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Deb Rockwell
May 29, 2008
Like you, I do not care for the taste of alcohol, which is why I don't drink too often.  I have found a peach wine that is not as high in alcohol that I do enjoy, and occasionally, but not often, drink it.  As far as social drinking or any other type, I don't partake.  I don't judge people who do drink, but if someone has an addiction to it, then I feel it is important that they get help and then stay away from it.  I am very much against drinking and driving, so at that point I will become judgemental!  If you choose to put others at risk because of your drinking, then I have an issue with that!!!  There are so many non-alcoholic drinks out there, that we really do have a choice of what to drink!  I think it is best to not drink, especially if you think you can't control it.  If you repeatedly get drunk, then I think it is time to stop.  Give me a diet Pepsi please!
Voice in DC
May 29, 2008

Kathy, I like the way you lay out your discussion here. As one who doesn't totally agree with your conclusion, let me ask a couple of questions:

1. What is the basic difference between the culture then and the culture now as it relates to alcohol?  Let's face it, the culture then didn't have much else to drink. They drank fermented drinks because they were safe. Today we have a plethora of choices. (I'd like a raspberry peach smoothie, please.) I contend the root issue is money. People can afford alcohol more readily than they could in the culture of Jesus' time.  I have more thoughts here, but I'll wait for your thoughts on this - you could change my mind.

2.  If I carry your logic to gluttony, I would be eating tofu and drinking water (sarcasm intended and done with a smile).

I personally contend that alcohol is an issue because we, as a church, choose to make it an issue - just as we do about women wearing dresses and makeup, KJV only, tongues, etc.

As a discipleship issue, if you need alcohol, throw it away. If you need sugar, throw it away. If you need XXX, throw it away. You ONLY need JC. After that is settled, the rest is just details, IMHO.

BTW, did I say this is a great post???

Cindy
May 29, 2008
Great blog! I do not drink because I don't want to be the stumbling block :)
Prayer Warrior For God
May 29, 2008
Great blog, a real eye opener for me.
Kathy
May 29, 2008
Deb, I, like you, do not judge my Christian brothers and sisters who choose to drink.  As I said in the blog, there are many personal experiences that lead us to our opinions, and this issue, though an important one on many fronts, is not an essential one for evaluating a person's Christian faith.  Thank you for sharing your own experiences.

Angel Spirit and Cindy, thank you for your comments!

Voice, please clarify for me, before I respond to your thoughts:  You said
"As one who doesn't totally agree with your conclusion."  Which conclusion are you referring to?  The choice not to drink?  My conclusion under the Proverbs 20:1 box?  Thanks, and you know I always enjoy hearing your opinions!   
Glenn
May 29, 2008
Kathy, well written defense of abstanence.  I dare say you will probably not find many here to argue with you.  Even though I occasionally drink wine, or a beer, I can not argue against most of your logic above.  I tend to believe it doesn't have to be an issue at all, and avoid making the argument in favor or against it.  It is just a none issue for me personally.  

That said I can see how abstinence could in and of itself be a witness when we are out with acquaintances.  

Good blog and I look forward to catching the discussion as it is developed.   
TinaCoen
May 29, 2008

through my life exsperiences with alcoholism of my family and my own I choose not to drink as I have come to learn that once I take one drink I am powerless over it and it controls me. So for me alcohol is a no no big time. Thank you so much for your blog. Special Blessings. Thumbs Up 

Jay Price
May 29, 2008
A very well thought out blog. I, too, have seen the suffering of alcoholism in my family. I, too, would wish for a society w/o alchol but I know that is impractical. I, too, dislike the taste of alcohol. But I recently had a social drink w/a family friend. I started to stay no as I usually do but I felt a check on that. This person already had a preconceived idea that I was a "religious" person and all the baggage that goes with that. I felt prompted to have a drink and I bought the friend's drink. She then began to open up to me in a way that would not have happened if she had continued to see me as a person with a list of "don'ts" and our relationship has deepened since then, even though I've not had another drink with her. She was not an alcholic, I would never enable an alcholic. I think I made the right decision with that person at that point in time. However, I commend your stand as a teacher. When my husband and I had a position of responsibility with the youth in an earlier church in a different city, we made the decision to never be seen w/anything that could even be mistaken as an alcholic drink.
Kathy
May 29, 2008
Glenn, thank you for adding your thoughts!I agree that drinking is not inherently an issue of morality, although there are repercussions that can make it such.  I suspect there are many more Christians who drink than who abstain, and there have been a few blogs on MyChurch written in praise of alcohol.  My own views are still being molded, and I am not condemning!  I always appreciate your viewpoint!

Tina, thank you for your testimony!  Alcohol can indeed take control of us, and I commend you for not allowing that in your life!  Another related point your post brings up:  When we drink with others, we don't know who in the group may struggle with an alcohol problem and would have the courage to order a softdrink if someone else did so.

Jay, your story is one of maturity.  I do not doubt that the Holy Spirit led you to order a drink in that particular circumstance.  That's not to say we should always do so in similar circumstances, just that if we are sensitive to the moving of the Spirit in any moment, He may lead us in unexpected ways.  Never to do something that is inherently sinful, but maybe to do something that is controversial within the Christian community.  I have heard missionaries to France, for example, say that they drink wine regularly, and that not to do so would be completely unfitting in the French culture.  Thank you for sharing your thought-provoking scenario!
Paulraj
May 29, 2008
I agree with all that you said.
As you said,
Most of us are familiar with all of these opinions and others, and we have probably adopted whichever one most appeals to our own preference for drinking.  Then we justify it with Scripture.  (Almost any preconceived human notion can be justified with Scripture.)
Good read. Thanks Kathy
mstovall2003
May 29, 2008
I will probably have two or three margarita's a year and they are special occasions.  I was raised with an alcoholic father and my brother is an alcoholic.

I do not see drinking as a sin, however, as a christian I cannot see how we can carry forth the word of God with a drink in our hands....

Great Blog
Della  Martin
May 29, 2008
Thank You, Kathy! I want to make more of a comment but I have to get off my daughter's laptop. (Read Attention Mychurch bloggers) LOL
Voice in DC
May 29, 2008

Sorry about that Kathy...this conclusion is the one I am referring to:

 But can we then say definitively that drinking is not a sin for Christians in today's culture?  I don't think so.

DarkRadiance
May 29, 2008

I would have to say that yes, they were abusing the sacrament. One wonders if they would have buttered consecrated bread while they were at it.

Wine should be used in the Eucharist (or Communion). The recipient doesn't have to partake of both species. If they have a problem with alcohol, they may just kiss the chalice. I don't think that changing a sacrament (ie substituting grape juice for wine) that has been in existence for almost two thousand years really solves the problem. Compassionate love must also be tempered with discipline. 

Ed
May 29, 2008
Good blog, Kathy, well thought out.  I, too, am Southern Baptist so I know where you are coming from.  Through the years, however, I have found that many Christians tell you one thing and do another.  It's our natural desire to look good in the eyes of friends.  this disappointed me.

When I was a pastor I felt that I should not drink (or smoke) at all, you know...as an example.  Some people are very unforgiving when you have fallen from a "Pius" place.  I've resigned from the pastorate, but have a part time position with my church as the Ministries Director.  In these last few years I've gotten to enjoy an occasional glass of local wine (Eastern NC is fast becoming a place noted for it's quality production of wine).  Is this hippo-critical of me?  It's certainly not a bad thing according to biblical guidelines, as you have pointed out.  

It becomes a problem when it becomes a sin, that is, if it causes one to stumble or you become drunk and disorderly and cause chaos and disorder and harm to others.  My wife and I are aware of the propensity for some to become addicted.  We are also aware of the abuse, harm and family disfunction that an alcoholic can cause (being a pastor opens your eyes, if they haven't been opened before) and we don't want to perpetuate or even initiate a problem.  So, we enjoy an occasional glass of wine together and when we expect company, we don't even offer any--unlike your friends in the Bible study you left. 

