God can, hon.  I know it scares ya to have to try to tell her, but you need to be honest with her, and yes, deal with the consequenses.  Lying is not an option.  Pray God would give you the courage to talk to her, and the words to speak.  None of us can do anymore than just give you "advice," but God can be your comfort.  Good "luck".  Let me know how it goes.