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We are ALL Jacked Up!
||August 01, 2008|618 reads
 

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Steel Horse
August 01, 2008
You are right Val..Casting crowns but I also have a version by third day....You are so right too we hide our true feelings..often because we know that most people don't give a hoot if we are ok or not. Try it out sometime...say NO I am feeling rubbish....nine times out of ten ppl will make an excuse and leave...one or two will genuinely want to help. Great word Val!
Mrs W
August 01, 2008
There is no time for that anymore -- there is a part of the Body who is not looking at life like this anymore --- I just want to be one of them ---- I must look at the field - for it is dying and white!  

I don't care what other people say or think -- I can't control that -- my mind isn't on that --
my world --

I love you Valarie - proud to serve with you! 
xoxoxoxoxox
Steel Horse
August 01, 2008
True Mrs W, I want that too!
Valarie
August 01, 2008
I am trying so hard to walk in Confession. I want to be real!
Thanks for your comments Super Stu and Mrs W. And I too am proud to serve with you!
Mrs W
August 01, 2008
Amen Stu -- Something is happening to the American Church finally---
There is just somethings that are NOT important anymore --- not compared to PEOPLE

xoxoxoxoxoxo
Valarie
August 01, 2008
Oh Lara! I love you girl!  I think what you just wrote could be my junk being unloaded!! (except the anger issues...that one belongs to the hubby...LOL)  I agree, too that there are some things that you just don't have to include. When I say walk in confession, I don't necessarily mean that we give them ALL the details. Just be honest when someone asks you if you are doing okay...don't put on that happy smiley face and say, "I'm GREAT". When in fact you may not be. I think more times than not, I respond with a "I'm blessed". That is truth and it gives them a response that they can handle. I just hate to see people who I know that I know who are in so much pain, but they are masking it big time. We are the body! We are supposed to reach out and help. Inside and outside the church.
Thanks for your comment.
Brother Todd
August 01, 2008
I am not all that and a bag of chips that is for sure.  It's only by God's grace that I am even where I am in life.  I am not perfect, but I love the Lord and am looking to please Him.  Just want to be a servant and to be a blessing.  If I can't be honest and I can't be allowed to make mistakes how can I grow?  Hypocrisy has to go.  We can't act like we have it all together when we are really jacked up.
Shelley
August 01, 2008

One thing I know Iam not perfect, when someone ask me how Iam doing I say so and so..or I have my moments, and sometimes Iam blessed.. My heart is being fix by people who has hurt me..I have a slight fear of people, cause I been hurt to deep..I learn to guard my heart and soul..my past has died I am nolonger there,but a new creation of who God wants me to be..I got my bit on and the Lord got the reins to control my mouth..When my mom died my whole family have died to.including me.we nolonger get together.for me I just move on and keep my eyes on the Lord.When times comes my family will be together I pray so it will not be to late..
.My daughter and I are building our mom and daughter back up..we have come a long ways Thank you Jesus,,
Thank you Val for posting this. it is needed to remind us we need to confess unto the Lord.
I agree with Mrs.W and I agree with Stu people will make an excuse to leave..sad but the truth..even Christians do it..as when they do that I forgive them  and move on..

mstovall2003
August 01, 2008
Valarie,  Best blog that I have read in a long time.  I have often asked myself the same question.  Why do people put on such airs????  We all have problems and nobody is perfect.  We have been brainwashed to believe that we should be like Ozzie and Harriett(LOL).  You know what? when you actuallly tell people the honest truth, they can't handle it.  They look at you like you're crazy and ease away.  You're right, if you truly don't want to know, don't ask.  My response like yours is usually "Blessed" and I truly am.  If it wasn't for my Father, I don't know what I would do....

Much Love
Cindy
August 01, 2008

I try very hard to be real.....sometimes I fail and put on that smiley face when that's not how I feel...