Maybe tomorrow the Lord will show me some other way.  Right now, I'm enjoying the pleasures of the abundant life that the Lord so graciously provides.   
Phillip Venzor III
May 29, 2008
Deb...aspartaime ( Diet Soda)   are toxic .....which will kill you sooner
Bibical wine was lower in alcohol content 3%-8% compqared to now 12%......The word says  do not be concerend for what you eat or drink  for what comes out of a  man is importaint.
if you a leader at church you should refraind from drinking. there no sin from drinking but drunkards do not inheret the kingdom....we talk about drinking but never on that 5 triple cheesebuergers we eat daily.
phil
Eric
May 29, 2008

I've always treated the whole drinking thing tongue-in-cheek, and you can see this in my slavery blog.

Your blog here is exceptionally well-written.  My nonchalantness is most probably due to my personal experiences, as you say.  I haven't met an alcoholic before, and my parents were occasional drinkers (a glass/can/bottle semi-weekly).  Unlike you, I relish the exquisit nuances of well-made wine.  I was in a social fraternity in college (before I became a Christian) which engaged in lots of underage drinking.  We had some near-emergencies.  I never got drunk because I didn't prefer to get drunk.  Yet you'll still hear me cheer, "Beer?  Bring it on!  Let the party roll!"  A guy in my men's group brought some moonshine to Bible study once.  We all cheered (again tongue-in-cheek), although only three of us had a single shot and subsequently ignored the jug.  Apparently none of us have a problem with alcohol.  Perhaps my nonchalIantness means I'm just stupid.

Stuff to think about.  Thanks.  Sanctification happens in strange ways, I'm finding.

One thing I wanted to mention is the French culture.  Children are drinking -- with their families -- at a very young age.  To the French, wine is just like caffeinated soda.  I'm not too familiar with the French, but I cannot imagine teenage French children expressing the same fascination with alcohol that your students express.  What is forbidden will be explored.  What is known is uninteresting.  This could have been the same social climate in Jesus' day.  Perhaps it's a preferred climate?  I don't know enough about the French to say.

There is also the aspect of genetic susceptibility to alcoholism.  Some families are highly susceptible, others are immune.   I wonder if alcoholism was a genetic problem in Jesus' day.  Is it in France today?  In a society that has many who are susceptible, I think that is a good reason to demote alcohol all-around.  Like perhaps what we're seeing with MSG.  Some are highly allergic, others are not at all, so MSG is removed altogether.  I dunno.  Random thoughts as I absorb your blog.  Thanks for writing.

Kathy
May 29, 2008
Thank you, Paulraj!  Indeed the Scriptures are used and misused to justify all kinds of opinions on every subject!

Mstovall, I suspect you are a woman who has done much thinking on this subject.  Thank you for sharing where it has brought you!

Della, I hope your computer is back in working order soon!  Thanks for commenting!

Voice, thanks for the clarification!  I'm sure you noticed I worded that line very carefully, to say I don't believe we can dismiss the possibility that drinking can be a sin, but leaving open the mirrored point of view that it is not necessarily a sin.  In other words, the consumption of alcohol is not in itself sin, but the circumstances may make it so, and if we believe that, we probably must also admit that the lines are too blurred to make a clear judgment for every situation.

The differences I see between the two cultures, among others, are cars, a rebellious youth culture, drinking laws which glamorize drinking, and the understanding of abuses brought on by excess and/or addiction.  I agree with you that wine in Jesus' day was not one option among many, but was likely the beverage of the culture.  I doubt they wrote blogs like this one considering its morality or the ethics surrounding it.  It just was.


If my logic translates to you living on tofu and water, I promise to reconsider my logic!   :)    I think the difference between my views of drinking and gluttony is that I am not looking at drinking as a sin in itself, but as harmful to society, which may make it a sin.  Gluttony, I am assuming you are comparing because it is considered a sin in and of itself.

I like your comment "I personally contend that alcohol is an issue because we, as a church, choose to make it an issue - just as we do about women wearing dresses and makeup, KJV only, tongues, etc.That resonates deeply with me to a certain point, as I see so many non-issues that some churches hang onto as if their salvation depends upon them.  And even with drinking I agree to the point that churches are too condemning of an adult's choice to have a drink.  The difference I see, for the individual Christian conscious, however, is the dangers of harm to others.  As long as my pearl earrings are not heavy enough to fall off and break someone's toe, they are not likely to be harmful to anyone but myself, but, as John Donne said, "No man is an island," and everyone I encounter can possibly be effected by my life choices.

I look forward to your continued thoughts on this.  You are good at making me think, and as I have said many times, God is still shaping my thoughts, and sometimes uses blog commenters!
Kathy
May 29, 2008
Thank you, Shannon!  I don't mean for this blog to be condemning in any way, just to make us all think.  I see few issues as all black and white, and this one has lots of gray!  To drink or not to drink will not be the criteria of the separation of the sheep and the goats!  In essentials, unity.  In nonessentials, liberty.  And in all things, love.

Thank you, Steve!  You understand what I was saying!

Malleus, lol, I don't remember what kind of bread we used (but I'm sure it wasn't Southern Baptist wafers!)  I can appreciate your view of using wine for the eucharist.  I have not problem with that.  It is just not my personal church experience.  The dpirit and meaningfulness of the sacrament is equally poignant even with Welch's! 

Ed. you said "I have found that many Christians tell you one thing and do another.  It's our natural desire to look good in the eyes of friends.  this disappointed me."  Me too!  If we are drinking but feel the need to hide that from our church, is that in itself also a sin?  If I drink and have peace with God about it, why do I pretend at church not to drink? 

You bring up another great issue that I left out, that of ministers.  I commend you for opting not to drink as a pastor, because that is definitely a position that can cause others to stumble.  Although the Catholics and Episcopalians drink all the time with their priests, who are at the bar wearing their collars.  Depends on the culture of the church?  Yes, NC is becoming a growing wine state, even in areas that are "dry" and not allowed to sell it!  In my opinion your occasional glass of wine with your wife in the privacy of your own home, if you have God's peace about it and neither has any propensity toward addiction, is an example of harmless drinking.  And I respect that you don't offer it to your guests!

You said "Maybe tomorrow the Lord will show me some other way. "  May God continue to mold our minds and hearts to more closely resemble His!
Kathy
May 29, 2008

Thanks, Phil, for sharing a point of view that many share!  Can you really eat 5 triple cheeseburgers in one day?   :)

Eric, I enjoyed your slavery blog.  And I am very happy for you that you have not encountered alcoholics!  One of my close friends is quite the wine connoisseur (I had to use a dictionary to spell that one!) also.  He loves to discuss all the nuances of the different wines. 

You are right that other cultures without drinking ages don't share our cultural glamorization of alcohol.  There are still those who overdrink, but it's not a part of the youth culture any more than drinking Cokes is here.  They drink it, but they don't brag about it the rest of the week!  Is that kind of culture preferred?  That's been debated a long time with apparently no conclusion.

The issue you raised of genetic suspectibility is another good one worthy of consideration in any alcohol discussion.  I always enjoy your "random thoughts," as they are well reasoned and thought out!
 

Kathy
May 29, 2008
Ritey, the German culture is another one in which alcohol plays a major part.  I make no value judgments on such cultures and think all these issues have to be evaluated by each individual and within his/her own cultural setting.  I am familiar with cultures where hospitality is synonymous with offering a glass of wine.  These are good points to ponder.  Again, I don't think there is a black and white line we can draw for all Christians in every circumstance, but I do think there are issues here worthy of laying before God for His guidance.  Thank you, Ritey, and your English is great. Not even an accent!   :)
Gene Downs
May 29, 2008
Kathy,

Looooooots of angles to explore on this one.

Drinking alcohol, in and of itself, is not a sin.  Allowing it to interfere with your relationship with Christ, however, is a sin.  That I believe is the root of the biblical statements about avoiding drunkenness. 

Secondly, there's a difference between fellowship and communion. 

