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Comforted by stumbling kin!
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Marilyn
October 23, 2008
Amen! Mike great blog, with out Jesus none would make it... :p this is a great blog because, the devil whispers, that we aren't good enough, or God could never forgive us, you are unwanted, all the time in our ears...

But God for saw this I think; that is why He put peoples flaws in the word to show, that all is not perfect except one JESUS... and so we can tell satan he is the liar he is...
Cindy
October 23, 2008

I stumble, I fall, He picks me up.......it still amazes me :)

Minister Of Poetry
October 23, 2008
Great blog Mike as usual! love Stu!
MarJay HizWay
October 23, 2008
Oh yeah Brother Mike...as long as we are in these FLESH BODIES we shall indeed stumble or make mistakes...but we are not to make these mistakes willingly....or in other words to willfully sin...we STRIVE for PERFECTION through our works...for faith without works is dead....But when our High Priest shall appear..then shall we be just like HIM (JESUS) in our GLORIFIED BODIES ;o)
Old Man of The North
October 23, 2008
I echo what everybody else has said.  Great word Mike. One thing though.  Those who don't make mistakes, can't do anything.  I FOR ONE make mistakes.  I also learn by them.
DENISE
October 23, 2008

JUST REMEMBER THERE ARE ALWAYS SOLUTIONS AND ONE IS WITH GOD. YOU FALL GET BACK UP!

LorenDP
October 23, 2008
Amen Mike.  Have a great day.
Holy Spirit Within
October 23, 2008
As per usual... excellent blog bro ... puts me in rememberance of the first words He spoke to me... 'You can't earn My love nor can you ever destroy it"...  and later, 'When you fall... do you not fall on your knees before me... it is you who is condemning yourself, I do not condemn you... forget not in Christ Jesus there is no condemnation, when I see you, I see the finished work of My Son. You too must see through the eyes of eternity."   It's All Good 
Jerry Webb
October 23, 2008
You mean to tell me you are not perfect Mike????
Mark Scott
October 23, 2008
Yes, and this same James said, "Mercy triumphs over judgment!" (2:13b).
Evangelist Keith  Wilson
October 23, 2008
Great blog mike
Brother Todd
October 23, 2008
For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God there is none righteous no not one.  Who is without sin? let him cast the first stone. Don't be so hard on yourself, we you are flesh.....but if you walk in the Spirit you will not fulfill the lust of the flesh.  There is now therefore no comdemnation to them that are in Christ Jesus those that walk after the Spirit and not after the flesh.
Evangelist Keith  Wilson
October 23, 2008
I also met to say that the real meaning behind this scripture means "BE BECOMMING" none of us are perfect in and of ourselves, so we have to remember we are are becoming as we follow the Spirit of the living God!!
Doyle Crowe
October 23, 2008
Amen Bro.
Cheryl
October 23, 2008
I too am extremely hard on myself... thanks for the comforting words from James. 
REMARKABLE TERRY
October 23, 2008
If I had a scar for everytime I fell, Johnson & johnson Bandaids stock would be through the roof (smiles)
...HOW GREAT IS OUR GOD?
Mike n Laura
October 23, 2008
That is what is so great about our God.....not that he is perfect, but that he and ONLY he could succeed at making holy and perfect that which has been so badly soiled and stained....ME!!!  (This is one of the things I love MOST about my Savior!!)

Jerry...I KNOW you are kidding! :-)
Minister Of Poetry
October 23, 2008
Mike it surprised me too though like Jerry's comment I thought you were perfect! LOL,
Deb Rockwell
October 23, 2008
I take great comfort in this!  I am the first to admit that I am not perfect, that I stumble frequently!  But how nice to know that James did too!
Angela
October 23, 2008
I tend to be an idealist and perfectionist so I can't tell you how this releases me from being so hard on myself when I fail! And I fail often!
Mike n Laura
October 23, 2008
Angela and Deb, I'm right there with ya!!

Dan - a really big thanks!! The Spirit (of Christ) is wonderful, I'm glad it shows in me. Jesus public ministry started (as I recall) when he read from Isaiah, "He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to release the oppressed, to proclaim the year of the Lord's favor." (Luke 4:18-19)  It touches me deeply when I see people in need of freedom, recovery, release, and the Lord's favor. Some of us have these things and yet we aren't even aware of it. Yes, James stumbled and he admitted it. I am thankful now that I can admit it too, w/o guilt. That doesn't mean I don't care that I stumble and make mistakes. It just means God is merciful and his love for me isn't in jeopardy at all.

Oh Stu, c'mon man. You KNEW I wasn't perfect, LOL!
Mike n Laura
October 23, 2008
Thanks for the clarification, Keith!

