and in all this that i see in the video in your teachings i do not see the mercy of God mentioned

In order to enter THE KINGDOM OF GOD, ONE MUST BE BORN AGAIN. John 3/3. Once you are born-again and  WILLFULLY SIN THERE IS NO FORGIVENESS FOR THIS SIN.  Hebrews chapter 10/26 ( read the whole chapter) for full explanation.  Also you may want to read Hebrews chapter 6, it speaks of repentance from dead works.  Also Matthew chapter 5 speaks of righteousness and who will NOT enter into the Kingdom of Heaven. 

 This part here is what i do not agree with we all at one time or another have sinned willfully so if what you are writing here is true then non of us have a chance is this what you are saying marcie?

David,  Jesus expects us to live according to His commands and He said to even look at a woman to lust is adultery. Now, would you say that Jesus Christ is not showing mercy here?

Grace is chen in Hebrew and charis in Greek. In both languages it may be translated as favor. However, in relation to G-d, grace is not passive favor, such as "to receive favor," rather it is active favor, such as "to be favored with a gift." This active form is the way grace is to be understood in Scripture. In fact, charis is translated as gift many times in the New Covenant writings in connection with the gifts of the Holy Spirit (1 Cor 12:4). In this context it clearly means an endowment or enablement.

G-d's grace is His willingness to provide us with His enablement. When "Noah found grace in the eyes of the L-RD" (Genesis 6:8), it says in the Hebrew "Noach matsa chen b'ayini YHVH."  This may also be translated, "By the vision of the L-RD Noah came forth enabled," or even "Noah was gifted through the insight of YHVH." Grace does not mean that G-d accepts us regardless of our actions, but that G-d makes us acceptable. He provides the means whereby we can be accepted by Him.

The belief that grace and mercy are near synonyms, almost interchangeable concepts, is a gross misunderstanding by many. So much of Christianity thinks of grace as a kind of blanket mercy which is constantly forgiving all sin and cancels out the Law of G-d. Many have believed the error that grace allows them to disobey G-d's Law; that since grace abounds, sin may abound without penalty. This is especially taught by those who wish to ignore the eternal Law of G-d, or certain parts of it. Such doctrine is a nearly fatal error, because it waters down G-d's righteousness and calls into question His eternal faithfulness. It also misconstrues His kindness, and many have gone astray and departed from the truth because of this misinformation. Disdain for G-d's Law puts one in mortal danger. Hopefully, this danger can be reduced through a fuller understanding of the Word.

Mercy is the forgiveness of G-d that comes as a result of sincere repentance (changing directions). When we sin, then sincerely repent of that sin by changing our actions and relying on His righteousness, G-d will forgive our sin. "Sin is transgression of the Law [Torah]," (1 John 3:4). Therefore, when we know we have transgressed the Law of G-d we are required to repent of our way and return to walking after His Law, which is His light. His mercy allows us to return to Him.

"For the commandment is a lamp, and the Torah [Law] is light, and reproofs of instruction are the way of life," (Proverbs 6:23).

"Yes, all Israel has transgressed Your Torah, even by departing, that they might not obey Your voice; therefore the curse is poured upon us, and the oath that is written in the Torah of Moses the servant of God, because we have sinned against Him," (Daniel 9:11).

"If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:8,9). "If we say that we have fellowship with him, and walk in darkness, we lie, and do not perform the truth. But if we walk in the light, just as He is in the light, we have fellowship together, and the blood of Yeshua HaMashiach, His Son cleanses us from all sin," (1 John 1:6,7).

This clearly shows that G-d's mercy abounds to forgive sin because of the blood sacrifice of Yeshua. However, walking in the light of G-d, His Torah, is also necessary for fellowship to continue with Him. G-d's light is all the instruction that He has ever spoken.

G-d's grace, on the other hand, is the very thing we need in order to perform that which is pleasing to Him, namely to obey His Law. This is why Sha'ul (Paul) said, "Where sin abounds grace does much more abound," (Romans 5:20). Sha'ul did not mean that sin no longer mattered, or that grace would overlook sin. Rather, it is grace that is needed to bring righteousness into action in our lives, which is why he states, "That as sin has ruled until death, even so might grace rule through righteousness until eternal life by Adonai Yeshua HaMashiach," (Romans 5:21).

