I dunno, Dave. You gave a pretty honest response to that guys' comment about that woman.  Also, honestly, if I can hear the words of secular stuff that is especially raunchy, it bugs me too. I remember being in Ardenes, a cheap jewelry store, and they had this awful blasphemous song blaring, and no one else seemed to notice. Well, I made my choice of earrings and got out of there. I felt like I was going to freak out!  This was about a year ago.  It was horrid.  And now that I pray, I just feel that "grieved" feeling you get---or rather, the Holy Spirit gets.  Guard your heart.  If they like rap, go pick up an album by Cross Movement.  they are ex-gangsters, and all of their words are Scriptural.  they rock! It would be a sneaky way to give them the Word.  and that rap is really really awesome!  And godly. I hated rap before I got saved, and even after til I gave Cross Movement a chance (after rolling my eyes at my hubby and getting mad).  Once I heard the words, I was hooked!

Still praying for and with you.