rebekah byrne
August 01, 2008
I TRUELY BELIEVE EVERYTHING U SAID AND YES I WOULD AND AM DOING THOSE THINGS AND SHARING ALL MY JUNK AND LETTING THEM HEAR IT AND I DON'T LEAVE ANYTHING OUT AND I REALLY UNLOAD WHEN I DO UNLOAD AND MAN U GOTTA BE READY FOR ME AMEN AND WELL U GO GIRL U GOT IT GOING ON AND U KNOW JUST WHAT TO SAY AND IF I COULD'VE SAID IT BETTER I WOULD'VE SAID IT THE SAME WAY BUT WITH DIFFERENT WORDS CUZ I AM DIFFERENT THAN U AND SAY THINGS DIFFERENTLY TOO AND WELL IO AM PROUD OF U FOR STICKING UP AND STANDING FOR SOMETHING U FEEL STRONGLY ABOUT WOW U ARE TRUELY A GODSEND AND A CHILD OF THE KING AND A DAUGHTER OF CHRIST JESUS AMEN OXOXOX HUGS AND KISSES AND I WILL BE PRAYING FOR NOT ONLY U BUT FOR OTHER PEOPLE AND I DO ALSO AGREE WITH EVERYTHING EVERYBODY ELSE WROTE OK U ALL ARE A GODSEND BLESSING TO ME AMEN
Valarie
August 01, 2008
Amen Bro Todd!  You know....I see a lot of hypocrisy in my church and it gets pretty depressing...you are right, it's GOTTA GO!

Shelley, I am so sorry about your mom, but I am so proud of you for continuing to seek the face of God. It truly is the only answer to our troubles. He is there and He wants to renew us. Sounds like you have been spending some time in the book of James! I love that book. One of my favorites.  Praying for you girl!

Mstovall20...Thank you! You know...I use to watch Ozzie and Harriet all the time. (nick at night) I always wondered to myself...does this family really exist and if so....WHERE! LOL  My husband and I have a mentor couple....they were our first pastors. They are such a blessing to us.....I agree, we should all have a mentor.

Lara....I am right there too. I see so many in my own life that have been rejected already. It's not what God has called us to do. How can we reject someone for their "junk" when we have our own that we deal with. It's like that passage in Matthew about the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye.....you know the one? 

We all fail Lou Who....it seems so easy to just put on that smiley face than to let it go.

Rebekah...thank you hun....These words are things that I brought back from camp the other day, but truly do feel so much the same. The camp pastor just helped me to put it into some good words. It's hard to not be fake though. It's hard to walk in confession, especially when you have been burned by some in your own church body. The easy way out is always .....easier. But nothing we do for Christ has ever been said to be EASY!
Hudnall
August 02, 2008

I am so proud of the band of Christian warriors we have here!!
I am happy to fight next to you Val!
All of you

GrammyB
August 02, 2008
This is such a good one... it reminds me of one of my favorite songs when I am "in the slough of despond" (to paraphrase Pilgrim's Progress)... the chorus says something like, "No more pretending, no more pretending, I need to tell You the truth tonight, everything is NOT allright in my life, and I need You like never before, I don't want to pretend anymore..."  I've sung that one a lot in the last four years.....
Old Man of The North
August 02, 2008
Hi Val.

I agree with Stu above.  My own version is, as long as we mask it up, pretend its not happening, we seem to get away with it.  But when we're stripped naked and everything is exposed, there's still a bit of hiding that we do, but you tell anybody how you're feeling other than "I'm OK", now that'swhen it separates the sheep from the goats - because the vast majority don't care.
Valarie
August 02, 2008
Cella Jean! I love you girl! I try to always be, if nothing else, REAL. I am a sinner saved by Grace. I am NOTHING without HIM. I am all Jacked up!, but He loves me anyway! I'm so glad!!!!

Bubbles!  I will fight right by your side my friend. You, I admire so much and your strength is amazing to me! It is a true Honor to serve with YOU!

GrammyB...I have never heard that song before...but I sure do love that chorus. " I don't want to pretend ANYMORE!"

Stevie Bee....Youa re right....the vast majority Do NOT care. The only ask to be nice or because they feel they are dong the right thing. That is truly what keeps more people out there from unpacking the junk. Like the line in the song says....

Would your arms be open
Or would you walk away
Would the love of Jesus
Be enough to make you stay

Unfortunately....it wouldn't be enough for some. *sigh*

Thanks for all your comments!
You all are wonderful!

Patti  Hagadorn
August 11, 2008
Boy did I need this today!
Debra Alphs
August 11, 2008

‹(•¿•)›¨¯¯¨¨˜"ª¤ GREAT POST ¤ª"˜¨¨¯¯¨‹(•¿•)› I just love this post! I HAVE unloaded to people when they ask and I have some really great friends to deal with me! Yet there have been some who think, "JEEZ" I am sure!! LOL! I am honest and I talk TOO much but, Oh, well...I am me and that's ok! Thanks, Val!

Mike n Laura
February 06, 2009
How did I ever miss this blog? Well, thanks to Sugg for reposting it!! Oh, and here's the star this originally deserved! lol

(darn I really miss Patty!)
Hudnall
February 06, 2009
What fun!  I remember this.

Mike - I just sent Patti a card.  I'll let yall know if I hear from her.