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May 06, 2008 at 8:15pm  
It is a simple and powerful truth my friend.  The reason for our existence is to bring Him glory.  When we are weak then it is God's power that shines through.  Remember no flesh can glory in His presence.  God is not about to share His glory with us. 
May 06, 2008 at 8:18pm  

When we are weak, His strength can shine through us.

May 06, 2008 at 8:21pm  
Todd, amen brother....our weakness allows others to see our real source of power....and I find it all too easy to show em. (I'm pretty unimpressive to look at...hehe.) But it's all good--when God is glorified!

Thanks Melissa...right on!! Don't cha just find that takes all the pressure off of us to perform?? :-)
May 06, 2008 at 8:35pm  

Hey, Mike. You said it!

The reason God preferred Paul weak was because "the result is likely gonna be pride." Paul talked about the thorn in his side often, because if he wasn't "put into his place", his pride would take over and it wouldn't be for Christ's sake.

The times when we are weak are the times we call to God the most. God wants to be in a relationship with us. He wants us to talk to Him daily! If we need to be "weakened" for that to happen, He will see to it that we are.

Be strong in Christ and you will not be weak. I will praise God during my good times as well as in times of storms. I am because God is or I wouldn't be.

May 06, 2008 at 8:46pm  
Excellent -- thanks MT4God!!!

I tried to explain this passage of scripture to my kids tonight. They were like, "What are you talkin about Dad? When I am weak then I am strong??? What is that supposed to mean????" It was so funny to see the ultra-puzzled looks on their faces!
May 06, 2008 at 8:56pm  

Oh, I can imagine the puzzlement. It's a hard concept to grasp. But pride makes us weak. Pride will cause us to do things we might not have done otherwise, say things that we might not have said otherwise, or acted as we might not have acted otherwise. But being weak, realizing our inabilities that need to be fulfilled in Christ, actually does make us strong. Because I can do all things in Christ which strengthens me.

When explaining this to kids, compare it to siblings. If one child is alone, he might not be able to do something...say move the swingset for an example. But if he weakens himself and asks his brother for help, the 2 together can move the swingset. Therefore, he is strong when he became weak.

Good luck. 

May 06, 2008 at 9:12pm  
I'm broken under and in His Grace! Or weak...For me to die...is for Christ to live! As I am dieing, I am weakened in my own, but strengthen in His Will! Thanks Mike! This is one of my Favorites so far! I'll be back to see the rest of the bazillion comments you will get!
May 06, 2008 at 9:14pm  
Hey, great illustration MT! I'm not sure if the younger ones will understand how asking for help is weakening themselves though. My oldest actually said " We shouldn't delight in weakness, should we Daddy?" hehe, isn't that cute?

I told em about Paul's thorn, and how God wants to be "glorified" (gotta stop every now and then to define our terms) and how if we are super strong, God isn't glorified in that. It's when we are weak and people realize it wasn't by our own power that great things were done! (How's that?) It was fun. I love teaching my kids!
May 06, 2008 at 9:16pm  
Ok Mike, that is LaTonya, not Sugar Boogey. Keep reminding yourself bud!

Thanks SB!! 
May 06, 2008 at 9:20pm  

There is a story to SugarBooger thank you Mr. Mike! LOL!

Your welcome!      here's another star!

May 06, 2008 at 9:22pm  
ooh, thanks SB! or is it LT?    (lookin forward to hearing the story!)
May 06, 2008 at 9:59pm  
Being paralyzed for 20 years following a failed attempt at suicide, and still suffering the ongoing problems associated with it (like incontinence, pressure wounds, etc.) puts me in a peculiar perspective on this topic. As some of you know, and others will only now learn, I nearly died recently while in the hospital. It was a simple surgery on my left ankle, but I nearly bled to death.

After coming home, suffering a drastic loss of income for the month, I began to suffer from extreme incontinence to the point I lost more work opportunities.

This is weakness. Being only 40 years old and watching my body falling apart already, like I'm 80, and there's nothing I can do to prevent it. I pray and sometimes I get better, and sometimes not. When I get better, I praise God. When I don't I praise God.

I think many people often misunderstand this verse because they lack the understanding or the application of the word weak. It is not synonymous with humble or meek. It means being forced to endure an impossible situation that you cannot change, and enduring it with joy.

