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Leaving our ship to go shopping one day a couple of weeks ago, while we were in a foreign country, I noticed you walking ahead of me, and not walking in a straight path, but rather staggering around. Then I heard you, loudly talking, with slurred words, and I felt sorry for you. Don’t you care that you look like a fool? I don’t even know you, will never probably see you again, yet my heart breaks for you. You drink alcohol like it is Pepsi, your family laughs at you, but is it really to hide the pain they must be feeling, or perhaps the shame of watching you make a fool of yourself?
What do you find so alluring about alcohol, and drinking it until you are senseless? If I have a drink, I feel light headed and dizzy, and I just don’t like the way it makes me feel. I could never understand why people want to drink until they are sick and pass out. Why do they drink and make fools of themselves, or is it that they can’t remember what they did while they were drunk? Does it wipe out the pain of life, the emptiness of living?
I go on with my shopping, but I hear you and your loud voice throughout the mall. I wonder how the shop keepers must see you, how your family can keep going along with you. I would be ashamed. I ask myself “why don’t they take him back to the ship?” Perhaps you would raise too much of a fuss, and it is easier to just go along with your foolishness. As it is you keep bellowing that you are drunk, telling everyone that you see, and then you laugh as if it is funny. It's not.
I realize before I leave to go back to the ship that I am judging you. I know nothing about you, except that you have imbibed in too much alcohol. You are a lost soul, no doubt, and I should have taken the time to tell you about Jesus, but you wouldn’t remember if I had. No matter, I can still pray for you, and others like you. If you were my family, I would not abandon you, but neither would I let you continue to make a fool of yourself. If you didn’t listen to me, I would continue to follow you and keep battering away at your brain until you did listen, even if it took a lifetime.
Lord, what does it take to get through to someone like this? This man is a face in thousands, that I will probably never see again. Speak to this man, and let him see what he is doing to himself, and to his family. Help him find his way to You.
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| September 26, 2008 |
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| Amen, Deb. Praying for those who use alcohol to numb their pain, hide from life, or whatever other reason they imbibe. Thanks for a thought-provoking blog. |
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| September 26, 2008 |
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| Good questions Deb. Alcohol is a mood altering drug, so drinking, and over drinking, are driven at least partially by a desire to change one's mood. I often marveled at how angry drunks would keep returning to the drink that apparently ruins their mood! LOL... I mean, talk about irrational behavior! Myself, I was always a "happy drunk". Praise God I am not and never have been addicted to alcohol. I had my years of heavy drinking, but by God's grace it's all in the past. |
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| September 26, 2008 |
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| Amen Sister!!! |
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| September 26, 2008 |
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| Amen Deb. That sounds like my father and I am praying for him and others like it. |
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| September 26, 2008 |
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Great blog, Deb! I agree with your prayer, "Speak to this man, and let him see what he is doing to himself, and to his family. Help him find his way to You." |
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| September 26, 2008 |
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My father was an alcoholic (week-end), my brother is an alcoholic. My father never got out in the public with his shenanigans, however at home we suffered through it. He never harmed us physically, but mentally it did affect some of us. He took care of his family (six kids) and maybe that was his only release. Never understood why?????
My brother on the other hand has gotten better as he aged. He no longer drinks because of health reasons. I think people who drink themselves into a stupor is running from something. We can talk to them and tell them of Jesus and save some of them. I really believe some of them have just given up on life and that is so sad. |
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| September 26, 2008 |
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| Amen Deb, I once had a problem with strong drink and I have been there many times but praise God I can now drink socially and enjoy it! |
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| September 26, 2008 |
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| WOW those are poewrful words......WOW |
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| September 26, 2008 |
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Carol and Mike, thank you for your comment and for joining me in prayer.
Mike, I am glad your drinking days are behind you. I guess I have never really been drunk, perhaps a little goofy, but not flat out drunk. That was bad enough and I don't want to ever be to the point where I don't know what I am doing.
Doyle, Thank you.
Angel, I join you in prayer for your father.
Yahschild, thank you.
mstovall2003, what you say is so true. I am glad at least that your father didn't physically abuse you when he was drunk. I would agree that anyone who continues to drink themselves into a stupor, is running from something.
steelhorse, I praise God that you no longer have a problem with drinking! |
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| September 26, 2008 |
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| Maisy, thank you.. |
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| September 26, 2008 |
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He is the kind of man you love (Your Neighbor) despite yourself. |
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| September 28, 2008 |
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| Joey, yes, we are called to love our neighbor even when they are falling down drunk, aren't we? Again, Lord, I ask for you to help him find his way to You. |
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| September 28, 2008 |
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woman of laughter, thank you! |
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