AC 2:42 They devoted themselves to the apostles' teaching and to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer.

The church at Corinth got those two things mixed up (1 Cor 11:17-22), which is what led Paul to issue instructions on communion.  Clearly, the group you were involved in also got it mixed up.

....buttered bread....LOL!  Thanks Malleus.

And lastly, I'd like to emphasize your remarks about being careful about causing others to stumble when discussing what to eat and drink, I think it's best to allow each person to figure out where they really stand on this and do whatever  helps them stay in a close relationship with God through Christ.  If avoiding alcohol is what they need to do for their own sake, then so be it.  And if another shares their joy with Christ in a drink or two, that's OK, too.

Gene

Cheryl
May 29, 2008
Kathy, Thank you for having the courage to write this blog.  I personally do not drink, anymore.  When I was saved the Lord immediately removed two things from my life.. drinking and cussing and I thank Him everyday for this.  When I was in this world I drank and I drank a lot and I enjoyed it but with it comes many dangers, your resistance to temptation is gone your inabitions are covered up in the high and so on.  The results I believe are unlimited, dui's, pregnancies, wrecked relationsip, anger and so on.  Do I condemn others that drink no, it's not my place to judge, just to pray and set the example.  I know there are people that may have a glass of wine or a drink or a beer but from my experience they are few.  I love the one I was told about I like the taste well let me see how many of us would have spent the cost  of a drink just for the taste.  Let's be honest we drank to get "that feeling". Now in my life I get High off Jesus not alcohol not drugs. Praise the Lord.   
Dennis Howe
May 29, 2008
Wow, Kathy, your a language proffesor and you didn't catch her accent? I noticed it right away..hehe...hi Rita....
As to alcohol, whew, I'm to a point where I partake privately, if for no other reason to protect myself from the Christians. I don't know any of my secular friends that would think I was wrong for having a drink, but many of my Christian friends would be, at least, disapproving (not you or Shannon Rita ;) . I will say that I'm from a very different background for this question. My Grandparents were very anti drinking, on both sides of the family. On one side they were strongly involved in the prohibition movement, on the other side alcoholic and abusive great grandparent. My father actually left home, and turned his back on Christianity because of this issue. One of the things that helped my dad come back around was me stopping into the bar at the truck stop and having a drink with him. We grew our relationship over a beer and a meal. So, even though I am careful, and careful with my quantities, I tend towards the freedom side on this issue. That being said, I will not, and am very careful not to make anyone feel bad about being on the tee totalling side of the issue, why should my liberality become bondage for them?
Oh, is there any way you can find an issue that doesn't "stir the pot" so to speak !!
HAHA... I really love your posts, keep them coming sister !!!!
Prophet Jay
May 29, 2008
Well Kathy having worked in recovery programs I have seen how the progessive nature of consumption will result in death. Although some may say that I am an extremist the wino in the gutter never thought that having one drink could possibly have such dire results. When a teenager lights his first cigarette he doesn't do it with the intention of dying of cancer, but once in a cancer ward after years of nicotine consumption this same person wonders why he did not heed the obvious warnings. Sin works the same way. A little bit of this can't hurt. Why would God want to deprive me of a little pleasure? The problem is that any form of consumption only feeds the flesh. I'm sure anything can be spiritualized but the bible is clear  when it says that those that are in the flesh cannot please God. I've been on both sides of the fence. The grass is definitely greener  where the Spirit is. I prefer to please God  and leave the alcohol to those that need to stimulate their senses. Eventually when all is said and done Jesus will have the last word. I wouldn't want to find out then that a little bit of this or that could ruin my chances of going to glory. I won't bet on a 99% chance. That one percent might be enough to land me in the lake of fire. Shalom
Kathy
May 29, 2008

Thanks Gene!  I always appreciate your wisdom!

Ritey, you sound like a wise woman who thinks and cares about actions and consequences!

Cheryl, much wisdom and passion in your comments!  Thank you for sharing your experiences!

Dennis, you know I am likewise a big proponent of freedom, and not legalism!  And it's been a while since I "stirred the pot!"   lol    I got a message from someone this week asking me when I was going to write another "insightful" blog!  He hasn't shown up here yet.  Maybe this one didn't make the mark!    :)

Thank you, Woman of Laughter!   :)

MaKelly
May 29, 2008
Kathy OUSTANDING BLOG     Star Star 

I tried it when I was younger wasn't for me I did not like the way it made me feel, but I kept doing it and geting sick because my friends were doing it but I had to let it go yes it started when I was a teen, my father was alocholic and he die from it.
  I belive it to be true that if a family member has this addition you will be pulled in one way or other so I gave up the drinking and went to doing drugs for thirty years. Thank God I free from all of that. I was told I had addictive personality because of the abuse of alochol in my family & extended family
Brother Todd
May 29, 2008
I'll drink to that! 
Seriously, though you love the hot button issues don't you?  It is plain to see that it is not God's will for us to be drunk with wine Eph 5:18, but to be filled (controlled) by the Holy Spirit.  My personal opinon about alcohol is that it is mainly a cultural issue.  In Europe, it is not even an issue, but here, we make it out to be from Hell.  Paul, covered this topic well, and others have mentioned it as well, "all things are lawful, but not all things are profitable." If what I eat or drink causes my weaker brother to stumble then it is best that I abstain.  It is better to have a millstone tied around my neck and be thrown into the sea than to cause a little one to stumble.   However, if I were in an environment where drinking was not thought of as a vice, then I would have no trouble drinking.  But, it is always much better err on the side of caution and let our moderation be known to all men. No way would I risk using my liberty to destroy another person's faith. That is immature.
Cindy
May 29, 2008

An example of drinking in two lives......
Me : I was raised SB, and oh myyyyyyyy, my daddy came home from the coal mines and had 2 beers everyday. Alcohol wasn't considered evil in my home. I remember that dad would sometimes even allow me to have a sip. I can drink one glass of wine and that's it......but as I stated above, i don't because I won't be a stumbling block.

Hubby : Was raised no church, but alcohol was the worst thing you could do in your life. He's now an alcoholic.

I believe that for him, it was the excitement of doing something that he was forbidden to do and rebeling that started him drinking. Why? Because I listened to it preached over and over and tales of his father drinking and family drinking, pre-mother in law......as a teenager I'm sure he wanted to say " Tell me I can't do this and I'll prove you wrong!"

Kathy
May 29, 2008
Prophet, when we are witnesses to the effects of alcoholism (or anything else), it shapes our perceptions, doesn't it!    Thank you for sharing your personal experiences with us!  Although I am sure that salvation is by grace through faith and not by works, I have no doubt that our alcohol consumption and can be a detriment to our witness.

Thank you, MaKelly!  I am so glad you have left your addictions!  So many get caught and never escape, although as Prophet pointed out, none of them ever anticipate becoming addicted.  They are just hanging with their friends.  Thank you for sharing your personal story, and thank you for the big stars!   :)

LOL Todd!  There is wisdom in your words!  Did you read my response to Dennis, just above your comment?  Welcome!    :)
Kathy
May 29, 2008
Cindy, such an interesting personal story that brings up questions that have been pondered and debated by all kinds of "experts" for many years.  I suspect there's a lot to what you have to said!  Thank you for sharing so openly here!   
Amy
May 29, 2008
 Kathy i choose not to drink. The last time i drank was at a wedding on Jan. 11, 2003. The Lord delivered me from alcohol and i am so thankful. I too have family and so does my husband that are alcoholics and it is so sad. I believe that drinking is a sin. I dont think that a toast at a wedding or other celebration is bad, but to even get a little tipsy is to put your guard down. Scripture tells us to be alert because the devil is always on the prowl looking for someone to devour. When we drink we put our guards down. But my #1 reason for not drinking is because when our Lord and Savior returns in all of His glory, I DONT WANT TO BE DRUNK!! LOL! God bless people who do struggle with this. I pray that they will find the strength in themselves thru Jesus Christ our Lord to defeat alcoholism.
Ian Grant Spong
May 29, 2008
Dear Kathy, You are right! I have given up driving for the reasons you indicated. First, when I drive there is always the danger of getting road rage. Second, and the largest of deterrents to me personally, our driving eventually encourages others around us to drive and possibly drive dangerously. Thirdly, we are cautioned in Scripture against causing another to stumble and they could possibly become involved in road rage if I let them see me drive.

