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Homosexuality
||May 15, 2007|1170 reads
 

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Mike n Laura
May 15, 2007

Hi Lauren Christopher!

I happened to visit the link at the bottom of your post, which I almost overlooked --but it's too important to be missed!! What a great story!! I hope you'll consider editing this post to emphasize that link more.  For anyone reading this now, the link is to the story of a homosexual person who eventually found true freedom! Here is something this gay person wrote the Christian who brought the gospel to her:

"Then I met Sharon, a woman at work who was a Christian. Her zeal for God seemed to govern her actions in a way I did not understand. She was patient, caring, and always took time to listen to others. I watched her for a number of weeks, and slowly built enough confidence to ask her a question about knowing God's will."

This person exemplifies the way we Christians should ALL be perceived, all of the time, by everyone! Thanks for your post, LC!!  ~mike

Mike n Laura
May 15, 2007
excellent!
Jason Arnold
May 15, 2007

I think something we need to remember is that in reality, it doesn't matter whether a person is "born with" homosexual temptations or heterosexual temptations!  Whether a person is "born with" certain propensities towards certain types of disobedience to God's commands -- and disobedience is the heart and soul of what sin is -- that doesn't excuse them from their actions!

When it comes to sexual sin (as with any other), a person is not defined or labelled by the things they are tempted to do, but rather by the things which they choose to indulge in!  A person with heterosexual desires can fall into sexual sin just as easy as a person with homosexual desires -- and BOTH need to actively choose to submit themselves totally to God, so as to become fruitful for His purposes.

It's often (but not often enough) said that the last spiritual fruit on the list is the one most people totally ignore: the fruit of self-control.  Giving in to any desires that go against God's commands is sin -- bottom line!

Again, a person is NOT a homosexual simply because they have temptations regarding the same gender...only when they engage in the behavior do they put themselves into that category.  And just as those with temptations to steal, attack, fornicate and adulter, those with homosexual temptations need to actively choose whether they want to obey God or obey their desires -- just like everyone else.

Hope this helps!

In His service, and yours,
jason

Ladytiiger
May 27, 2007
Hey.. umm.. im a christian and i go to an all girl catholic High School and most of the girls are gay...
It's hard 4 me 2 talk about  God without Offending Anyone..
Sometimes i feel that i hurt my friends when i tell the truth..
What am i to do?
Voice in DC
June 21, 2007
Ladytiiger,

I have found that when I am in similar situations, the best thing to do is to walk the walk...in other words, do what you know is right and let God do the rest. He will use you as a powerful witness when you do not compromise what is His way in a world that is lost.

I hope this makes sense...
john cummins
June 21, 2007

Ladytiiger,

Share the truth, especially scripture as above. God's Word will not return void (ours very well may).

Jason's comments above are absolutely correct and right on target. I encourage all to reread them! Many think that thoughts in our mind = the crime, they do not! Just because one lusts after a woman in his heart and has committed adultery with her in his heart does not mean one then will or should commit actual physical adultery...so it is with sodomy.

The best scenario is to not have the thoughts or action but better just the thoughts and not action. This is the danger with "hate crimes" which are, in essence, thought policing. This is not for the realm of governments!