Grace rules through righteousness. So grace is the enablement to act out righteousness. Grace does not forgive sin, nor does it cancel the Law! "Shall we continue sinning that grace may abound? May it never be! How shall we who are dead to sin live any longer in it?" (Romans 6:1,2). Grace, then, is the power not to sin! Not to transgress the Law! The goal is to become like Messiah Yeshua who was perfect in all points of the Law, "full of grace and truth."

So the difference is this: mercy forgives us of sin, but it is grace that enables us not to sin.

When Paul said we are no longer under the Law, but under grace (Romans 6:14, 15), he was not negating the Law, but instead emphasizing our power toward the Law because of grace. The Law is no longer something pressing on us to showcase how unlawful we are. Rather, now grace is pressing on us to fill us with the righteous nature of G-d Himself. In such a case the Law is no longer a burden, but rather the usual result of being filled with the divine nature. "For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments, and His commandments are not burdensome," (1 John 5:3).

It is the grace of G-d toward us that provides us with the New Covenant in Messiah Yeshua. The prophet noted that this "new covenant" was to be marked by a new relationship with the Law [Torah]; not negating the Law, but putting it in us! "Behold, the days come, say YHVH, that I will make a new covenant with the house of Israel, and with the house of Judah. Not according to the covenant that I made with their fathers...But this shall be the covenant that I will make with the house of Israel: After those days, says YHVH, I will put my Torah [Law] in their inward parts, and write it in their hearts; and will be their God, and they shall be my people," (Jeremiah 31:31-33).

We may say then, that the grace of G-d concerning the New Covenant is the ability to perform the Law with power from the inner person. So the purpose of Sha'ul, in all his teaching about the Law, must not have been to put it away. But rather, he is showing off the grace of G-d in turning us from viewing the Law as a stumbling block, to it being placed in our very being. He argues that the Law is not something we must do, but something we cannot help but do.  Read his letters in this context and see if it does not become clear. Only in this context is Paul not in direct conflict with the words of Yeshua and the prophets that G-d's Torah shall never pass away.

Oh the goodness, mercy and grace of YHVH!

and i have no problem with looking at women in that manner sexual impurity is a sin and that was taken care of the day i gave all to Jesus

Grace rules through righteousness. So grace is the enablement to act out righteousness. Grace does not forgive sin, nor does it cancel the Law! "Shall we continue sinning that grace may abound? May it never be! How shall we who are dead to sin live any longer in it?" (Romans 6:1,2). Grace, then, is the power not to sin! Not to transgress the Law! The goal is to become like Messiah Yeshua who was perfect in all points of the Law, "full of grace and truth."

So the difference is this: mercy forgives us of sin, but it is grace that enables us not to sin. 

David,  I say Amen to all of the above statement that I have cooied from you, which is the same thing John Bevere and I are saying to the readers and hearers. 

You have copied my thoughts right here.    Now, you are beginning to understand G-d's Grace and this is the message I hope to convey to myself and other readers.

See i can do nothing on my own it takes the indwelling of the Holy Ghost in me to lead me he lets me know what is that good and acceptable thing to do in my life when he called me back from the darkness i was in he took away all my sin the sin that was willful and the sin that was not and he set me free then he started the process of sanctifying then one night he filled me with the Holy Ghost and with an anointing he is using me to pray for others at church and to bind the working of Satan in the lives of others he blesses them when i lay hands on them i can not explain it it is like a power or energy takes over he starts to pray threw me in tongues and they get bless filled touch by the power of the Holy Ghost so if willful sin is not forgivable then how me someone that was filled 20 years ago with the spirit backslide into a life of sin because i felt i could not do right or was not good enough for God i would not believe he would forgive me of the sin i did i was told that because i smoked a cigarette i lost the Holy Ghost well he told me a while back in an interpretation of tongues this.{ From the womb i have been with you even in your times of turning i have been with you i will never leave you or forsake you and i love you} AND HE HAS ALWAYS SPOKE TO ME LIKE THIS.