So, I have given up driving altogether just in case I cause others to stumble. Now I know that many will object and claim that there is the right use of a car, but because of our culture where too many hoon around, speed and engage in road rage, I find this too much of a stumbling block and therefore label driving a sin, which should not be engaged in by any Christians.
Kathy
May 29, 2008
Hi Amy!  Thank you for your comments.  LOL on not wanting to be drunk when Jesus comes back!  That's a reason I didn't think of!
Ian Grant Spong
May 29, 2008

PS: Modern medical science says that a glass or two of wine a day is good for my health. As I only drink a glass every other month or so, I have determined to increase my intake. Also, hops are supposed to settle the stomach and calm the nerves. As I only drink a beer every other week or so, I have determined to increase my intake. For these reasons I have determined to set other Christians a good example and drink occasionally, encouraging them to obey Paul's injunction to take a little wine for their stomach's sake. When I do I will be sure to toast a blessing to all my teetotaling brothers and sisters.

Kathy
May 29, 2008
LOL Grant!  Your point is well taken!  I expected someone to make your point, but not so creatively!  I would agree that we cannot live our entire lives worrying about misleading someone else, but I wonder what your thoughts are on the Romans 13 passage, and I wonder if there is any anti-drinking sentiment in Christian Australia.  Has drinking ever been an issue to you or to your church?  Sometimes it is really not an issue.  Oh, and thank you for staying off the roads, and may your stomach be most healthy!    :)    As always your opinion is much appreciated, even when your tongue is stuck inside your cheek!
Janie
May 29, 2008
Great thought provoking blog Kathy
Voice in DC
May 29, 2008
OK, Grant, that was really good!

Kathy, this is an excellent post. I have really enjoyed reading all the comments.

Thank you so much for not condeming me to a life of tofu and water....;^)  I do understand your point. While there are many things that we are free to do, we have to be careful because we are called Christians.

Commercialization has a lot to do with the problems of our culture. I believe that leads to the glamorizaiton you are discussing.  Comes back around to the money thing I mentioned earlier. 200 years ago people didn't have excess money to drink until they were drunk. It took a wedding feast to allow people to have access to enough alcohol. Now, though, we have so much money that we can spend it on things like this. 
Ian Grant Spong
May 29, 2008
Dear Kathy, In response to your question above: I have read Romans 13 and please rest assured that even moreso because the day is near, I do not plan on committing adultery, murder, steal, covet, nor engage in orgies and drunkenness, sexual immorality and debauchery, dissension and jealousy. I do plan to clothe myself with the Lord Jesus Christ and remember his sacrifice while I drink the communion wine. Blessings to you dear sister!
Ian Grant Spong
May 29, 2008
PS: Yes, Kathy, there are Christians here who do not drink, including many in my own church.
Ian Grant Spong
May 29, 2008
Now to the problem you mentioned Kathy of Christians who took communion and then went too far. Doesn't that sound exactly like the Corinthians? It seems to me that the Corinthians met perhaps almost nightly for a love feast, a fellowship meal and communion. The richer ones who did not have to work long hours had already had their fill and some were even drunk before the poorer field workers in the church had arrived. Paul said to wait for them, so that they could all share communion together. Communion wine is not for getting drunk, but for remembering Jesus.

On that point of remembering, there is A FANTASTIC POINT in the Greek that someone who has not studied Greek could miss. The word for taking the bread and wine as a memorial of Jesus' death is the same word used elsewhere when the Israelites were to have continual sacrifices as a reminder of their sins. Isn't that a fantastic difference between the OT and the NT! They were to continually be reminded of their sins, while we are to continually remember the one who paid for our sins. I love it!
Mike n Laura
May 30, 2008
Kathy, I appreciate your blog, and especially the comments it has attracted! In fact, in my opinion your entire blog was summed up nicely in this comment of yours: "the consumption of alcohol is not in itself sin, but the circumstances may make it so". This is a fabulous point, and the point that Grant reinforced magnificently with his comments about abstaining from driving (lol, I loved that).

God bless you sister!
Kathy
May 30, 2008
Thank you, Grant, and thanks for sharing the "remember" point!  To my regret, Greek never worked into my seminary schedule, although it was my plan to take both languages.  (I did get Hebrew, but it took me so long to read it, that I haven't kept it up.)  There is such richness in reading from the original languages that is otherwise missed.

I rethought your points, and I agree with you more than I disagree, especially pertaining to making all our life decisions based on what could cause a weaker brother to stumble.  I obviously take that verse seriously, as do you, but there are other issues where I believe God has led me to take stands that are offensive to some Christians.  (My blogs attest to this!)  Being a female deacon for example.  I think I know you well enough to know that whatever position you take has been given thought and prayer, and I always respect your thinking. 

As I stated in this blog, I believe we all come to our opinions on alcohol based on our own experiences, rather than based on Scripture, which, as with many other issues, does not address all the drinking issues of our day, and I purposefully admitted up front that there are some very personal reasons that have led me to my opinions, none greater than being taught all my life that God is displeased with anything other than abstinence.  (Our early indoctrinations are difficult to shake.)   Also I listed several reasons why I believe abstinence to be the higher calling, not just the one.  That said, I certainly do not always take the highest road on every issue, nor do I assume that my opinion on this should be everyone's.  My purpose here (as in many of my posts) is to provoke deeper thought on the issue, and you have provoked mine!

As Paul says about marriage, it would best if you could all stay single as I am, but if you cannot, then marry.  That was his "higher calling," and he had his own cultural reasons for making that choice (including the belief that Jesus would return in his lifetime), but not everyone shares that particular "higher calling," but follows God according to their own consciences.  I don't believe alcohol is evil.  I do believe it is extremely dangerous, and I don't believe many of us really drink to improve our health!    :)
   
Kathy
May 30, 2008
Thank you, Mike!
Jerry Webb
May 30, 2008
As always a wonderful post Kathy and good to hear from you.

I was one of those teens that drank heavily. It was not because of my parents(they did not). For me it was peer pressure and wanting to fit in. My drinking carried over into young adulthood.

This is something I discuss with the church on a regular basis. I cannot teach with honesty that drinking is a sin. However, what I do teach to them and my sons is that it may later lead to health and social problems so be very careful.

By the way, did you know that the Welches Grape drink we have today is a by-product of this issue?  A methodist, no less, had issues with serving wine at communion. He had some of the same concerns you mentioned in your post. Check out this link:
http://web.umcom.org/frames.asp?url=http%3A//www.gbod.org/worship/default.asp%3Fact%3Dreader%26item_id=1743&loc_id=9%2C10,39
Cheryl Whit
May 30, 2008

Kathy, as usual...an excellent post!

I agree with the general summary...not a sin; however, not something I want to participate in...Personally, I do not want to support the industry.

Kathy
May 30, 2008
Thank you, Jerry!  Fascinating link!  I had no idea!  I highly respect your honesty in the pulpit.  I believe all of us are more willing to hear someone's advice when it is given with humility and honesty, and based on personal experience, than when it is preached from a high pedestal as a list of "thou shalt nots."  I know expecially our youth desire to hear a word of relevance, but will quickly tune out "more rules."  You have a position that can make a difference in the world around you, and I am praying for you and your church members as I respond to you.  May God speak to them and mold them through your words and example.

Amen, Cheryl, Amen!  I think you get it!

This blog is not a pedestal I am shouting down from.  This is an issue I continue to grapple with, and I often write in my own search for clarity of thought, as all the comments challenge me to see new angles.  The passion behind this blog, however, is an important one, and one that requires selflessness, love, and hope for our wandering society. 

