January 26, 2008 at 12:45pm |
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| Sorry Kathy, but the font is too small for me to read this. I will go ahead and give my online friend a star anyway :) |
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Kathy |
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January 26, 2008 at 1:02pm |
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Thanks for the heads up, Sue (and for the star)!! I had typed it first on Word and didn't realize how small the font was! It should be better now! |
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An excellent thing to do is to continually (daily) seek for Wisdom from the Proverbs. Also, take note of the word throughout scripture. Wisdom is something that is more precious than silver or gold, literally. It does take time and attention to detail. It is humble by definition. |
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Sue |
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January 26, 2008 at 1:08pm |
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That’s much better Kathy! Thanks! |
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Thanks Kathy, I will be seeing this first hand down the road, my son, and others I know, will be trying to go to college with TBI. This will require them to have assistants to help them through some of these kinds of things. When they did my son's eval at the VA, he scored above average in all areas except aural memory. In other words, if you tell him something he'll never remember you even told him, but if you write it down for him he seldom forgets. It will be interesting how the "system" works out for these young soldiers when they come back into the system. It's wonderful to have people who care to help through these things, and it also is an encouragement to move beyond our comfort zones. |
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January 26, 2008 at 2:29pm |
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Dennis, thank you for personalizing this story. The young man in this story is representative of so many precious lives that are too often overlooked and misunderstood. I'm sure the other readers here will join me in praying specifically for your son. God's blessings to your family!
June, I love the picture you paint of his speaking class! May it be as you describe!
Pastor Tim and Mike, Amen!!
Cheryl, Paul, Jerry, Steve, Jen, and recon, thank you!!! |
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Kathy |
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January 26, 2008 at 2:30pm |
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| Sue, :) |
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January 26, 2008 at 5:03pm |
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| Great story Kathy. Thank you for sharing it with us. This young man sounds very wise. |
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January 26, 2008 at 5:09pm |
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| Thanks! good! |
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“Isn’t that why you take a class, to learn to do something you’re not good at?”
Our comfort zone is our security blanket ,where we know we can do and not be made fun of. I think everyday God attempts to pull us out of our comfort zone and we resist. We resist by not speaking his word to people we run into, we resist by not doing something at work or school we have never done before, we resist by not confronting people or problems that we need to. All of these things can be done if we let the Holy Spirit lead us and already know in our hearts that the victory is won.
We can't and never will know EVERYTHING but there is so much to learn if we just take that first step and trust that the Holy Spirit always leads un in the right direction... Thanks Kathy |
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| Kathy,
Thanks for sharing this word!! |
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January 27, 2008 at 12:01am |
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| Mmmmm, so many thoughts... Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. I hope I do learn to listen while he learns to speak. I tend to like the shy and taciturn people, because they are usually the ones who really have something to say... |
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January 27, 2008 at 12:59pm |
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Deb, Jenily, Cathy, and Mark, thank you!! And thank you, Marcella! You are never late!!
Arlene and Valya, thank you for sharing of yourselves!
Thanks, mstovall, for sharing your wisdom.
Chafas, sophia? |
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| kathy, i really liked this blog. i never thought of it that way. i pray for wisdom knowledge and understanding each night. i went to college when i was 39 yrs old and received my bsn 4 yrs later. i was terrified of speech class. if i only had read this then. i wish i had looked at it with this young mans wisdom. vance |
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Often the answer to our prayers for direction or a word from the Lord come in just this way. A word or the life of a "divine nobody". In Ecclesiastes there is the story of a poor wise man. In a time of great danger thru his wisdom the city was delivered from its' enemy. And then it says nobody remembered the poor wise man.
Most people do not notice the insignificant ones. Most times their influence is unnoticed but the seeds they plant bear fruit. They don't get any glory from man but they are greatly loved by their heavenly Father.
I think many times GOD speaks to our need but we are so busy listening to the great speakers, reading the "name" authors, seeking counsel from the spiritual that we miss the quiet wisdom of those like this young man. We are like Elijah listening for the voice of the Lord in the wind, fire or quake. GOD does not speak in any scenario we make. But He does speak if we listen. Usually thru one or to one who is meek.
.....peace.....
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January 28, 2008 at 9:04pm |
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Vance, again welcome to MyChurch! I can relate to being terrorized by the thought of speaking in any class, and we aren't alone. Public speaking is one of the most common of all fears! It can be overcome though! I do it for a living!
Great acrostic, Apureheart! Thanks for your comment! |
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January 29, 2008 at 7:32pm |
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Wonderful Words of Wisdom, Kathy.
People often say that public speaking is one of the most terrifying things they'll ever have to do in their life. Then make the group small enough to be comfortable - say 10 or 12. Still too large? Try 4-5. Still too many? OK, One on one. Just like he did with his sister.