Todd, excellent scriptures ALL! It's funny, when we're busy being self-critical and beating ourselves up, all those wonderful scriptures are so easily forgotten!

Bren, that's beautiful. So happy that you are in touch w/God's great compassions!
revstarr
October 23, 2008
Thank God for his mercies..I mess up more than I care to count!
Donna Morrison
October 23, 2008
Great blog! I consider myself a work in progress. Our awesome God is the only one who truly forgives EVERYTHING. How many people do that? How many people withhold judgement? Even when we stumble and fall, He is there to pick us back up and love us unconditionally.
Dennis Howe
October 23, 2008
We fall down, we get up, we fall down, we get up, a Saint is just a sinner who falls down, and gets up......
Ian Grant Spong
October 23, 2008
Love it Mike, especially when I found out years ago that "be ye therefore perfect" really means "be ye therefore spiritually mature." Whew! For a time there I thought that Jesus expected me to never make a mistake, ever again.
Mike n Laura
October 23, 2008
Awesome, Grant! I love much from you!!

I won't say it's great to make mistakes and stumble, but it's great to know that God has made provision for our stumbling. God is good!!
mstovall2003
October 24, 2008

We are to learn from those mistakes and not make them again...  That is part of the process of getting closer to our Father...  He knows us inside and out and he stands there picking us up everytime we do something that is not in his will. 

Perfection is my Father and I am just his humble servant...

Rob
October 24, 2008
Mike,

I may be wrong, but it seems to me that those who are "under law" are VERY conscious of their imperfections.  It's no surprise to me that James the Just had a negative self-image.

As you know, I attend the church of Christ (God, help me...).  The church of Christ can be extremely legalistic.  As a result of their legalism, they are constantly praying for God to forgive them of their sins.  It's disgusting, I tellz ya!

We know that being under law results in a consciousness of sin:

3:20 Therefore by the deeds of the law there shall no flesh be justified in his sight: for by the law [is] the knowledge of sin.

If you are under law you have this nagging conviction that you are inadequate.  James the brother of Jesus had this very inadequacy working against him.

4:17Therefore to him that knoweth to do good, and doeth [it] not, to him it is sin.

How many Christians are walking around with that little piece of guilt and condemnation working against them?  Plenty.  Are you doing the best you can for God 24-hours a day / 7-days a week?  Shame on ya; ya big sinner!

There was another apostle who lived during the first century who boldly proclaimed:

8:1 [There is] therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.

What is this "condemnation" that he's speaking about?  It turns out that it was this very sense of inadequacy that dogs everyone who is in the flesh - under law:

7:18For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh,) dwelleth no good thing: for to will is present with me; but [how] to perform that which is good I find not.

Mike, in the first century, they called these different states of mind "spiritual".  In the twenty-first century, we call these states of mind "psychological".  Psychologists have found that living with an abiding sense of inadequacy (i.e. shame) damages us.  The apostle Paul discovered this very truth some 2000 years ago.

Religion is man's vain attempt to reconcile with God.  Religion deceives us into believing that if we are sincere enough and if we try hard enough we can achieve union with God.  Religion has no room for the work that God did to reconcile man to Himself.  Religion does not consider God's efforts.

1:27Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this, To visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, [and] to keep himself unspotted from the world.

There is no room for (and no mention of) the Savior in this "pure and undefiled religion".  It's all about what I have to do to stay right with God.

Maybe we should ask ourselves why we find James' brand of condemnation "immeasurably comforting".  Could it just be that misery loves company?

Just a thought,
Rob

Mike n Laura
October 24, 2008

Hey Rob, you don't have to be "under the law" to be hard on yourself, for goodness sakes! But if you've found total freedom from any expectations of yourself, good for you. I'm truly happy for ya!

You said, "Religion is man's vain attempt to reconcile with God."  No, that's your narrow definition of religion, my friend. James' religion was one that impacted a person's whole life, as opposed to compartmentalized intellectual beliefs and warm fuzzy feelings. If your religion doesn't motivate you to go out and extend the love of God to your fellow man, what good is it??? (That is James' message, and I for one love it! I also fail to see the condemnation in it.)

Mike n Laura
October 24, 2008
Marcella, that means you and I are....related!! LOL!
Rob
October 24, 2008
Mike,

You don't have to be under law to be hard on yourself but it doesn't hurt.  There is certainly no virtue in being hard on oneself so why pursue it?  What expectations should one have of a dead man - except to remain dead?

My "narrow definition" aside, read James' definition of pure and undefiled religion.  Does he mention the finished work of Jesus?  No.  In fact, Jesus' name only appears twice in five chapters - and only then in passing.  I'm not making this stuff up, Mike.  All you have to do is read the book.

