A holy man was having a conversation with the Lord one day and said, 

"Lord, I would like to know what Heaven and Hell are like."
 The Lord led the holy man to two doors.

 He opened one of the doors and the holy man looked in. In the middle
 of the room was a large round table. In the middle of the table was a 
 large pot of stew which smelled delicious and made the holy man's mouth 
 water.
 The people sitting around the table were thin and sickly. They
 appeared to be famished. They were holding spoons with very long handles and 
 each found it possible to reach into the pot of stew and take a spoonful, 
 but because the handle was longer than their arms, they could not get the
 spoons back into their mouths.

 The holy man shuddered at the sight of their misery and suffering.
 The Lord said, "You have seen Hell."
 They went to the next room and opened the door. It was exactly the
 same as the first one. There was the large round table with the large pot
 of stew which made the holy man's mouth water. The people were equipped
 with the same long-handled spoons, but here the people were well
 nourished and plump, laughing and talking.

 The holy man said, "I don't understand." 

"It is simple," said the
 Lord; "it requires but one skill. You see, they have learned to feed each
 other, while the greedy think only of themselves." Do not value the
 "things" you have in your life - value "who" you have in your
 life....