Thanks! |
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January 29, 2008 at 7:44pm |
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| Beautiful Wisdom! |
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Kathy |
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January 29, 2008 at 9:34pm |
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Gene and Cheryl, thank you!!! |
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| This is an awesome (and timely) blog, Kathy! Really, it is! Sometimes I try to sound all wise and witty, and other times I just don't care, but lately I have realized I am NOT the wise; I am the debased, despised and foolish thing; and that is totally okay! Meek? Umm, not the way I should be though. Thanks for this! I am rooting for that young man to kick some butt in that course! Good for him! |
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| P.S. I love public speaking, but flunked math several times. lol |
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February 03, 2008 at 11:57pm |
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| Thanks, Lara! Your words could belong to many of us! We don't really like meekness or humility, so we redefine them to better fit who we are, rather than redefining who we are to better reflect Jesus. |
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February 04, 2008 at 3:09pm |
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| thats a nice one from u kathy ,since i joined mychurch this is the most compelling and touching story i ve read.keep it up. |
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Kathy |
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February 04, 2008 at 7:08pm |
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| Thank you, Okwyvic for your kindness! Welcome to MyChurch! Is Okwyvic your name? Does it have a special meaning? Where in VA is Keller? |
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| Beautiful blog for sure.. |
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| Wow. That is all I can say. Wow. |
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That was a very good story Kathy,we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us God bless you for sharing,i am sure someone who reads and is in a similar situation, will be encouraged. Thanks |
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February 06, 2008 at 10:54am |
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| That story is wisdom unto oneself may we all learn this lesson |
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February 06, 2008 at 11:54am |
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Megan, thank you, and I'm so glad you decided to stay!
Patrick, big thank you for your big kindness!
Blessings, thank you, and welcome to the MyChurch family!
Linda, thank you for reading and commenting! I'm glad you found MyChurch, and I look forward to seeing more of you! |
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Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord and He shall lift you up. James 4:10 Great last line Kathy. I loved it! Most of the time we get up to speak so people would know that we have book smarts. But God isn't looking at all of that. He can use anyone He pleases. He wants to know what do you do with what you know. Do you trust Him. Knowledge puffed up, but charity edifieth. Thank you so much for that inspiring story. I will take it, run with it, and bless someone else with it, as I have been blessed. Brought a tear to my eye. Strive to be the best we can be in Christ Jesus. |
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February 07, 2008 at 7:05pm |
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| Hi ChildofGod! Welcome to MyChurch, and thank you for adding your great thoughts to this blog! I look forward to seeing more of you and getting to know you better! |
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Hello Kathy:
Thanks for writing this article reminding me to do some real soul searching and the importance of humility. |
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Kathy |
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February 10, 2008 at 7:42pm |
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| Hi dorgordonp! Welcome to MyChurch! I look forward to getting to know you! |
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AS i finly took time to read this i need his word more then i can express im stuck with a disabilty my slef and the door to job do not opean for me in colorado not shure why any ways i thank you for posting this . BikerDan |
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February 12, 2008 at 4:13pm |
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BikerDan, welcome to MyChurch. I'm glad this blog was helpful to you. God never turns His back on us. He will provide for you and take care of you, and He will always have a job for you in the building of His kingdom.
Heavenly Father, you are the Provider. Hear the cries of BikerDan, and provide for his needs, whether by work or other means, and shelter him with your Peace. |
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February 14, 2008 at 12:57pm |
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Wow, Kathy this is a timely blog for me. My wife and I are helping our second son find his place in the college world. He has a learning disability and has totally amazed his teachers in high school. We are just a little nervous about sending him away for college. Our desire would be to keep him close so we can make sure he is doing what he needs to do, but that will not give him the opportunity to truly grow. So we need to learn all over again to let go of our children. Your blog is an encouragement in that regard. I know that God wants to teach each of us His wisdom, and that often goes against the grain of our personal desires, but thanks be to God for his Grace as we struggle along. Thanks again for your insight. peace |
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| Thanks and God Bless You! |
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Kathy |
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February 19, 2008 at 9:10pm |
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Glenn, I will be praying for your son. Letting go can be so hard, because we want to protect those we love from being hurt. Thank you for sharing your story so others can join you in your prayers. And I hope you'll share with me here or privately how he is doing. God's blessings on your family!
Thank you, Doyle, and God bless you also! |
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February 20, 2008 at 8:59am |
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Thank you for asking, I hope you don't mind my link through. Geoff is doing very well and completely recovered. He is back at school and has not struggled much at all with getting back in the school swing. Thank you again for your prayers and God bless you today. peace |
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February 21, 2008 at 6:55pm |
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Hooray Geoff!!! Great news! Glenn, your link is very welcome! |
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Not sure how I missed this one, Kathy. Makes me wonder how often I lean on others and my own comfort zone. I like to think I am a front liner who boldly goes where others don't, but sometimes it is easier said than done.
Great post and I enjoyed the comments as well. |
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Kathy, Beautiful story. I hope the fellow students don't crush him. Sometimes people can be so cruel, even by accident. He sounds like a special young man with a special something to teach us all. God Bless and again thanks for sharing. |
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February 24, 2008 at 10:52pm |
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Voice, I'm with you on that! I sometimes choose not to learn something new, mostly for the sake of time. But why do we need to "learn" what we already know or keep reading more of our own opinions (question to self)? You, though, IMHO, are a truly exceptional person whose positive characteristics overshadow whatever very small imperfections you might possibly have!
Thank you, Shirley. You are so right, and I too hope his classmates are being kind to him. I didn't make a note of his name and have no way of checking on him, but fortunately this blog reminds me (and others) to pray for him and to be sensitive to others like him. Thank you for your encouragement! |
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