MARCIA I NEVER SAID SIN WAS RIGHT BUT I DID SAY THAT IF WE REPENT HE IS FAITHFUL AND JUST TO FORGIVE US ARE SINS

THE ONLY THING I DO NOT AGREE IS WHAT YOU SAY OF A BORN AGAIN CHRISTIAN THAT IF HE SINS WILLFULLY HIS SIN WILL NOT BE FORGIVEN HEB 10 IS SPEAKING A DIFFERENT SIN AND JESUS SAID ALL SIN IS FORGIVABLE EXCEPT 1 BLASPHEME OF THE hOLY gHOST AND THEY DID THAT IN hEB. BECAUSE TO ENTER BACK TO THE SYNAGOGUE TO THE PRIEST OF THE TIME THE HAD TO RENOUNCE THE LORD jESUS AS LORD AND COMMIT THAT SIN THAT IS UNFORGIVABLE AND YES IF WE CONTINUE IN SIN AND NOT LET GOD TAKE IT FROM US WE WILL DIE IN ARE SINS.

AMEN DO WE SEE WHAT I AM TRYING TO TEACH YOU SISTER THE SAME BLOOD THAT WAS SHED FOR YOU WAS ALSO FOR ME SO WE ARE IN THE SAME COVENANT THE NEW ONE THAT IS PERFECT BY WAY OF jESUS I ALREADY UNDERSTAND THE GRACE OF gOD I TELL YOU I HAVE HAD TO FIGHT SATAN OVER ALL THIS IN MY DREAMS IN MY MIND AND IN MY LIFE HE HAS TRIED TO STOP ME BUT gOD TOLD ME THAT HE HAD ME IN HIS HANDS AND HE WAS GUIDING MY FOOTSTEPS AMEN HE IS THE ONLY TRUE WAY.

He has given us power over are adversaries on this i know that he can not in no way cross the blood line and if we stay behind the blood line we have victory over Satan so that when he comes at us we can stand with authority and rebuke him in the name of Jesus we have the power over the dark forces that come after us.And by resisting the temptation we more so have the victory i have been delivered from smoking ,drugs alcohol ,lust you name it God has taken it from me when he saved me all things  changed now it has not been a easy road and at time i like to went crazy i hurt inside as he broke my heart down just to put it back the way he wanted it to be and even now he is still working on me but i do know that he that began a good work in me will finish it.

the word says you can tell a tree by its fruit if a person is born of God they may still sin in the beginning but after a time the holy ghost is going to start to lead them in the ways of the lord i think if we get saved and there is no change in the life of that person then in there heart they where not committed but in my case 20 sum years ago i was and filled with the holy ghost but let go and listened to so called ppl that said i had lost the holy ghost because i smoked a cigarette well with this and being a new Christian i gave up and a long road of pain and hard times came mind you my childhood was a mess of abuse and abandonment by the time i was 16 i was on my own i know what it feels like to be homeless and lost without hope and i know God has called me back out of all this to help the same as i was lost and without hope believing a lie that the devil told me God in no way will ever leave us or forsake us his love is unchangeable and eternal he is faithful even when we are not there is nothing that can separate  us from his love yes i do believe that ppl get save and then some mess up and fall back into sin then we get the backslider in which we know to backslide from something one must be save to be in a backslidden state so it does happen and God will forgive and restore one that is in that boat did the backslider willfully get that way yes they had to know they where braking the will of God but we have the devil that will lie and say it is all over now look at what you did he makes it seem hopeless but God said he would forgive he said he was married to the backslider look at the parable of the prodigal son it tells how this can happen but look at the fathers reaction he sat and watched and longed for his return and when he was a far of the father saw he and ran to him an hugged and kissed his neck and rejoice at his return  totally forgiving him and bring him back in to his house and his graces that is the mercy of christ in action we do mess up we do get our eyes off him and he will bring us back one way or the other we must be strong now in this day that are the last God said to us in interpretations that this is the last generation and he is sending his son to get his children we need to reach as many as we can now with boldness and with the full love of Jesus .