I have probably seen more devastation and despair from alcohol abuse than most people have seen.  I have watched each new generation of youth fall deeper into a black hole of despair, finding their refuge in "partying" and sex, and finding no relevance in the church or in anyone who tells them what to do and not to do.  This generation of teens and young adults is seeking relevance.  They're tired of hearing "you should go to church" and seeing no effect church has had on those who tell them.  They're  tired of hearing "you shouldn't drink" and seeing those same adults enjoying their drinks.  I have come to look at all of them as someone's nephew, someone's daughter, someone's grandson . . ., and it stirs me to want to make a difference.

Will it fix all the wrongs in the world if I choose to order a lemonade?  No, of course not, but it might make a difference in one life (and another later, and another later), and if you join me, that one life you reach might be my own nephew one day. 

There's a beautiful story that often imspires me in such overwhelming issues:  a story of a little boy walking on a beach where many thousands of starfish have washed up on the shore and are dying.  The boy is picking up starfish and throwing them back into the water, when a man walks by and tells him there are way too many.  He can't make a difference.  The little boy throws another one into the ocean and replies "I made a difference for that one." 

I guess that's what I'm trying to say here.  The calling is not for everyone, but I believe the best way to make a difference in our dying society is to model as best we can a lifestyle that, should everyone else mimic it, would eradicate all the abuse and heartbreak of alcoholism, all the pain and grief caused by drunk drivers, and all the messed up young lives whose main ambition in life is "partying" with their friends. 

We have the right to do anything we want (within the law), but as Christians we have a higher calling.  In our society, does the highest calling mean we abstain from alcohol?  I think for me it does, whether I choose to rise to that call or not.  I speak from conviction not perfection, and I speak for no one else.
 
Kathy
May 30, 2008
Thank you, Tammy!  God has surely called us to be a separated people.  On this I think we all agree!  God bless you!
Kathy
May 30, 2008
Another powerful and related passage.  (The bold type is mine.)

8:1 Now concerning food offered to idols: we know that "all of us possess knowledge." "Knowledge" puffs up, but love builds up. 8:2 If any one imagines that he knows something, he does not yet know as he ought to know. 8:3 But if one loves God, one is known by him. 8:4 Hence, as to the eating of food offered to idols, we know that "an idol has no real existence," and that "there is no God but one." 8:5 For although there may be so-called gods in heaven or on earth--as indeed there are many "gods" and many "lords" -- 8:6 yet for us there is one God, the Father, from whom are all things and for whom we exist, and one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom are all things and through whom we exist. 8:7 However, not all possess this knowledge. But some, through being hitherto accustomed to idols, eat food as really offered to an idol; and their conscience, being weak, is defiled. 8:8 Food will not commend us to God. We are no worse off if we do not eat, and no better off if we do. 8:9 Only take care lest this liberty of yours somehow become a stumbling block to the weak. 8:10 For if any one sees you, a man of knowledge, at table in an idol's temple, might he not be encouraged, if his conscience is weak, to eat food offered to idols? 8:11 And so by your knowledge this weak man is destroyed, the brother for whom Christ died. 8:12 Thus, sinning against your brethren and wounding their conscience when it is weak, you sin against Christ. 8:13 Therefore, if food is a cause of my brother's falling, I will never eat meat, lest I cause my brother to fall.

Kathy
May 30, 2008
lol Shannon!  I hope it made everything better!
DarkRadiance
May 30, 2008

Good article (albeit long) here:

http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/14482a.htm 

Kathy
May 30, 2008

Wow, Malleus!  What a great article (novel)!  A thorough history on the temperance movement worldwide.  I was especially interested in the distinction of the temperance and abstinence movements in the U.S. and that Benjamin Rush had a part in the beginning.  Thanks for the link!

Kathy
May 30, 2008
I'm reading 1 Cor. today, and it seems the entire letter fits this blog:
10:23 "All things are lawful," but not all things are helpful. "All things are lawful," but not all things build up. 10:24 Let no one seek his own good, but the good of his neighbor.


This passage continues to again discuss the eating of food sacrificed to idols.  As other commenters have pointed out, the Corinthian church was apparently struggling with the same underlying issues we are discussing here.

Kathy
May 30, 2008

Ah, a great summary statement, for unity:

10:31 So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.

zachary snow
May 31, 2008
I was also raised as a Southern Baptist. I drink on occasion but hardly ever more than one drink in a night. I am more interested in the beginning of your blog. What did you think of the communion-with-wine experience before it all went south? I've never been able to do communion with wine, but I have found a kosher wine that is approved for passover use. It tastes much different than other wines i've had and really brought some new things to my mind. It was very bitter-sweet. It reminded me much of the cross and the suffering Jesus endured. It was bitter, but oh was it ever sweet. It is bitter to look into my heart and know that my sin nailed him to the cross, but it is sweet to know that he took my sin and nailed it to the cross and the depth of his love there is amazing. I think that wine would definitely enhance our communion experience if done correctly. Sorry for the rambling tangent. I'm a preacher's kid...I'm used to chasing rabbits :-)
Ian Grant Spong
June 01, 2008
Where did teetotaling come from?

Biblically, there is the example of teetotaling for those under a Nazirite vow. John the Baptist was also a teetotaler. It was an honorable vow for a specific purpose. It was neither a "higher calling" nor a badge of spiritual superiority. Jesus' calling was much higher than that of a Nazirite, and he was not a teetotaler. He turned water into wine, drank alcoholic wine at his Last Supper, and made it an element in one of the holiest rituals of the Christian church, communion. Paul recommended it for someone with the "high calling" of a minister of the Gospel and his stomach problems.

Modern teetotaling does not come from honest biblical exegesis, or even a biblical mandate, but from an overreaction against alcohol abuse and subsequent hysteria in the 19th century temperence movement. This movement was not a thoughtful biblical reformation, but a knee-jerk reaction to a social problem, which has since only served to divide Christians over a non-essential. Christians now compare brownie points over this non-essential and have created man-made rules which the Bible does not mandate and thus sown division within the Body of Christ.

If used moderately, alcohol was designed by God to be a blessing in the body of a normally healthy person. It cheers God and men (Judges 9:13), gladdens the heart (Psalms 104:15), gladdens life (Exodus 10:19), makes the heart rejoice (Zechariah 10:7), cheers up those who are depressed (Proverbs 31:6). Wine is to be imbibed with a cheerful heart (Ecclesiastes 9:7). It makes life merry (Ecclesiastes 10:19).
Kathy
June 01, 2008
Zach, thank you for your interesting perspective.  Not being used to wine for communion, I found nothing superior about it to grape juice.  Either way it is a worshipful experience of remembrance.  What I perceived in the experience I shared, however, turned from worship to a gathering of friends drinking, which offended me because of the guise of communion.  Many times I have attended gatherings with friends who are drinking, but it's a different thing to have such a gathering and call it worship.  Perhaps they were sincere, and I cannot be the judge of that, but I had to respond based on my own conscience.

Grant, if you reread my blog, I think you will see that I am not disagreeing with anything you have said.  I think you are hearing something in my words that I am not saying, especially pertaining to a higher calling.  I suspect, just as tee-totaling is historically a knee-jerk reaction (and I would agree with that from a historical perspective), the defense against it is likewise knee-jerk.  Humans are a knee-jerk group!

When I talked about a higher calling, I was not saying those who choose not to drink are more Christ-like.  I was saying they may be called to live above what is expected and legal, for the possible good of others.  One of my main points here was that we live in a different society from Jesus.  No, those who choose not to drink are not hearing a higher calling than Jesus heard!!!  They are hearing a calling in a different culture, with different dangers and different philosophies.  A calling that says, yes, it is legal and socially accpetable for me to drink, but I love these students so much, or I love my children so much, that I believe God wants ME to stand apart.  Not to judge my brothers and sisters, but to be a positive example to my small circle of influence. 

