In the NIV translation of the Bible they have added these words, "keep no record of wrongs," in the text from 1 Cor. 13:4,5. "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs (NIV - not found in the NKJV)." Someone added this verse into a discussion that we were having regarding forgiveness. They asked, "how can we rebuke someone until they repent, without keeping a record of their wrongs?" They said this because they believe we are to forgive everyone, regardless if they repent or not. Even though Jesus says in Luke 17:3, "take heed to yourselves. If your brother sins against you, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him," they somehow think that Jesus did away with that instruction, when He died on the cross. Regardless, I'd like to think through those 5 words that the NIV adds. First, these words don't have to mean that the action of repentance hasn't taken place yet. The person was reading that into those verses. Keep no record of wrongs can include, after a person has repented and you have forgiven them; then you keep no record of what they did. After this you could apply the discussion to the 70 x 7 verses, "Peter came to Jesus and asked, "Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times?" Jesus answered, "I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times (Matt 18:21,22 - NIV)." If we can keep the words added by the NIV and then apply the verses above to it, I think we come up with this discussion. Are we to forget how many times the person has repeated the offense and then asked for our forgiveness? I think it is somewhat impossible to do, what do you think? |