Did you know that the expression "in Christ", or "in Jesus", or "in Him" does not appear at all in James' epistle?  Do you think that might be significant?  Did you know that the word "gospel" does not appear in James' epistle.  Is that because not even James considered his "pure and undefiled" religion "good news"?  Perhaps.

"The love of God" means different things to different people.  One could say that warning people against the fear, guilt, and condemnation of religion, is an act of love.  It's certainly not a popular position.

I'm not surprised that you fail to see the condemnation in James' message.  Thirty-years ago, I did not recognize the damage that was being done to me by religion either.  That's why, today, I may be hypersensitive to it.  I know what it looks like and I know where it leads.
Mike n Laura
October 24, 2008
Hypersensitive is a good way to put it, brother. You often come across like a kid who just had a big ol' bandage ripped off, and he's carefully guarding the raw exposed wound. Perhaps you aren't ready for the book of James. That's fine, there are plenty of other places in scripture where you'll find the message of healing you need. Just don't assume that b/c James' message rubs you wrong, he shouldn't be included in the canon.
Mike n Laura
October 25, 2008

Carrie Ann, thank you for your thoughts, I appreciate them! Your comments remind me that Paul admonished the Ephesians to "be imitators of God". That is the same as striving for perfection (as we define perfection in modern English). However, I don't really think we should beat ourselves up and feel guilty and shameful when we fall short. We should expect to miss the mark, yet we should persevere. The strength to persevere, for me, comes from love of God (devotion, appreciation), and a fear of God (awe, respect, fear based on knowledge of who he is). We simply have too much to be joyful about, given all God has done for us!

Nevertheless, I am glad to know that a great saint like James admitted to stumbling often, making many mistakes, or offending all (depending on which bible version you use).

 

shane bowyer
October 28, 2008
I enjoy James comments that echo the very words of life from our Savior.  I find God's grace coursing through James words or he wouldn't have taken the time to share them.  Grace brings life and life can't help but be shared.  Do's and don'ts bring death and its hard to share anything living thi way. 

It's wonderful to see James has been given a healthy self-image by God's grace, in that he knows we all makes mistakes, but it's an even greater show of faith to see his declarations of how we are to live and what God expects of us.  He obviously shares to the Christians of his day and ours out of a heart of compassion and grace to what we can become if we are in Christ. 

I feel very sorry for those who feel condemned by God's gracious commandments for they have yet to see the the enlightening grace within those narrow words and ways of God in Christ.

Thanks for the blog, Mike! 
Forgiven
October 28, 2008
I am not where I want to be, but where I need to be.

With The Lord, I have come so very far, but I still have so very far to go.

As I look at myself, it is a great comfort that His Word states that He will never leave me or forsake me.

He has shown me time and time again.
Michael
October 28, 2008
The Entire 3rd Chapter of James Here is sighting Numerous examples ...
Rudders on Ships To Grasp Control of the Direction & Destination.

Cause & Effect...Outcomes, Results.....We are told here Clearly to Become the
Mature Man with absolute control of Our Tongue & Nothing falling short of that,
& yet if We were to Make Mistakes or [sin] God does not seek to Stone Us & Nor
should any Man & that is the Ease, the Soothing of the Comforting Holy Spirit,
as We seek that Perfect Standard.

God's goal for Us [His Children] is to make sure that we Arrive & become,
the Mature Spirit Man in Him.
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3:1
Let not many of you become teachers, my brethren, for you know that we who teach shall be judged with greater strictness.

3:2
For we all make many mistakes,

and if any one makes no mistakes in what he says he is a perfect man, able to bridle the whole body also.

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Michael's commentary....

Here this is not to claim that James is meaning not to pursue
that Perfect & Mature Man, & also if He Thought That it was a impossibility it would
clearly read much more so to support that.... & I find it much more meaning to
maintain absolute control of every idle word you could possibly ever speak.
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3:3
If we put bits into the mouths of horses that they may obey us, we guide their whole bodies.

3:4 Look at the ships also; though they are so great and are driven by strong winds, they are guided by a very small rudder wherever the will of the pilot directs.

3:5
So the tongue is a little member and boasts of great things. How great a forest is set ablaze by a small fire!
 
3:6 And the tongue is a fire. The tongue is an unrighteous world among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the cycle of nature, and set on fire by hell.

3:7
For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by humankind,

3:8
but no human being can tame the tongue--a restless evil, full of deadly poison.

3:9
With it we bless the Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who are made in the likeness of God.

3:10
From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brethren, this ought not to be so.

3:11
Does a spring pour forth from the same opening fresh water and brackish?

3:12
Can a fig tree, my brethren, yield olives, or a grapevine figs? No more can salt water yield fresh.
 
3:13 Who is wise and understanding among you? By his good life let him show his works in the meekness of wisdom.

3:14
But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast and be false to the truth.

