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We are ALL Jacked up!
Now, I don't mean that by saying we are like high or spaced out, drugged up...I mean, we are all messed up! We ALL have pain, problems and troubles. Every single one of us do. If we were to say we didn't...then we would be the biggest liars around. Here's the deal, we want other's to believe or see that we have our acts together. We have the perfect family, perfect spouse, perfect life...when in reality, we are all struggling with something. Something that we hide. Yes, I said it...we hide it. Take this scripture out of Genesis....after Adam and Eve had eaten the forbidden fruit from the Tree that God had specifically told them NOT to.... 3:8 And they heard the voice of Jehovah God walking in the garden in the cool of the day: and the man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of Jehovah God amongst the trees of the garden. 3:9 And Jehovah God called unto the man, and said unto him, Where art thou? 3:10 And he said, I heard thy voice in the garden, and I was afraid, because I was naked; and I hid myself.
They were ashamed of what they had done....and then they hid. See, we've been doing it forever! God knew where they were the whole time and He knew what they had done. Can't hide from God!
We go to church and someone will ask us, "how are you doing?" and how do we respond? "Why, I am just great, thank you and how are you!" We LIE! We hide it. And those that ask, do they REALLY want to know? Wouldn't you just love for somebody to ask you how you are doing and you just unload it! If so, why don't we? It's a pride issue. (yes, that P word) But you see, The Cross of Jesus Christ DESTROYS PRIDE. We need to be walking in confession. If we are not then we are living a lie. The true church will respond the way that Jesus would want them to. It's okay...I guarantee you that the pastors in that church are all in the same boat. I repeat...We are all jacked up! What I wouldn't give to go to a service and hear the preacher just unload it! Or how about this...a sermon titled "Let's Unpack our Junk" .
You see, when we sit in our happy place, thinking that we are okay and we can make it, even though we are hurting beyond belief...we are telling God that we don't need his help. How can HE do a good work in us if we won't even confess that we are messed up. We put up a wall in between ourselves and the ONE who can make us whole again. He so wants to make us whole again, fix us. He is just waiting for us to confess it. Remember, He knows...He sees. The following song lyrics are from Casting Crowns' Stained Glass Masquerade.
Is there anyone that fails Is there anyone that falls Am I the only one in church today feelin' so small
Cause when I take a look around Everybody seems so strong I know they'll soon discover That I don't belong
So I tuck it all away, like everything's okay If I make them all believe it, maybe I'll believe it too So with a painted grin, I play the part again So everyone will see me the way that I see them
Are we happy plastic people Under shiny plastic steeples With walls around our weakness And smiles to hide our pain But if the invitation's open To every heart that has been broken Maybe then we close the curtain On our stained glass masquerade
Is there anyone who's been there Are there any hands to raise Am I the only one who's traded In the altar for a stage
The performance is convincing And we know every line by heart Only when no one is watching Can we really fall apart
But would it set me free If I dared to let you see The truth behind the person That you imagine me to be
Would your arms be open Or would you walk away Would the love of Jesus Be enough to make you stay ******************************************
How much more free will you be, once you have let it go, unpacked your junk? Imagine not having to "put on airs". Imagine just being able to tell it like it is the next time someone asks, "how are you doing?" And for those of you who ask that question...you really should be prepared to hear it....otherwise, don't ask.
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| To add a comment to "We are ALL Jacked Up!" |
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| August 01, 2008 |
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| You are right Val..Casting crowns but I also have a version by third day....You are so right too we hide our true feelings..often because we know that most people don't give a hoot if we are ok or not. Try it out sometime...say NO I am feeling rubbish....nine times out of ten ppl will make an excuse and leave...one or two will genuinely want to help. Great word Val! |
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| August 01, 2008 |
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There is no time for that anymore -- there is a part of the Body who is not looking at life like this anymore --- I just want to be one of them ---- I must look at the field - for it is dying and white!
