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2:8 If you really keep the royal law found in Scripture, "Love your neighbor as yourself," you are doing right: This week we received an email from one of our neighbors, informing us and others in the area of an upcoming zoning hearing, and providing a little information on the issues involved. We live in a "rural conservation district", an area zoned low density rural/residential, and some land owners want to "upzone" to a much higher density zoning classification. (A week ago I wouldn't have understood a word of that last sentence!!)
What's this have to do with being a good neighbor, you might ask? Well, the nice lady heading up the neighborhood opposition is asking for some help. So last night I showed up at a "strategy meeting" with five other neighbors, and am probably going to testify at next week's zoning hearing in front of the board (and a couple hundred other people....gulp).
I'm not familiar with local issues, never even been to the neighborhood association meetings.....but I see a tremendous opportunity to "be a good neighbor". Giving of my time (three evenings in all, plus time for research on my testimony), my money (joining the neighborhood association), and my comfort (testifying about something I'm nearly 100% uninformed about). These sacrifices constitute "loving my neighbor as myself", and I thank God for this opportunity.
I could have easily told my neighbor that I'm too busy (well, I am!!). I could have simply ignored her email, and she never would've said a word about it (she's not exactly right next door). I might have even told her I'd try to make it to the zoning hearing, stopping there (which, believe me, is what I most want to do!). But in this case, the Holy Spirit's voice was loud and clear, and rather than disobey, I'm gonna stress it out! (lol) But even in the stress of doing these things I'm not at all comfortable with, there is a tremendous peace I can't even begin to describe!
So I thought that I'd share, just in case the Lord is giving others an opportunity to be a good neighbor (I'll bet he is!), and to get a bit of Christ into the lives of the unchurched around us. Our eyes really need to be focused on God first, then others, rather than our own busy lives, or opportunities like this will slip past us often. I'm sure we've already missed a few opportunities ourselves. But this once, God spoke loud and clear!
[UPDATE 3-10-08] Went to my first community association meeting tonight. I JOINED!! I'm now a member of the Greater Patapsco Community Association, Inc. We are a bunch of bumpkins on the fringe of the advance of suburbia. We mostly discussed zoning issues tonight, and all in attendance were in unanimous agreement that the association should take a stand against "upzoning" (see explanation above).
I carpooled to the meeting with a couple of neighbors, then sat with them and two other neighbors who organized the "strategy meeting" I wrote about above. I'm excited that the Lord is giving me this opportunity to build bonds of friendship with my neighbors!! Next up: public hearing before the Baltimore County Zoning Board, this Thursday. I may testify, though I'm still on the fence about that.
Thanks to those who prayed for me, tonight went so well!! Please continue to pray that God would use this opportunity and my interactions with my neighbors for his glory!
[UPDATE 3-14-08] I TESTIFIED!!! Last night was amazing!! The Baltimore County Planning Board met with the good people of District #4 (ours!), and I attended with my neighbors. I wasn't supposed to testify, but God got involved and before I knew it I was on stage testifying in front of the board and at least 100 other citizens. I will never forget it! My neighbors had much good to say about my testimony, and this morning I received one of the coolest emails I've ever gotten in my life...from the neighbor who organized our effort. (I devoted an entire blog to that email, it was so ultra cool to recieve from my non-Christian neighbor!!! Check out the link, the email (and blog) are entitled "Confirming my faith in people"!!)
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Cheryl |
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March 08, 2008 at 6:12am |
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| Amen!~ We will be praying too for the issue at hand~ When my daughter sings and I do my public speaking we have gone by the rule to picture everyone in pink polka dotted clothes, try it!!! You'll NEVER be nervous!!!~ LOL!!! |
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Thx woman of joy - God bless you!
Thx Cheryl!! I'm generally ok speaking in front of people, but when I don't know what I'm talking about???? This will be a new experience. But if I look like a fool in front of 200-300, it will be worth it if I look like an ally and a friend to my neighbor(s). Right? |
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Jerry |
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March 08, 2008 at 6:21am |
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Yea Mike, It really is easy to just not get involved. But God does want us to get out there be heard. We are his vessels and his word is spread through our actions. |
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| Hi, Mike n Laura--God does give us interesting ways to minister and be good neighbors. One thing I would really like to stress to you is--watch out for gossip and backbiting here. Not that YOU are going to do those things, but people will have strong opinions about this issue and their neighbors. So be careful out there. God bless. |
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| Thx Jerry!! And thank you Suzanne - I hadn't thought of that...so prayers for that sort of thing are in order. Glad you're out there, sis! |
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March 08, 2008 at 6:28am |
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suzanne, Very sound advice!!! Mike sometimes when we get invloved in the lives of others we wish we hadn't for some of the things we hear. But its just God's way of telling us we all have flaws. |
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Cheryl |
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March 08, 2008 at 6:31am |
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Came back to add~this may be more about your Christian walk/conduct than just a heering~How cool! Look at all of the people you could influence by your peaceful spirit!~ Yep~put your armour on brother!~ These meetings have the potential to get heated and not nice!~ Thank you for standing up for what she needs!~ |
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| YUCK! Zoning issues, neighborhood associations, etc. I used to work in local government, and I'm glad I no longer do! However, I admire you for stepping up, obeying the Holy Spirit, and being willing to get involved. There may be another reason for you getting involved, and this is simply the doorway for it to be accomplished. I will be praying for you! Just keep us posted as to when your meetings are, so we can be sure to stop & pray for you. |
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Hey Mike, This makes you a "do gooder". I knew it. It was written all over you ! nanny, nanny boo boo, Mike's a do gooder ! Waaiitt a minute............that's a good thing Mike ! God be with you ! |
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March 08, 2008 at 8:24am |
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Whew...it takes a heart of gold to step up to the plate and swing a new bat. Kudos! Win or Lose this will be a great learning experience. Be encouraged God is on your side and will fill your mouth with just the right words...