If every Christian were to abstain from alcohol (and I am not calling for that), I believe our world would be tremendously improved.  The percentage of Americans whose lives have been wrecked in some way by alcohol is great.  And I would say one of the geatest dangers in our society is turning to alcohol and other drugs to ease our sadness or depression.  Alcohol does not fix what's wrong in our lives, and the more one relies on it to do so, the more he must drink, and the less he is able to cope with life's battles.

For myself I cannot see how any particular food or drink could be worth such potential danger to our society.  (If we were discussing chocolate chip cookie dough ice cream, I might have to reconsider that statement.)  Yes, I am aware that some have linked a daily glass of wine to lower health risks, but I have yet to meet one person who honestly drinks for that reason.  We latch onto whatever defense we can find for whatever we have already made up our minds to do.

I can tell, Grant, that you enjoy your drink, and that my blog will not change that in any way, and I respect your choice.  It was not my intent with this blog to turn everyone into tee-totalers (a term for which I don't quality either), but to challenge us all to think about the many potentials we have in life to make a difference in our messed up world.  And without any real sacrifice!  I am a person filled with gladness, cheer, merriment, and rejoicing! 

The point I'm trying to make is one that is not easily captured in words, as words always invite debate.  My challenge here is a spiritual one, not really even about alcohol, but about rising above the status quo.  About hearing a different beat in the distance and marching to it against the crowd.  About seeing the potential each of us has in changing all that we so love to complain about in the world around us.  We are that world.  No man is an island.  I influence in some small way every person I encounter every day I live - at work, at church, at home, on-line . . .

You know, Grant, you are one of my favorite thinkers, and I am not trying to change your mind on this.  Just trying to get to you to grasp my perspective, which is not the typical extremist defense.  Will you at least drink to that?    :)
     As for the history of temperance and tee-totaling, the link Malleus added here is a good one.
Glenn
June 02, 2008
Kathy you said, "About seeing the potential each of us has in changing all that we so love to complain about in the world around us.  We are that world.  No man is an island.  I influence in some small way every person I encounter every day I live - at work, at church, at home, on-line . "

All I can say is well said.  I agree that we need to see our interactions within our world as an opportunity to shine Christ's love no matter where they are or where we are!  If we all strived to live this way, the world around us would truly know God's love for them!  Thanks Kathy.
peace
Kathy
June 02, 2008
Tammy, I too prefer joy that doesn't come in a bottle!  And I am the happiest person I know!   :)

Thank you, Glenn!  This is something I think about often, and I pray every morning that God will use me to make a difference for Him however He chooses that day.  Just a word, kind or degrading, can make or break someone else's day.  We are usually oblivious to the power we possess to influence our world.
Debbie Koch
June 02, 2008

I say what is in your heart?  I would never want to cause my brother to stumble!  

Ian Grant Spong
June 03, 2008
Sigh!
Kathy
June 03, 2008
Thanks, Debbie!  I'm sure we all agree on that!

Grant, methinks there's a novel in that one word!
  Have I told you lately that I think you're great!    :)
Joey     R
June 03, 2008
My biological Dad and his Dad were alcoholics.  Daddy, who adopted us, told us about their history with drinking.  
 
Greg may have an occassional beer, but that is about it.  As for me, I'm not allowed to drink anything, so I stay with coffee and water.  My RA Doc has me on very stong meds for my arthritis.
Kathy
June 05, 2008
Thanks for sharing your story, Joey.  It says a lot for you that you are able to heed your doctor's advice.  I have seen several cases of people who have been given similar warnings, but were too addicted to listen.  (None of them are alive.)


I am currently rereading The Man Who Moved a Mountain, a most entertaining, enlightening and inspiring biography set in the unique culture  of the Blue Ridge Mountains in the early 1900's.  A culture of moonshine stills, shootings, and uneducated religion.  Has a lot to say between the lines about the issue of Christianity and Alcohol, and about the Christian church.  Has anyone else here read it?  Definitely one of my favorite books ever!  (Available from
Jacob's Well for 12.32)
Ian Grant Spong
June 06, 2008

:)

Daniel Beasley
June 06, 2008
Southern Baptist Blogger Joe Carter wrote about this in a most challenging way in a post titled What Would Jesus Drink?  He writes:

     Can we be more ethical than Jesus?

     Most evangelicals would consider such a question to be the height of absurdity. Since we
     consider Jesus to be the very standard for moral conduct, it would be impossible to be more
     ethical than our own Redeemer. What we claim to believe, though, is often often betrayed by
     our actions.

     For example, while we Southern Baptists consider Christ to be the Creator and Sustainer of
     the cosmos, we do not consider him fit to
serve as a trustee for the Southern Baptist  Convention.
     Not only was Jesus a "user of alcoholic beverages" (
Luke 7:33-34) but he turned water into
     wine for a wedding (
John 2), a miracle that must be frowned upon by a group that is in "total
     opposition to the manufacturing, advertising, distributing, and consuming of alcoholic
     beverages."
Like they say, "read the rest."

Ian Grant Spong
June 06, 2008
Just excellent, Dan! We are Christians, not Welch's. Sometimes I do think that we try to be more "righteous" than Jesus.
Kathy
June 07, 2008
Pastor Dan, thank you for your input on the Southern Baptist position.  Although I am Southern Baptist, and I'm sure I must have read this resolution when it was made in 2006, I did not remember the details.  There is much in the current Southern Baptist culture that I do not agree with, and although I am advocating against alcohol, even on this issue it would be unfair to say I take the SBC position.  I completely agree with the reasons given in the resolution (the "Whereas" section), but do not conclude with their "Be it resolveds," and I am not calling for anyone to be "more ethical (or righteous) than Jesus."  Unfortunately I was unable to get to the article you cited and hope you'll come back and reset the link, as it seems a pertinent article to this discussion, and I appreciate your contribution!  (Since I couldn't read the article, I can't respond directly to you, as I don't know the position the article takes.)

As with many other issues within the church, drinking is not a black and white one.  I am suggesting here that it is not enough in today's cultural climate to simple choose "to drink or not to drink."  I have said I do not see drinking itself as a sin, although as to the question "What would Jesus drink," I have a feeling wine would not be his choice today.  My position is somewhere in the gray area.  It pertains not to what we allowed to do as Christians, but what we could choose to do, self-sacrificially, to change our world for the better.

We all (if we are of age) have a right to drink.  It is not my intent to infringe upon your right.  Nor am I naive enough to think we will all choose to be world-changers in every area of life.  Especially for those who are fortunate enough never to have been effected by alcoholism, this seems a ridiculous argument.  For those of us, however, who have watched the demise of generation after generation, easily traced to one person's addiction, and carried on by his/her children, and theirs, and theirs, there really is a higher calling.  Not higher than Jesus' calling, but higher than that of those who have not been forced to grasp the seriousness of this issue.  We do not live in Jesus' culture.  

"The book I mentioned,
The Man Who Moved a Mountain, is a clear picture of exactly what I am advocating here.  It's the true story of one man who heard that "higher calling."  It's a "dying to self" position, for a higher cause, of making a positive difference in the future of our culture.  It's a call to give up what is legally within my rights, for the sake of shaping a better world for all our children and grandchildren.

Grant and Pastor Dan, I respect both of you as fellow thinkers.  I know you both well enough to know you have thought through this issue and others extensively to reach your postions, as have I.  And as Tammy points out, if we personally enjoy drinking, we are far more likely to be advocates of it.  I respect your views, and stand in agreement with you against the black and white "you drink, you go to hell" position.  It is not for me to condemn anyone who chooses to drink alcohol, especially if he does so "responsibly."  That is his "right."  But I will maintain there is a "higher calling."