I remember when I first moved to Houston, I lived downtown. I had to roll myself a mile to get to main street before the first bus left my stop at 6:00 a.m. and ride for 2 hours to roll another half mile at the other end of the line. Coming home was the same thing, only in reverse. I had to do it when it was raining or sweltering, whatever the conditions. Getting up at 4:30 a.m. to go to work for a retired marine captain that cussed me and started my wages at $6.00/hr.

But I was glad to have work. I was glad to be in good health. I was glad to have free bus transportation. I was glad to have a place to live. When I laid down at night, though, all this gratitude was not enough to keep my heart from breaking. I was 30 years old and working for minimum wage after having spent 8 years on welfare. My life felt like a bad dream.

I know this sounds like a pity party, but it isn't. I'm illustrating weakness. Inability to change my own circumstances. Over time things have changed, but for several years I had to endure silently.

Only now am I beginning to hear from people how much they admire my tenacity, to get up and face life on life's terms, fair or not, rain or shine. My weakness has turned into a testimoney of God's ability to help us endure any situation.

As you can see, this is not anything like humility or meekness. Humilty and meekness are simply character traits that are part of the growth process that is often learned in weakness. But weakness is circumstancial and cannot be learned without prolonged unavoidable hardship that is beyond our ability to correct.

Jonathan
May 06, 2008 at 10:30pm  
This is a good post from some good scripture.  Humility eh!  a fruit of the spirit.  Much better that trying to hide are weakness'
May 07, 2008 at 12:07am  

I'm weak even when I'm prideful I just don't know it :-) lol   
Being content in my weakness...wow easy to do when things go my way and very hard when they don't.  Sometimes I'm like Sarah in the old testament, I just kind of want to make God hurry... but I'm learning.

May 07, 2008 at 12:56am  

how I needed a post like this, thank you for sharing my friend.

may gods peace be with you always - Jade 

May 07, 2008 at 3:44am  
Lord help me too! Well written my Brother.
May 07, 2008 at 4:40am  
 Im so glad to be weak! Let me be that way until He calls me home! Great blog Mike!
May 07, 2008 at 5:23am  
Love this Blog Mike!!!  It is in our weakness that we find out just how strong we are in Christ!!!  As you know from my Testimony it was a weakness in my Life when I found out just what it means to be strong "for Christ's Sake"  If it were not for Him and His Strength I have an idea where I would be and I thank Him For being my Strength!!
May 07, 2008 at 6:10am  
Good words, Mike.  Thanks for the opportunity to think about it!

Jonathan T..., I just wanted to say thanks for your moving testimony.  Years ago, I pastored a small store front church in New York.  A young lady was faithful in attending even though her body was contorted by Cerebral Palsy and could barely walk.  Many things were difficult for her but she had a sweet, sweet spirit and she never complained about anything.  She was very much loved by that small congregation.  She would always say, "I am strong and I am encouraged by the hope that one day I will have a perfect body and I will be with my Lord!"    She was weak, but she was strong.  Hang in there my friend, better days are coming!   
May 07, 2008 at 6:18am  
Wow, trying to teach weakness to your children can be a tough job.  Sometimes I feel that complete weakness in that very task.  Not really knowing the right words to use in explaining things to my children.  I praise God that it is His work to bring them into a true understanding, not mine.  I think my weakness in any area tends to drive me to my knees and turn to Him and that is what it all about.  God wants to be our strength and shelter, but it is only when we realize our weakness that we allow Him to be our strength.
Thanks for the reminder Mike.
peace
May 07, 2008 at 6:21am  
Weakness to a lot of people brings to mind the word"not worthy".  GOD does not see it that way , PRAISE HIM.  In our  so called weakness he shows who he is (Our Father, Maker, Creator) who knows the beginning and the end in all of our situations and all we have to do is ACKNOWLEDGE that fact.....

Give him all the Glory and Praise because that is where it belongs, let his light shine through us as he resolves the issues and proclaim that he is Lord of Lords \o/.........  Who are we without him in our lives and the lost of this world needs to see his hand working..... He will not let his seed go begging bread and that is a promise that I rely on......

Thank you Father for the lessons that you teach us through trials and tribulations.... I pray that in these instances we acknowledge who you are and let your light shine for the world to see....