John 14: 25-27"I'm telling you these things while I'm still living with you. The Friend, the Holy Spirit whom the Father will send at my request, will make everything plain to you. He will remind you of all the things I have told you. I'm leaving you well and whole. That's my parting gift to you. Peace. I don't leave you the way you're used to being left—feeling abandoned, bereft. So don't be upset. Don't be distraught. |
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Just don't view them naked...those images will never leave you...yeah, I am for the development of the rain forests even...shoot I would launch a community in the desert and call it a beachside community given the chance.
I was in NC for vacation and that was all they could talk about...hating those trying to develop. Interesting that most of their revenues was tourism
Just kidding people...but don't imagine them naked seriously. That doesn't work at all. Have fun! |
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Deb |
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March 08, 2008 at 9:27am |
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| Stepping out of the box, and our comfort zone is never easy. God bless you for listening to His voice, and heeding His call. |
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Jenily |
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March 08, 2008 at 9:30am |
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| amen mike! |
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Thanks Jenily and Deb!!
Patrick, don't worry, I won't. 
Kathy - I appreciate your encouragement more than you'll know! Paul, then a do-gooder I'll be! LOL Thanks brother for your sense of humor, for keeping it light around here.
Bernadette - I agree, yuck. How I wish I hadn't stepped up, in the sense of comfort and ease. Uhh. Another reason for my being involved? I'm sure of it!! Thank you for your prayers, I need them. I will post updates on this blog. |
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cella - wow, you show me once again that when we are led by the Spirit to share, He always has the audience in mind even when we haven't got a clue. Love ya sister! (And I'll be praying that your hubby gets elected, so the furnace issues will be resolved.) COAL FURNACE.....  |
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Cheryl, regarding your second comment......"this may be more about your Christian walk/conduct than just a hearing"......wow, that may well be true! (In fact, see my response to Bernadette!) You know, situations and opportunities come up, and I believe we're called to step right out of ourselves (our wants, desires, needs, comfort, etc.) and into the ..... frying pan!! (Oh what have I gotten myself into??)
Thanks for your comment, prayers, and friendship! |
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| I betcha there is a divine purpose to all this. |
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March 08, 2008 at 11:04am |
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| Well, we are told to be in the world but not of it. But we are told to be in the world! And not to be isolated and sequestered in protected Christian fortresses. I commend you, Mike for getting your feet out there in spite of your busy schedule. Great witness. |
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| Lara, I've no doubt you are correct in your suspicions! Gene, thanks. I deeply appreciate that. |
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Be out of pocket for a little while and your at the bottom of comments!! lol Well Mike, I haven't a clue what you will be speaking on since I didn't understand most of the first paragraph. But, that's okayYou said the most important part.... You heard God loud and clear. I will pray that this will bring you and your neighbors closer together and everything is handled in a loving and kind manner. |
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Cheryl, I understand, a week ago it was all Greek to me as well. We've been praying for opportunities to be involved in the lives of our neighbors, and this is very much an answer to prayer. Admittedly, NOT the answer I was looking for, not the answer I wanted! But it is the opportunity we asked for, so I'll take it. God is good, he answers prayer. Pray for me in front of the zoning board!!!
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BULLETIN: Yes, at the moment our next door neighbor's tree is laying across the ruins of our swing set. The strong winds today brought it down. How will we deal with this crisis as good neighbors? I've already told our neighbor that we will help clean up the tree. And that's all. I just hope they don't try to make us buy them a new tree!
