It is often hard for an adult to be who they are.  We all want to be accepted and to feel loved no matter how old we are.  We should be careful about whose acceptance we want to attract.  When we let our emotions get the best of us, we are giving the devil the perfect opportunity to set us up for failure.  We must always remember who we are and not ever sacrifice our relationship with God for the ways of the world. 

Always remember that God gives us what we need.  If you have not what you think you need, then you probably haven't prayed and asked for it.  Ask and it shall be given to you....  That is what the bible tells us.