3:15
This wisdom is not such as comes down from above, but is earthly, unspiritual, devilish.

3:16
For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice.

3:17 But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, without uncertainty or insincerity.
 
3:18 And the harvest of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace.

Conclusion: in this Chapter We find How Devilish The Un -Tamed Tongue is & that Man CAN NOT
Tame The Tongue.
Yet it is God in Us ....IF He is Really There ...Then  ONLY Pure Water can Come from The Well,
His Living Waters....if Sin is there it Spoils the Entire Well.
We Must Allow God To Tame Our Tongue allowing Him To Live & Speak The Living Waters of Life Through Us.

If We are The New Creature The Old Man is Truly Put to Death Jesus Becomes the Fig Tree in Us
that bears only the Figs then.
It shows in this chapter that the Tongue - only under proper control [God's] will it serve the correct Purposes.
Guidence of the Ship.

The Guidence System of God.....[Only if We Hear & obey Him & His Word]....yet WE MUST Speak the
Word on [OUR TONGUE] & Do The Word .

Speaking The Word & The Will of God is The First indication of Completing the Doing & Carrying Out in Action.... the Word.
If I say to You I am Going to Paint My House Pink....on Oct. 31.....You would on Nov. 1st expect to LIKELY see a Pink House , so The Tongue sets into MOTION...gets the Ball Rolling.....

So James is Making a Lesson to Allow God to Tame Our Tongue & Us to Get Out of the Way of God,
[not to hinder Him] allowing God to take all control of Our Tongue.

Thus Speaking in Tongues....a New Language...Heavenly....His.

Mike n Laura
October 28, 2008
Cathy, I can say this with you, as I'm sure countless other "saints" can as well: With The Lord, I have come so very far, but I still have so very far to go.

Shane, I appreciate your thoughts on James' words!

Michael, those are some interesting thoughts, thanks!
Rob
October 28, 2008
Mike,

Please speak to the observation that those under law are most conscious of their sins and faults.  Those under grace are less so.  Please give cause and effect reasons.

Thanks,
Rob
shane bowyer
October 29, 2008
Rob you are sadly mistaken.  It is because of grace that we can be more conscious of our sin and deal with it effectively.  Those under the law feel more guilty but not more sin conscious.
Rob
October 29, 2008
Shane,

That may be true.  I've heard that all my life but I have never found any evidence for that doctrine in the bible.  In fact, quite to the contrary, the bible says that through the law comes the knowledge of sin:
3:20 Therefore no one will be declared righteous in his sight by observing the law; rather, through the law we become conscious of sin.

Read Hebrews 10:1-4.  The Law had the effect of annually reminding the worshiper of his sins.  The Law keeps you conscious of sin.

10:2 For then would they [sacrifices] not have ceased to be offered? because that the worshippers once purged should have had no more conscience of sins.

The advantage of the New Covenant (the Covenant of Grace) is that we indeed have no more conscience of sin (thanks to the finished work of Jesus).

Paul said it this way:

7:9 For I was alive without the law once: but when the commandment came, sin revived, and I died.

Once we are given a commandment (law) the natural response is to disobey it.  Is this the result of Adam's sin or was that the way God made us?  It seems to be the way God made us because Adam didn't disobey until after the commandment came.

Focusing on law puts us under law.  Focusing on grace puts us under grace.  If we are under law, we are under the very power of sin.

15:56 The sting of death is sin; and the power of sin is the law:

According to the way I read the bible, it seems that law and grace are incompatible.  Through the law comes the knowledge of sin and that knowledge inevitably pulls us toward it. 

Shane, please support your assertions using the bible.  I don't have so much trouble with your first statement - that grace gives us the ability to handle sin effectively - but the second statement is a bit more troubling.  I think the bible teaches that the more "under law" one is, the more conscious of sin one becomes.

Respectfully,
Rob

Mike n Laura
October 29, 2008

Rob, I've said before, you don't have to be "under the law" to be hard on yourself. My daughter has torn up pages from coloring books, just b/c she went out of the lines too much. It wasn't b/c anyone was demanding she attain a certain standard either, it's just her personality! This blog wasn't about the theology of law vs. grace, it was about the comfort of finding someone who's "in the same boat", particularly someone I wouldn't have expected given James' straightforward talk about Christian conduct. It's ok to be imperfect, to make mistakes (stumble, fall, and offend acc. to other versions), as he admitted. Sorry, I know that doesn't answer your question. I suppose you could consult a commentary for the answer you seek.

 

Rob
October 29, 2008
Okay Mike.  We'll let it go at that.

I agree; our reaction to failure is important.  I'm a professional nerd.  Computer stuff is my bag.  I like to think I'm pretty knowledgeable about my technology but it used to embarrass me greatly to be wrong about any area of computing.  But you know what I found out?

