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An Adopted Child
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Jonathan Thomas
March 03, 2007
I grew up in a home with a mother and step-father. According to their premarital agreement, each would be responsible for discipline and rearing of their children. That left me with no father, because he was up before I was and didn't get home until after our bedtime. When he was home, he was reclusive and didn't speak much. My real father is completely unknown to me. My mother will not even give me his name. Out of 5 children, I'm the only one without a father's name. All my life, all I've ever wanted was to find my Dad and do something that would please him and make him proud to be my Dad. But that won't ever happen because Mom has made it clear she isn't ever going to tell, and nobody else knows. Then as an adult, I was taken in by assistant pastors in a local small traditional church. The man never had children and always wanted to have at least several. As it turned out, we became very close, and he loved me more purely than anyone else I have ever met, and I only knew him about 2 years before he died. He taught me the love of a Father that loves by choice, and adopts!
Voice in DC
March 03, 2007
Two of the dads at the men's breakfast this morning were adoptive fathers which helped to bring this teaching home even better. It made me wonder what it would be like from the adopted child's perspective. Jonathan, your words show how important it is to have a father in our life...and how important it is for us fathers to show our children what love really is. Thanks.