Thanks Mike
May 07, 2008 at 6:25am  
Having had a daddy who always told me that I was the strong child in his family, something I didn't understand until older.....I struggled with being weak.
Now that dad is gone, I understand. Out of the three kids he had, I was weak for the right reasons, as opposed to the other two kids, and that made me strong. 
Dad was always one to impart wisdom....but where you had to think it out on your own.
May 07, 2008 at 6:52am  
Wow, Mike you did it again!
Praise God I am weak! and He is strong!!
May 07, 2008 at 6:54am  
Amen!
May 07, 2008 at 6:59am  

Cindy, sounds like you had a wise daddy!

Mary, weak ≠ unworthy ....AMEN!!! In our relationship w/the Lord, weak = more than worthy, and in fact we are also told we are more than conquerors! How strange is that, that by being weak we are victoriously conquering? Conquering our human nature, the "sin nature", I would imagine. Great post sister!

Glenn...hmm, the name sounds familiar, but the pic isn't one I've seen before. Oh GLENN, that's you isn't it, my friend?? (Oh friend of the fall trees!! lol) I taught my kids a long time ago that the last shall be first, and vice versa. So mine are kinda familiar with backwards sounding truths. But this is the first time I've ever addressed weak and strong, to my recollection. It looks like I'm gonna hafta spend some time on this! 

May 07, 2008 at 7:04am  

HI Carrie Ann, missed you lately! (Could never forget ya though!!!) Thanks for dropping in.

Bubbles aka Ruth, did what again? By your praises of God I trust it was good! (Thanks Father for putting nice people in my life, like "Bubbles"!! lol)

Thanks Ed! Yes, Jonathan has a great testimony! And thank YOU Jonathan for posting your comment....I am so glad to see you're doing well and sharing what the Lord is doing for you, that in itself is an answer to prayer!

Amy, thank you so much....it is great to hear from ya. Say hi to "Voice" on Sunday for me (you and I both know his name haha)!

May 07, 2008 at 7:11am  
beauty...you could have written this blog far better than I....you would have written with such credibility, from your experience....I can only thank you from the bottom of my heart for your faithfulness to the Lord, and to your marriage, and for accepting your "weakness" and letting the Lord do his thing rather than exerting your will to do your thing. God's blessings to you!!
May 07, 2008 at 7:14am  
Thank you Keith (major compliment coming from you!), Jade (you just made my day sis!), Dave (yes you can teach me about humility anytime!), and Robin (I can so relate!)... you guys move me!
May 07, 2008 at 7:19am  
Jonathan...wanted to thank you again for posting here...yes you can teach us ALL about strength through weakness. You may have even written the book. (Have you yet? Maybe you should consider it.) "My weakness has turned into a testimoney of God's ability to help us endure any situation." You said it-- I pray we all understand it and take it to heart. God bless you and Vicki.
May 07, 2008 at 7:50am  
I need HIS strength!
May 07, 2008 at 8:02am  
When I am weak then I am strong

I would have laughed a few years ago and said what r u talking bout. LOL
BUT I know different today!! I keep telling my son this and he has yet to question me.
Our God is an is an awesome God!! Prasie Him
May 07, 2008 at 8:18am  

Amen Eliza! Thanks Donna, yes I would have laughed a few years ago too. Yeah, it sounds "Christian" to say When I am weak then I am strong, but I think most of us conveniently forget this when it comes to practical application.

All of a sudden I am picturing Obi Wan Kenobi surrendering his body to Darth Vader and being slain. Obi Wan knew something about the strength he would gain through surrender....do we?

 

May 07, 2008 at 8:41am  

Personally, I do not find that I have strength when I am weak.

I am weak. We do not always know that we are going to come out strong on the other side.

When I was lying in my hospital bed, watching my blood pressure drop to 68/27, slipping into convulsions and beginning to lose consciousness, strength was nowhere in my thinking. What was in my thinking was my own weakness.

Blood was pouring out of my foot and the doctors couldn't stop it, not even with 2 tourniquets, direct pressure, that black powder they use on battle fields, or the white powder. 10 nurses, 2 doctors and 3 Emergency Care Technicians could not stop the blood.

I was rushed to emergency surgery and transferred onto a narrow table. As they started the conscious sedation I heard the surgeon tell the staff... "Okay, 2 tourniquets aren't stopping the blood. Any other ideas?" ...and then I slipped into oblivion.

Strength, as it turns out in most of my "weaknesses" is a silent presence that is only seen in retrospect. If I go into any situation with the realization that I'm going to make it through this and be stronger on the other side, it usually turns out to be a situation that doesn't really cause weakness, just a small trial.