I may not always be right, but I never lose.  For example, I would find another nerd, who I knew to be smarter than myself and I would make a statement that I suspected was true but could possibly be wrong.  Nerds being what they are, if I was wrong, I would hear about it instantly.  I learned through the process of making an outlandish statement and waiting for the reaction.  If it turned out that I was wrong, I learned something. 

When Jesus saved me again, I brought that learning skill to my new "technology" - Christianity.  I would make statements that I suspected were true and waited for the reaction.  Much of the contrary reaction I could deal with easily because I'm usually much better at handling the word than anybody I come in contact with.  (I'm a nerd, for God's sake.)  But sometimes, somebody puts me in my place.  It doesn't happen much anymore but it used to happen all the time.  Iron sharpens iron.

Who cares about making mistakes?  We're all learning here.  You are correct, this is a healthy attitude.

An unhealthy attitude would be based in shame.  If I believed that I was no good or that I could never do enough good, then my attitude would be destructive.
4:17Therefore to him that knoweth to do good, and doeth [it] not, to him it is sin.

That verse of scripture, I know for a fact, is keeping people whom I know, love, and go to church with, in a cycle of shame and defeat.  To think that there is nothing that can save you from sin - because there's always more good that you can do - is a sure way to get yourself into a straight jacket.  That verse of scripture is the text book definition of "condemnation".  There is no healthy reaction to James 4:17 except to ignore it.

Think about what you read and how you read it, Mike.  If you feel like you are "in the same boat" as the writer of James, you need to pay attention to that.  If you're seeing evidence of this pattern in your little girl, ask yourself good questions.  I know what the shame cycle produces in people (I'm a perfect example).  I wouldn't wish my troubles on anyone - especially my little girl.

The possibility that an apostle can teach error is warned about in the writings of both Paul and Luke.  We do not have to check our intellect at the door when we pick up the bible.  Good news makes for healthy minds.  Condemnation keeps us in sin (re: James 4:17).

Rob

shane bowyer
October 29, 2008

Hey Rob,

Ijust wanted to offer some suggestions for considerations, though i could give you Bible to back up my belief about how our sin consciousness becomes magnified by grace I will refrain because I don't have the desire to do it.  Rather I challenge you to look to the tradition of the Christian tradition where many have have experience this truth James experienced while always holding to the ideals God sets before us.  i do not mean to be convincing but to offer a helpful consideration to some who are ready to here it.

Shane

You are good at defusing arguments Mike.  I appreciate the grace with which you approach controversy.

Mike n Laura
October 30, 2008

Shane, thanks! As for grace/law, might you be referring to verses like Ps. 40:8, Isa 51:7, Jer 31:33, Heb 10:16, etc?

Rob, you said "That verse of scripture, I know for a fact, is keeping people whom I know, love, and go to church with, in a cycle of shame and defeat." May I also turn your words back on you (and, I suppose, these people you know and love). Think about what you read and how you read it, Rob. This is scripture, and there is a right way to read it and a wrong way. If you (or your friends) are caught in a cycle of defeat, I guarantee you it isn't the words of James that are responsible. It is how you are reading them! (We can't simply pronounce a biblical writer to be "in error" simply b/c we can't understan, or don't like, what they wrote!)

A lollipop is a good thing! But to a sugar addict, it is a source of bondage!! Is the problem the lollipop, or the addict's approach to it?

ps... Get real, nobody here is checking their intellect at the door, buddy!

shane bowyer
October 30, 2008

Rob - James 4:17 is a great verse flowing with grace.  It is only grace that causes us to be aware of good and then come to a knowledge of all the sin that resides within our flesh.  It is so easy to mistake feelings of shame for the healthy feelings of the "fear of the Lord" (reverance, respect, and awe at who he is).  If I believe God's word to be true then I must respectfully submit and surrender to it or my words mean nothing.  The only reason this verse would be received as bondage is that those who are trying to obey the Word are going about it through direct effort.  Direct effort results in shame and guilt that we can't do enough good to match the Scriptural commands.  It is the new form of living under the law, however, James words are simply what we has come to experience, not what he is demanding us to achieve.  We are called to look at God's ideal and through indirect effort, meaning looking to God alone and in his presence become aware of our sin, followed by confession and repentance of it we can receive that grace that ultmately will conform us to not just James words, but the even greater words we are commanded to live up to, those of our Lord Himself.  "Be perfect as I am perfect."  is a much more difficult command to swallow than anything James has to say, and those words came from our Savior Himself.  He would not tell us to do what we were incapable of doing.  He wouldn't tell us to do something that would lead us into greater bondage, instead he is the means through which we can become what he has commanded us to be.  The human problem is that we try to become it all right now.  God's plan is that we learn to live into his words and these words of James.  This is why James is so content with admitting his own weaknesses, it isn't him who is doing the work.  James only responsibility is to cling to the Father and receive grace through his own faith that will create the new desires and ambitions that begin to look more and more like what he knows God wants us all to become.  James assumes we know how this process works because of all of the other teachings of Scripture, he is certainly not asking us to make it happen on our own.  Of all people to know better it would be James, the half brother of Jesus and the leader of the early church.  