Thanks, Tammy, Pastor Dan, and Grant for adding to this important discussion.
Daniel Beasley
June 07, 2008
I guess the Permalink wasn't...  I should point out that Joe Carter is the Baptist in this mix.  I'm just one of those humble non-denominational types who's here "because of my hope in the resurrection of the dead."   ;-) 
Here's another version of that link:
http://www.evangelicaloutpost.com/archives/2007/05/what-would-jesu.html 
There are some great points made in the comments, btw, so be sure to read down the page.  Here's one of my favorites:
I was once in "mixed company" with some non-alcohol types who seemed a bit put off when I ordered a beer with my dinner. I raised my glass to them and said, "I'll not drink this beer, if you admit you are the weaker brethren." They seemed even more grumpy after that.
Kathy
June 07, 2008

Thank you, Pastor Dan.  A great article for this discussion!  The author makes the classic rebuttal to my position, with no surprises, many points of which have been made by commenters here.  Two observations:  1.  He is arguing a position in response to the SBC's polar position, with tongue occasionally in cheek, perhaps overstating his own passion in compensation for the hard-nosed "drinking is sin" mentality.  Some of the author's points pander to the unstudied reader (for example "But we should be cautious about where we mark those lines -- especially when they would put Jesus on the wrong side"), and I am sure he was aware of that.  2.  This article does not respond to my presented  position at all, but with the black and white.  Nonetheless, it is indeed pertinent here.

He said:  "I'm stymied by the obvious question: Why did Jesus not refrain from drinking alcohol if it is an obvious "stumbling block" to our "weaker brothers"?"  As I have stated repeatedly here, Jesus did not live in our 21st century American culture, and yes, that truly makes a difference, just as it makes a difference in interpreting the Apostle Paul's instructions concerning women in the church, and in interpreting the issues of slavery and polygamy . . . 

He said,
"Where does Christian liberty end and institutional authority over matters of conscience begin?"  Here I am in complete agreement with him.  The "higher calling" I talk about is not a mandated one, or an institutionalized one, but a very individual one, which those who see the world in only black and white will never understand.  Life is filled with these higher roads, and none of us take them all.  I think it takes a calling to step outside the culture (even, and perhaps especially, the Christian culture, which this author is doing, but he stops after breaking away from tradition, when there's still road ahead.)

""I'll not drink this beer, if you admit you are the weaker brethren." They seemed even more grumpy after that."  Arrogant and simple-minded statement.  Obviously self-serving and without respect or understanding for anyone other than self, as is this one:  "Let's assume every person is a potential nitwit and penalize him so that we superior people aren't inconvenienced by his weakness when it manifests itself."

A commenter said, "the irony to me is that it's rarely the "weaker brother" who is offended - it's people who have been Christians . . ."  
Again, the point is missed.  The weaker brother passage is not about "offending" others.  It is about loving them enough not to take a chance of causing them to stumble.  Our culture is filled with alcoholics, crowd followers, and victims of alcoholism, few of which wear those labels outwardly for us to see.  They will not be offended by our drinks, but they and their families may suffer greatly from their "stumbling."   

From the comments:  "It's pretty simple, don't drink until you become intoxicated. It is infantile to suggest that you are somehow helpless and unable to control yourself . . ."   Spoken in ignorance.  Sounds logical, but addiction does not respond to logic.

Another commenter says "Fact is, so many of us want black-n-white answers for all issues, when in fact there are indeed some gray areas."  Definitely, as with most issues we Christians debate.

Another commenter with whom I agree:  "I would call consumption of alcohol unwise. The scriptures do not seem to prohibit it totally, but the warnings by Solomon, Paul, and others cannot be dismissed lightly. It is better, especially in light of our confused culture, to abstain from intoxicants."

The difference I perceive in this debate is one of principle (with which a totally agree), vs. one of passion that comes from the wisdom of experience (which in this case is wisdom I guess one is blessed not to have).  I speak from both.  Please do not hear me as saying I live a higher road than other Christians.  I'm sure that is not so.  But on this issue, whether I walk the high road or not, I stand firmly by my assertion that such a higher road exists, for those who God calls to take it  There are higher roads in almost every decision in life, not just alcohol, should we seek them.

Thank you, Pastor Dan!  Wow, I didn't mean to spend so long on that article, but it was a good one!

Kathy
June 07, 2008

Thank you for coming back, Lara!  I like your perspective, and I love the sparkling juices too!

Kathy
June 07, 2008
lol Lara.  I've never tried that!  Is that better than the sparkling grape juice?
Jen Rebo
June 07, 2008

I finally get around to reading your blog and I've got 80-something comments to read, too.  Whew!  Great input, everyone.  Feelings run strong on this topic, don't they?

As you and I have talked about before, Kathy, I don't drink, either.  I used to, before I was a believer, and got drunk more times than I can remember.  Then, at the ripe old age of 18, I realized how stupid it was, and what stupid things I did when I was in that state, and I never got drunk again.  Once I became a Christian, I developed a "one beer" policy, as I knew that it wasn't enough to get me drunk.  Then, about five years ago, I stopped drinking altogether.  I had become allergic to something in beer and had breathing problems and hives if I drank any, even a swallow or two.  No more Moose Drool for Jen!  :-(

I don't see drinking as prohibited in the Bible, but getting drunk certainly is.  I hear what you're saying about feeling called to take the higher ground on it.  I consider that one of the benefits of me not drinking alcohol any longer.  Sad to say, I'm not motivated to give up foods with sugar in order to keep a brother with diabetes from stumbling.  (I wouldn't, however, offer him a piece of cake if he came to my house!)

Alcohol abuse is a very real problem in our society.  I think it would be awesome if all of us took the time to think/pray about what we could do to counteract its debilitating toll on our society. For some of us, the conviction might come to quit drinking, for others, it could be some other kind of action.  Who knows?  Well, actually, God knows.  I'd bet that He'd love to hear from His children that they are willing to be led by Him in how He'd like them to impact their world.  And I'd bet a lot of us would end up being surprised by what He wanted us to do. 

This topic hits close to home.  Last Sunday I got a call very early in the morning.  Some very good, very strong Christian friends from our church had just found out that their son had died from alcohol poisoning.  He had been partying the night before and was so wasted that his roommate had to put him to bed.  In the morning, he was found dead.  Needless to say, our friends are devistated.  Their son, thank God, was a true believer, but he had been caught up in the grips of alcohol off and on since he was in high school. 

Ian Grant Spong
June 08, 2008
Kathy, I respect your choice. It is an informed and thought out one, and in Christian freedom you have that right. My comments would be directed towards those judgmental ones who believe that we who imbibe moderately are merely seeking to "justify" something. I would challenge those who claim so, to truly justify their legalistic and Pharisaic approach to a blessing from God. I do not believe that it is can be justified by biblical Christianity, but only by self-righteous and imprisoning man-made rules.
Kathy
June 08, 2008
Jen, thank you for taking the time to read all these great comments, and for adding your own!  I especially like your 4th paragraph!  Your final story is tragic, and sent me to prayer for the family.  How can a family ever be prepared for such news?  Kids see themselves as so invinceable.  I remember feeling the same.  So very sad, Jen.