I don't care what other people say or think -- I can't control that -- my mind isn't on that -- my world --
I love you Valarie - proud to serve with you! xoxoxoxoxox |
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| August 01, 2008 |
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| True Mrs W, I want that too! |
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| August 01, 2008 |
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I am trying so hard to walk in Confession. I want to be real! Thanks for your comments Super Stu and Mrs W. And I too am proud to serve with you! |
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| August 01, 2008 |
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Amen Stu -- Something is happening to the American Church finally--- There is just somethings that are NOT important anymore --- not compared to PEOPLE
xoxoxoxoxoxo |
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| August 01, 2008 |
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Oh Lara! I love you girl! I think what you just wrote could be my junk being unloaded!! (except the anger issues...that one belongs to the hubby...LOL) I agree, too that there are some things that you just don't have to include. When I say walk in confession, I don't necessarily mean that we give them ALL the details. Just be honest when someone asks you if you are doing okay...don't put on that happy smiley face and say, "I'm GREAT". When in fact you may not be. I think more times than not, I respond with a "I'm blessed". That is truth and it gives them a response that they can handle. I just hate to see people who I know that I know who are in so much pain, but they are masking it big time. We are the body! We are supposed to reach out and help. Inside and outside the church. Thanks for your comment. |
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| August 01, 2008 |
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| I am not all that and a bag of chips that is for sure. It's only by God's grace that I am even where I am in life. I am not perfect, but I love the Lord and am looking to please Him. Just want to be a servant and to be a blessing. If I can't be honest and I can't be allowed to make mistakes how can I grow? Hypocrisy has to go. We can't act like we have it all together when we are really jacked up. |
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| August 01, 2008 |
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One thing I know Iam not perfect, when someone ask me how Iam doing I say so and so..or I have my moments, and sometimes Iam blessed.. My heart is being fix by people who has hurt me..I have a slight fear of people, cause I been hurt to deep..I learn to guard my heart and soul..my past has died I am nolonger there,but a new creation of who God wants me to be..I got my bit on and the Lord got the reins to control my mouth..When my mom died my whole family have died to.including me.we nolonger get together.for me I just move on and keep my eyes on the Lord.When times comes my family will be together I pray so it will not be to late.. .My daughter and I are building our mom and daughter back up..we have come a long ways Thank you Jesus,, Thank you Val for posting this. it is needed to remind us we need to confess unto the Lord. I agree with Mrs.W and I agree with Stu people will make an excuse to leave..sad but the truth..even Christians do it..as when they do that I forgive them and move on.. |
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| August 01, 2008 |
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Valarie, Best blog that I have read in a long time. I have often asked myself the same question. Why do people put on such airs???? We all have problems and nobody is perfect. We have been brainwashed to believe that we should be like Ozzie and Harriett(LOL). You know what? when you actuallly tell people the honest truth, they can't handle it. They look at you like you're crazy and ease away. You're right, if you truly don't want to know, don't ask. My response like yours is usually "Blessed" and I truly am. If it wasn't for my Father, I don't know what I would do....
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| August 01, 2008 |
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I try very hard to be real.....sometimes I fail and put on that smiley face when that's not how I feel... |
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| August 01, 2008 |
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| I TRUELY BELIEVE EVERYTHING U SAID AND YES I WOULD AND AM DOING THOSE THINGS AND SHARING ALL MY JUNK AND LETTING THEM HEAR IT AND I DON'T LEAVE ANYTHING OUT AND I REALLY UNLOAD WHEN I DO UNLOAD AND MAN U GOTTA BE READY FOR ME AMEN AND WELL U GO GIRL U GOT IT GOING ON AND U KNOW JUST WHAT TO SAY AND IF I COULD'VE SAID IT BETTER I WOULD'VE SAID IT THE SAME WAY BUT WITH DIFFERENT WORDS CUZ I AM DIFFERENT THAN U AND SAY THINGS DIFFERENTLY TOO AND WELL IO AM PROUD OF U FOR STICKING UP AND STANDING FOR SOMETHING U FEEL STRONGLY ABOUT WOW U ARE TRUELY A GODSEND AND A CHILD OF THE KING AND A DAUGHTER OF CHRIST JESUS AMEN OXOXOX HUGS AND KISSES AND I WILL BE PRAYING FOR NOT ONLY U BUT FOR OTHER PEOPLE AND I DO ALSO AGREE WITH EVERYTHING EVERYBODY ELSE WROTE OK U ALL ARE A GODSEND BLESSING TO ME AMEN |
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| August 01, 2008 |
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Amen Bro Todd! You know....I see a lot of hypocrisy in my church and it gets pretty depressing...you are right, it's GOTTA GO!