Joey     R
October 30, 2008
Mike:  You are correct.  I will say again.  You are right on the dot.

I've tripped over my shoes, stubbed my toe and fallen to the side, fell straight backwards several times.  Once, I tipped and broke my left foot.  Ya know what I was doin?  Getting fake nails so I would feel glamorous.  Yep.  hmmmm...  thank you God.  Lesson learned.  Didn't need those nails.

It is when we grow closer to God that we feel so REMORSEFUL when we let God down.  It was Jesus Christ who died... who shed His blood for our sins.  Our sins...  we are human, as was James.  God does not want us to feel ashamed.  God wants us to depend upon Him.  To love Him so much that we call upon Him day and night, to talk and share our thoughts, feelings, hopes and dreams with Him.  To worship Him because He has given His ALL to us.  
   
We all stumble, and as we stumble we learn from those times.  We grow, and we love.
  
Mike n Laura
October 30, 2008
Thank you so much, Joey. Yours is the best comment of all!  (I'm sorry to hear about your foot though!!)
Joey     R
October 30, 2008
It weren't nuthin much.  I've had surgery 3 times on each foot !!!
What does THAT tell you???
Garry
October 30, 2008

I am replying to the original post here.  One must understand what it means to be perfect.  Let us look at the scripture for a minute:  Matt 5:44-48

44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;

45 That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust.

46 For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same?

47 And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more than others? do not even the publicans so?

48 Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.
KJV

The word perfect means to be complete and mature--If you just do good to those who love you what thank do ye have becasue Jesus said even sinners do the same.  It is being a mature person in the Lord and it is attainable through the power of Jesus Christ.  One must love the unlovely, show kindness to the unkind, show mercy, etc. 

Mike n Laura
October 30, 2008

Garry, it is debatable whether the perfection Jesus spoke about is in fact attainable or rather an end state we are to continually strive for. It has previously been pointed out that perfect means spiritually mature. I agree it doesn't mean "sinless". Thanks for your comment.

Joey, you poor kid!!

Garry
October 30, 2008
Yes--spiritually mature and complete--that is what I was trying to get at.  Salvation is free but sanctification is a life long process.  Praise the Lord Amen!
Rob
October 31, 2008
Shane - Your comment: "the tradition of the Christian tradition" says it all.  If you could have cited scripture, you would have.

Mike - Let me give you examples so you know what I'm talking about.  I once knew a man who never took a vacation - not because he couldn't afford one but because he considered it a waste of time.  If he wasn't going peddle-to-the-metal 24-hours a day for Jesus, he considered it sin.  To a person like that, 8-hours of sleep is shameful.  Spending too much time in the bathroom is a sin.  Give me your judgement: Is that mentally healthy or harmful?

I know another man who used to pick up hitchhikers but not anymore because he's afraid of what they might do (he's 80-years old).  He condemns himself because he considers it a sin to drive past a hitchhiker.

One of his sons - a deacon in the church - shares his theology of condemnation.  And it's all based on James 4:17.  These are good people, Mike, but they're guilting themselves into a what must be a living hell.

This religion of condemnation is what Paul preached against - and so do I.  James' theology is demonstrably condenming and unhealthy.  Evidently, the bible documents two paths to righteousness (works and faith).  Works righteousness leads us to conclude that if we are not doing our best for God 24-hours a day, we are sinning (James 4:17). Faith righteousness assumes that we are already righteous because of Jesus (Romans 4:25 et. al.).  One religion places the burden of righteousness on our shoulders, the other places it on Jesus'.  One religion teaches that we are sanctified through "a life long process", the other teaches that we are already sanctified through Jesus.
6:11 And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.

Works righteousness is a subtle deception.  Notice that the apostle Paul spoke in the present tense - not something that will happen to us in the future, if we work hard enough.  Most of the references to sanctification in the New Testament refer to it as a "done deal".  Most church folk refer to sanctification as something we have to earn (i.e. a lifelong process).  The term "sanctification process" is NEVER used in the New Testament but that doesn't stop church people from teaching as if it were.  I think it all goes back to that, "traditional Christian tradition" (or whatever Shane called it).



Mike, you have well said, "Think about what you read and how you read it".  In your opinion, what would be the best way to read James 4:17?  If a passage of scripture is destroying people, how do we stop it?  If the gospel ceases to be good news, what's the best way to remedy that?