Thank you, Grant, for your graciousness.  I agree:  So much of today's church, not unlike the Pharisees of Jesus' day, seems to be mainly about a list of don'ts.  I feel certain God is just as saddened by our legalism as He was theirs.  I don't think I've ever seen legalism lead to a meaningful relationship with Christ.  If He gives us an inner passion, and we follow it, we are living in His power, and can expect to see great wonders as He works through us.  If those same actions are coerced or mandated, the power may come only from him who coerces, a weaker power indeed!  There is freedom and power in Christ Jesus!
Kathy
June 09, 2008
Well said, Tammy, and I'm in agreement with all you said!  Keep listening to the Spirit's guidance in your life!
Ronnie's blog
June 09, 2008
           I had not intended to answer this. I tried to read as much of this blog as I could. But Cathy, I'm 61 years old. I'm not getting any younger. So, I thought it best to just skip a lot and give my opinion. It's a great subject. I believe it all comes to how much you drink, how you act when you do. As said, there are "spirits" in the bottle and they come out in many ways with different people. I'm an old Army horse and have seen things none here, I believe, would ever want to.
We certainly learned to drink in the Army. In Vietnam, when possible. We got wrecked. Not to escape reality. But the pressure was so heavy all the time. One seamed to take a drink or two just to get in the same frame of mind and have laughs. God knows, we so needed laughs back there. I never drank on patrol, or duty and God help the man in my group who did.
Combat is VERY sobering. I have seen Westpoint grads panic on the first hint of it. No one knew how real combat would be. There were some young officers that had to be held down and their weapons taken from them. For their own protection.  I'm sure the guilt they would experience later was horrific.
When you are in charge of keeping men alive. The last thing you want to do is freeze.
I have always given the glory to God as to my ability to fight. Only he could have taken the fear out of me and allowed me to fight as I did.
I don't want any young people to misunderstand. But, I have learned to drink responsibly. I enjoy friends and family and we may at times get a little "over the top" as they say.
But , I have never started trouble or have had a mean nature when I do. I would not do so if I did.
I'm very sure the wine Jesus and the Apostles had was mighty fine, as they also say. I have had strong wine and it is one you have to learn to understand. Fine wine today is very expensive. As well as very tasty.
Many say they don't, and do. Many had rather not. That is their business. But I do enjoy a few beers, or a good wine at times. As it is Summer. Beer is my choice.
any who knows me by my blogs should know I love my Lord very much and if I believed it was evil. I certainly would keep away from it. There are other things that could be worst to have. Even too much sugar. I believe. Enjoy life and love the Lord. Pray for forgiveness if you are doing wrong, and do the best you can to win his favor.  God bless!!
Kathy
June 09, 2008

Lara, I'll give it a try and let you know what I think!    :)

Quite a sobering story, Golden.  You have lived through an experience that most of us cannot even find a framework to imagine.  You are to be honored.
 

Ian Grant Spong
June 11, 2008
I hope nobody minds if I disagree with Tammy on this issue. I do not mean to offend, but I believe that today's abuse of alcohol is like it was in Jesus' day. I don't see any difference. And, I still don't believe that we who are moderate are "justifying" this at all. It is a legitimate biblical choice that needs no justification.
Ronnie's blog
June 12, 2008
            Sorry I spelled your name with a "C" instead of a "K"
   I don't know if I'll ever get through with it. But I am writing a book about my life in the Military and working for certain "Government Agencies" in my past. Though much can not be revealed. I have plenty to tell still. It is not a book for the faint hearted. There are many battles and covert happenings that went on by those of us who would have done anything to end that war correctly.
When I think of the over 2 million people murdered after we left. The "Killing Fields in Cambodia.  
   I feel there is way to little told about what truly happened in that country.
  I have only heard a few stories told about a war that started for us in 1964 and ended in the middle 70's. Certainly, people "Must" have some idea that much more went down than what they have been told in all that time.
   There are many battles fought that are yet to be told of. The problem being. Not many who were in them are either alive or can seam to put it on paper.
   There is also the fact that much is like a bad dream and is forgotten in a short amount of time. That is a protection the brain has to keep you sane. So I was told.
     What hurts many people who saw combat and do so now. Is the way politicians use us to gain power and great ritchies. Those fighting are dong so for the ideals this country was founded on. It's a shame we have very few who still live by them today. It's an "all about me" world today!!
Chris McGown
June 12, 2008
Wow!  What an interesting conversation.   I just fear that this 'conversation' is edging toward the very divisivness that Paul warns about.  
Kathy
June 12, 2008
Grant, the word justification has acquired a perhaps undeserved negative connotation, somewhat like the word evolution.  In its basest sense, we all justify all our choices, not that we have to, but that we choose to because we believe in them.  It was in that sense of the word that I used it here.  Many of my blogs, including this one, are justifications of what I believe and why I believe it, with full acknowledgment that there are legitimate justifications for differing opinions.

Golden, I just finished rereading my great uncle's WWII memoirs, and I say, keep on writing!  Tell your story, so that when someone really desires to understand, the words will be preserved!  You have my admiration!

Hi Chris.  Nice to meet you!  It is never my intent to divide God's people, but to unite us by discussing our divisive issues together.  Thanks for reading and sharing!
Scott Schneider
June 12, 2008
WOW!  look at all the comments...I think you struck a cord here.

In reading all the comments, I had to throw my 2 cents in to the mix, with one statement:

"How many people at the Wedding that Jesus turned water into wine, could legally drove home?(if they had cars)

I propose that not only is drinking not a sin, but it seems like there are occasions that drinking more than one glass of wine is Ok.

Great topic and blog
Blessings
Scott Schneider
From Gresham Oregon
Kathy
June 13, 2008
Hi Scott!  Welcome to MyChurch, and thank you for participating in this discussion! 

My position here is that the culture of our day demands a different treatment of drinking from that of Jesus' day.  Jesus was not making any moral statement about drinking when he turned the water into wine.  Wine was simply an unquestioned part of the culture in which He lived, as was slavery.  Of course there was no "legal" level of intoxication even thought about, because, as you point out, no one had ever been killed by a drunk donkey driver, or a weaving pedestrian.
Cynthia Zirkwitz
July 18, 2008

I'm a late reader of this blog and its comments.  It was very enlightening to me.

I grew up in an alcoholic culture and pretty much bought into the whole concept of "social drinking" and using alcohol to dull the senses or distract from unpleasantness.  It's a mood-modifier.

When I met my husband he also drank.  But then he began to study the Bible and impressed me with the concept of the body being the temple of our souls.  Why would I want to blear up our communication with the Holy Spirit?  That's how it comes out for me.  Same goes for highly processed foods, overeating, etc. etc.-- we give in to those 'unnatural' substances (not really nurturing in any sense of the word).  A woman who doesn't know she is pregnant can drink and cause fetal alcohol effects for her unborn infant-- scientists don't know yet when/how much alcohol is the trigger.  And a well-studied Messianic Jew I know does contend that in the days of the Bible the 'new wine' was indeed fresh grape juice-- the same wine that Paul suggested Timothy take-- a different word from the more highly fermented 'old wine' -- the new wine was stored in 'new skins' so as not to be fermented by the 'old wine'-- just like I remove any molding fruit from a bowl before the unblighted fruit is affected.

Nothing new here for most folks, I'm sure, and it probably sounds quite legalistic.

I don't drink largely for health reasons, but also because any alcohol has an effect on my brain that I can prevent.  The so-called health benefits of red wine found in resveratrol are also found in unfermented grape juice or in just eating grapes themselves.  There are lots of reasons to keep drinking, smoking, and overeating.  We're human.

And just to update people who believe that somehow the French have a superior ability to drink without any 'issues' a July AA Review in the UK records this: "Binge-drinking has increasingly come under the media spotlight. Multiple cases of teenage students turning up to school blind drunk have been reported, as have incidents of young people suffering temporary alcohol-induced comas. Just last month, an 18-year-old student in central France drank himself to death while celebrating his passage of the baccalaureate exam." Looks like the god Bacchus is having his way with French youth (European youth, actually-- youth binge drinking is widespread) as well as North American youth.

Thought-provoking, as all of your blogs tend to be, Kathy.  Thank you.

God bless, Cynthia 

Kathy
July 19, 2008

Cynthia, thanks for your very interesting comments, and it's never too late to participate in a blog discussion!

Kathy
November 26, 2008
The Psalmist praised God for providing plants for man to cultivate for food and "wine to gladden the heart the man."  (Ps. 104:15)  Seems to clearly dispute the claim that wine was merely a beverage, or that it was unfermented. 
Ian Grant Spong
October 29, 2009
Some in this blog have claimed that we will look for any excuse to have a drink. Ridiculous! I don't need an excuse to partake of what God has provided for as a completely legitimate choice. The Methodist Church which we sometimes attend discourages any use alcohol. They even changed the Communion to conform to their own prejudices so as to avoid alcohol. When Jesus instituted it, he used wine. It seems to me that we are sometimes trying to be more righteous than our wine drinking, wine miracle making Savior.
Kathy
October 29, 2009

Hi Grant!  Nice to hear from you again!