Trials show us that life is difficult, but we can make it.

Weakness shows us we cannot make it. Not a chance.


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May 07, 2008 at 9:34am  
Amen to that!  Our weaknessess keep us humble!
May 07, 2008 at 10:18am  

So true, So true, its when we feel strong enough without Him, that we suffer the most.... it usually ends up with a big fall.... at least it does in my case.. It is so good to revel in the total dependency of God. I may be strong in the power in of His might, but thankfully I acknowledge my own pitiful weakness for what it is... NEED... and as long as I continue to Need Him daily, He will sustain me. Great Word Mike. - tam

May 07, 2008 at 2:24pm  
My mom would be the same way!  I've always heard that, but have wondered where it was in teh Bible.  
~Patty ^_^
P.S: lol... "strong enough" to admit weakness... sorry, but that just hit a funny bone in me.  XD
May 07, 2008 at 5:56pm  
Mike...  you wrote a really good blog!    Thank you for giving me some terrific insight today
May 07, 2008 at 7:10pm  
Joey... thanks for reading, it's really good to know that the insights the Lord gives me can be a blessing to friends!

Patty-- same here! Knew it was there somewhere, having read it a few times before. But now I'll always know exactly where to find it cuz I BLOGGED about it, hahaha! Did you ever think that blogging could be a spiritual discipline!?



Tam, indeed, "when we feel strong enough without Him.... it usually ends up with a big fall". You are most definitely not alone in this!

Thanks Shirley, our weakness surely does keep us humble, as long as we're willing to recognize it and trust God to work through it! (did I say that right?)
May 08, 2008 at 10:36am  

Yes, Mike. Blogging can be a spiritual discipline! You have to discipline yourself to look into the spiritual... read about it, think about it, understand it, and pass on your ideas about it.

Jonathan said it really well. Weakness is enduring your situations with praise. (kind of a "sum-up")

I didn't really think of it that way, until he mentioned it, but it's something that I've told my daughter. See, we have a problem in our household of not being able to keep up with the "Jones". And I've told her that even if we were financially able, we probably wouldn't, because that's not where our heart is. There are better ways to use financial success. I DO tell her that we need to praise God for what we DO have and for having each other to love. We will be stronger people because of the trials we go through. Then we head off to another mission to help others who are in worse situations than us, or have less.

It really has helped us to keep in perspective how well my 12 year old's life really is when she volunteers at homeless shelters, or stock food pantries. So sometimes, I really think "weakness" is just a perspective. Where others would see us without, hurting, and dealing with different situations as being weak people; I see us as being strong to be able to handle our situations. And of course, I could not do anything without God. He's the source of our strength!

Thanks Mike. I knew this would be a well read blog when you first posted it.

May 08, 2008 at 11:55am  
Excellent and to the point Mike.  Delight in our weaknesses!
May 08, 2008 at 11:41pm  
Someone just sent me a forwarded email from Neile Donald Walsh, which says

"...that illness is not a sign of spiritual weakness, but of spiritual strength."  When we fall ill there are some who will say, "Why did you create that for yourself?" They might convince you to see it as a sign of spiritual weakness or failure. It is not. It is a sign of spiritual strength. 

All challenges are a sign a spiritual strength, and of the readiness of the Soul to move on; to evolve even further."

So, this prompted me to do a similar blog even before I saw yours. This guy did not even quote scripture, but is not too far off the mark. Blessings!

May 09, 2008 at 4:39am  
I know that I am weak for Him all the time. May God Bless you & Keep you.♥♥Have a Blessed day in the Lord!
May 11, 2008 at 4:47pm  
You have stated the secret to a victorious life, which is to recognize our own weakness. Paul said that he must decrease while God must increase. In another passage Paul said, "I am crucified with Christ, I no longer live, but Christ lives within me. The life I now live I live by faith in the Son of God who died and gave himself for me." This happens when we realize our need for Him.
May 11, 2008 at 8:42pm  
Powerful words brother! Thanks for the post!
May 12, 2008 at 7:48pm  
i feel very weak today. i need Him to be strong for me.
May 13, 2008 at 10:03am  
Amen! Yes, by delighting in my own weakness, I bring Jesus glory! Thank you for this!
May 13, 2008 at 10:47am  
Amen,I needed to hear this today.Thanks Mike.
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