Real people are being destroyed by this religion, Mike. I honestly do not know how to relieve these people's guilty consciences.  They need to repent (literally: change their minds) but I don't have any advice other than, "Consider the source", to comfort them.  What would you tell them, Mike?

Sincerely,
Rob

Joey     R
October 31, 2008

Hi Mike...
It's all white noise, honey

shane bowyer
November 01, 2008
Rob - I don't like to use Scriture references that much on here because it is a sacred cow for many, as it appears to be to you.  i will however sum up Scriptural ideas because I believe we are to become what we read not use what we read as weapon.  Yes the Word of God is a wapon but only as we become it not because we can quote it.  That being said, Paul tells us to continue on in the traditions you have been taught.  The Bible makes way more sense when you listen to the early church fathers teach what they themselves have learned from the apostles, even James makes sense.  As long as you refuse to entertain all of the evidnce you will always be blinded.  To offer you Biblical support, just pick a directive of Christ, any directive of Christ, they all tell us that much is required to inherit eternal life, obviously self-awareness becomes a part of that practically, there is no other way.  Head knowledge will never get you God's grace.  If you read James in light of what Jesus said you could take no issue with him. 
shane bowyer
November 01, 2008

I couldn't help but share a few verses from Paul whom you think to teach what you are purporting.
3:5 But if our wickedness serves to show the justice of God, what shall we say? That God is unjust to inflict wrath on us? (I speak in a human way.) 3:6 By no means! For then how could God judge the world? 3:7 But if through my falsehood God's truthfulness abounds to his glory, why am I still being condemned as a sinner? 3:8 And why not do evil that good may come? --as some people slanderously charge us with saying. Their condemnation is just.

7:10 For godly grief produces a repentance that leads to salvation and brings no regret, but worldly grief produces death. 7:11 For see what earnestness this godly grief has produced in you, what eagerness to clear yourselves, what indignation, what alarm, what longing, what zeal, what punishment! At every point you have proved yourselves guiltless in the matter.


The very person you quote as being against sin consciousness says otherwise.   His words "leads to salvation" which is the process of sanctification.  He says, "What earnestness to clear yourselves" that can't come but through self-examination and sin-consciousness.  This isn't guilt but a confident approach in the practical nature of grace.  Paul and James were certainly on the same page just with different points of view.  

In Romans Paul was not giving people grace as an excuse to ignore sin, those who do will be condemned.  To take your stance is harmful and at odds with not just James but Paul too.  So should we let sin be within us and ignor it or should we through grace expose it to God's grace.  We do play a role and that is all James is saying.  The guilt and self-condemnation of grace is no where in Scripture and certainly not in James.  

 I don't normally use Scripture because of the nature of arguments that come from it.  Anyone can find verses to back up what they believe, but in this case you need some Scriptural context.

Rob
November 01, 2008
Shane,

I've been at this thing off and on for most of my 53-years.  I was raised Roman Catholic.  I attended Catholic school.  I studied Catholic catechism.  I served mass as an altar boy.  There is no denomination under greater consciousness of sin than the Catholic Church.  I am a member of the church of Christ.  The church of Christ is the poster-boy for condemnation.  Nearly every one of their prayers includes, "forgive us of our sins".  The church of Christ is very sin conscious.

I am a convicted sex offender.  I have paperwork from the state of Ohio that says I am sexually immoral.  With all my "religious training", I have learned first-hand that consciousness of sin is not profitable.  You know why?  Because when Jesus came back to save me again, He impressed a few truths on my heart.  My sin consciousness did not serve me (or my victim) well.  Jesus showed me - in the scriptures - every misstep that I took all my life.

God taught me the things that I believe.  I didn't learn this stuff from any priest or preacher.  I know how to walk this thing out successfully now because this time, I decided to listen to God and nobody else.

The Catholic Church has what they call the "Sacrament of Penance" (aka Confession).  This is where a person confesses his sins to the priest to receive "absolution" (i.e. forgiveness).  Actually, the priest only issues "conditional absolution" in the confessional.  Absolution of your sins is contingent upon the penitent's successful execution of the "penance" given by that priest (usually the recitation of several "Hail Mary's" and some "Our Father's" - canned prayers).

The only problem with this exercise is that it completely denies the finished work of Jesus and puts the burden of forgiveness of sin on the backs of the "believer".  By their abominable "Sacrament", the Catholic church - in all her glorious sin consciousness - castrates the God who came to save them.  It's of the devil, I tellz ya.

According to Hebrews, one of the things that was wrong with the Law was that it reminded the people of their sins every year (see Hebrews 10 - the whole chapter).  Under the New Covenant, we are not to engage in such exercises because remembering our sins works against us psychologically.