Shelley, I am so sorry about your mom, but I am so proud of you for continuing to seek the face of God. It truly is the only answer to our troubles. He is there and He wants to renew us. Sounds like you have been spending some time in the book of James! I love that book. One of my favorites. Praying for you girl!
Mstovall20...Thank you! You know...I use to watch Ozzie and Harriet all the time. (nick at night) I always wondered to myself...does this family really exist and if so....WHERE! LOL My husband and I have a mentor couple....they were our first pastors. They are such a blessing to us.....I agree, we should all have a mentor.
Lara....I am right there too. I see so many in my own life that have been rejected already. It's not what God has called us to do. How can we reject someone for their "junk" when we have our own that we deal with. It's like that passage in Matthew about the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye.....you know the one?
We all fail Lou Who....it seems so easy to just put on that smiley face than to let it go.
Rebekah...thank you hun....These words are things that I brought back from camp the other day, but truly do feel so much the same. The camp pastor just helped me to put it into some good words. It's hard to not be fake though. It's hard to walk in confession, especially when you have been burned by some in your own church body. The easy way out is always .....easier. But nothing we do for Christ has ever been said to be EASY! |
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| August 02, 2008 |
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I am so proud of the band of Christian warriors we have here!! I am happy to fight next to you Val! All of you |
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| August 02, 2008 |
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| This is such a good one... it reminds me of one of my favorite songs when I am "in the slough of despond" (to paraphrase Pilgrim's Progress)... the chorus says something like, "No more pretending, no more pretending, I need to tell You the truth tonight, everything is NOT allright in my life, and I need You like never before, I don't want to pretend anymore..." I've sung that one a lot in the last four years..... |
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| August 02, 2008 |
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Hi Val.
I agree with Stu above. My own version is, as long as we mask it up, pretend its not happening, we seem to get away with it. But when we're stripped naked and everything is exposed, there's still a bit of hiding that we do, but you tell anybody how you're feeling other than "I'm OK", now that'swhen it separates the sheep from the goats - because the vast majority don't care. |
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| August 02, 2008 |
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Cella Jean! I love you girl! I try to always be, if nothing else, REAL. I am a sinner saved by Grace. I am NOTHING without HIM. I am all Jacked up!, but He loves me anyway! I'm so glad!!!!
Bubbles! I will fight right by your side my friend. You, I admire so much and your strength is amazing to me! It is a true Honor to serve with YOU!
GrammyB...I have never heard that song before...but I sure do love that chorus. " I don't want to pretend ANYMORE!"
Stevie Bee....Youa re right....the vast majority Do NOT care. The only ask to be nice or because they feel they are dong the right thing. That is truly what keeps more people out there from unpacking the junk. Like the line in the song says....
Would your arms be open Or would you walk away Would the love of Jesus Be enough to make you stay
Unfortunately....it wouldn't be enough for some. *sigh*
Thanks for all your comments! You all are wonderful! |
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| August 11, 2008 |
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| Boy did I need this today! |
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| August 11, 2008 |
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‹(•¿•)›¨¯¯¨¨˜"ª¤ GREAT POST ¤ª"˜¨¨¯¯¨‹(•¿•)› I just love this post! I HAVE unloaded to people when they ask and I have some really great friends to deal with me! Yet there have been some who think, "JEEZ" I am sure!! LOL! I am honest and I talk TOO much but, Oh, well...I am me and that's ok! Thanks, Val! |
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| February 06, 2009 |
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How did I ever miss this blog? Well, thanks to Sugg for reposting it!! Oh, and here's the star this originally deserved! lol
(darn I really miss Patty!) |
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| February 06, 2009 |
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What fun! I remember this.
Mike - I just sent Patti a card. I'll let yall know if I hear from her. |
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