ps... Yes, the kids are very sad.  |
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| I'm glad you're getting involved, but another verse comes to mind, about the blind leading the blind. Get thee informethed before thou testifieth. Blimey! That's bad English even for Elizabethan English. |
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Cheryl |
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March 08, 2008 at 7:25pm |
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| RIP: Sorry for the tree~the swingset was for the kids right? Big Kids or Little? LOL! |
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Cheryl - little! :-)
David - I promise I'll run my "testimony" past someone in the know before Thurs. Thanks for your concern! A prayer or two would be welcomed too! |
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March 08, 2008 at 8:19pm |
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| We only have 8 neighbors here, and we all get along fine. Of course that could be because we rarely see each other! our houses are spread apart. But we pray for them daily and even if they dont know it, we love them. I am praying that one day, every house here will be filled with a family of Christians. I have invited 3 of the homes out of the 8 to go to church, but they said no, for various reasons. Our other neighbor is a great christian family. I just hope that our daily living will be a testimony of how wonderful Jesus is. |
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Rosie |
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March 09, 2008 at 5:48am |
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| Reading your post brought to mind that commercial song...Just like a goodneighbor Mikey is there.....Sorry your blogs inspire me to sing.....I wish i had good neighbors yesterday when we were shoveling out the drive way (Street the city is suppose to clean it but they don't now that i no longer work for the city) any way the neighbors were out side and they stood and watched us the older couple shoveling and they never offered to help however they use the same street and they use it just as much really more than we do they are going all the time....But oh well that is my good deed for this week.......Sorry about your kids swingset. |
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Hi Amy - I hope and pray you are able to establish relationships with your neighbors, what a great way to share the love God has shown you through Christ!
Rosie - wow, never been told my blogs inspire people to sing! lol But then, I can say I've heard you sing, and you could sing about anything and sound like an angel (w/that beautiful voice of yours). You are not blessed w/the most caring or helpful neighbors, I'm sorry! Well, there are a couple of properties for sale near us - ever thought of moving east? :-) |
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Thanks be to God. :) :) Have a good evening. Thank you for sharing. Evangelist Osborne |
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Rosie |
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March 10, 2008 at 1:06am |
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| Thank you Mike for the sweet comment i'd move next to you but could we all move south were there's never snow...hehehe |
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March 10, 2008 at 10:15am |
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Hey Mike, sounds like you are really going the extra mile here with the neighbor thing. Good work, keep it up. By the way your insurance should cover the swingset thing if you want to file a claim. We had a neighbor's tree crush our fence and shed and our insurance covered all the damage. Actually it turned out to be a windfall for us because the insurance gave us money to have the property replaced by a contractor and we did the work ourselves saving the rest.
Anyway God bless you as you step out of the boat. You can walk on water. peace |
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| Thanks for the reminder Mike to reach out to my neighbors. This is something that God spoke to Michelle and me about just the other day. It is so important to reach our neighbors for Jesus Christ. Sometimes a simple invitation for dinner can provide an opportunity to share the Gospel. |
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Thanks Mike for a new perspective on that. I've been struggling in this area as well my friend. I'm always grateful when the spirit can make something clear.
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Rosie, our family happens to love the snow! And if you lived nearby we would never stand around and watch you shovel your own walk....never!
Glenn, Tim, Precious and Dave.....thanks!
ps... updated the blog after my experience last night at my first community association meeting. |
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| Mike, Where did you update? Did I miss it? |
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| Hi Paul! Thanks for checking back... the update is in the blog itself, right after this.....[UPDATE 3-10-08] |
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U know Mike and Laura... there were times i used to slip away from chances to reach out to neighbours,using the definition of the very word neighbour..man, i wish i could happily type 'lol' ! i dont know ,but from what i have seen in the Bible, Neighbour: One who shows mercy. (dont remember Which verse bro !) and this is amazing places Jesus is taking u buddy! Woohoo ! :D |
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| Hey thanks, DK! I tell ya, it's kinda scary too. Our other Christian friend backed out of last night's meeting, she thought it would be too divisive - thankfully she was wrong! Now this Thursday is the first of the "big" meetings, before the zoning board. Don't know what to expect! But I stand in solidarity w/neighbors, a great way to go in. I really appreciate your comment, DK! (And prayers!) |
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March 11, 2008 at 6:10pm |
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Hey Mike, I will pray for guidance as you approach the zoning board meeting on Thursday. I imagine it might be a little overwhelming. God bless you as you reach out to your neighbors. peace |
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| Thanks Glenn, that means a lot! I don't know what to expect.... |
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March 11, 2008 at 7:04pm |
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| Mike, ain't it fun?! I've been there before - served on a number of boards, councils and committees. As you rub elbows you hope a little Glory will rub off too. |
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March 11, 2008 at 10:34pm |
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Some days I don't feel good at all, other days I feel just fine, on either day I'm still alive and I still have my relationship with Christ. Our emotions can really get us in trouble at times. My Pastor tells us from time to time."Emotional Stability is a great asset for believers in Christ." Awesome Post Mike N Lara you get my star.
Many Blessings, Scott |
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Gene - I will find out what real fun is tomorrow night! Scotty - THANKS for dropping in, pleasure to meet you! Yes, emotional stability is an asset and a great gift!!! ps...thanks for the star! |
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Grant |
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March 20, 2008 at 5:03pm |
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| Yes, please do take your stand against high density dwelling. A neighborhood near us used to belong to a farmer turned lawyer, one of the richest men in town. He turned his farm into high density housing. I mean these poor folks don't even have backyards and they think they are the ants pants because their homes are the latest, fully wired, whiz-bang electronic homes -- with no space. The lawyer trips off to club med and these poor folks are living in a 21st century slum to be. It's not right. |
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March 21, 2008 at 11:40am |
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| Keep us updated. (a friend of mine always says this: you never know what lies on the other side of simple obedience!) |
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