As a result of my criminal conviction, I have been ordered to attend Group Therapy.  It's like AA for sex offenders.  Believe it or not, there is a psychology of sex offense.  All sex offenders fall into certain patterns that lead up to their offense.  One of the patterns is a feeling of shame.  Sin consciousness is not psychologically healthy in an environment of shame, in that it tends to be counter productive.  Alcoholism and drug addiction are also exacerbated by feelings of inadequacy, guilt, and shame (i.e. sin consciousness).

James 4:17 is the epitome of inadequacy because that philosophy makes it is impossible to live a sin free life.  As soon as you think you've overcome, there is an abiding sense that you could have done a little bit more.  James 4:17 iscondemnation and it is the direct result of a theology of "works righteousness" as discribed in James 2:24.

Look.  Let's not use names.  Shane, you've won this argument.  Let's not include scripture.  Let's just go on what we know.  We know that guilt and condemnation eventually wears us out.  We can demonstrate that such a lifestyle is at the heart of every dysfunction on planet E.  We understand the psychology of works righteousness and we know what it produces.  Without going to the scriptures, we would declare anybody a heretic who espoused a theology of works righteousness (i.e. justification by works).

And in fact, Mike and SL Guthrie did just that.  In the face of clear wording, they rejected the theology of works righteousness and did an expert job of saying, in effect, "The text says this but it means that".  We are such disciples of Paul that we cannot bring ourselves to actually buy the literal theology of James the Just.  We have to abandon our ability to parse a sentence in order to twist this clear teaching into its exact opposite.

A successful walk doesn't focus on the negative (sin).  Jesus handed us freedom from sin on a platter but we can sabotage that gift by believe things that rob us of that freedom.  Works righteousness is a psychological package that starts by saying "we are justified by what we do" (James 2:24) and leads to the conclusion that we cannot "do" enough to keep us from sinning (James 4:17).

Rob
shane bowyer
November 03, 2008
I understand you experience plays a big role in what you believe, however the truth remains even if we use the right tools thewrong way.  I grew up all grace and no sin consciousness but the occasional legalistic kind.  I never knew God though I believed what you do now.  Now i receive so much from my relationships with God and largely due to fresh awareness and analysis of where I am falling short.  In my experience, as Paul says, God's strength is made perfect in weakness it has become real in the open admission of my failures.  God waits for us to recognize, admit and be willing to walk away from before he can ever work within us. 

I believe the guilt, shame, and condemnation is a result of sin, mostly the consequence of sin.  Guilt, shame and condemnation aren't sin but the result of it.  It's in the open admission of it, confession and repentance that allows the mercy and grace of God to produce it's healing, freeing and transforming work.  I can't believe otherwise or think another way is possible since by personal experience this is all i've found to work.  Having been where you're belief lies I can tell you that you may feel better, or even free from guilt, shame and condemnation, but you won't become more like Jesus through that method. 

Our whole purpose is to be transformed into the image of his son and the knowledge of the truth is the only thing that can get us there, not by ignoring the reality of who we are and our sinful tendencies.  I believe this whole-hertedly because I have seen his work of grace in my life be transforming and healing in so many ways.  Now I embrace my weakness and sin, as I have much of it, but I know what he can do with it if I handle it in the right way.  God bless you.  My goal is merely to share the freeing truth i've found.  I believe James book is a vital part of that as I used to ignore it because I didn't believe it had a place, now I realize where it's place is. 
driveswithknees
November 03, 2008

God and James knew that we could not be perfect in our current state, so why did God command it of us?

His plan for us is perfect and perfection is change, to change for the better, to become a bit more like him with every stumble. Exercising faith and true repentance will achieve this.To be perfect, is to be perfecting ourselves in this manner. By any other method is less than perfect.

Mike n Laura
November 03, 2008
That's a pretty sharp observation, DWK. Thanks for posting!
driveswithknees
November 03, 2008

Grace is mercy. We are not given the blessing of grace until we have done our due diligence. If grace were the underlying foundation of our salvation, then why are we given commandments?

Grace only comes in our behalf after we have done all that we can do. Acknowledging Him as my Savior is only the beginning. I must acknowledge Him in specific actions Love thy neighbor, keep my commandments, feed my sheep are all actions.  

Rob
November 03, 2008
Shane,

I'm not suggesting we should ignore sin (or the early signs of temptation).  This failure to remember our history is a guaranty that we will repeat it.

Sickness and healing are a metaphor for sin and salvation from sin.  Before I can receive healing of a disease, I first have to own the fact that I am sick.  Christian Scientists err because they are in denial of the reality of disease (they claim that doesn't really exist - that it's a deception of the devil).  Before you can receive salvation from whatever sin has hold of you, you first have to acknowledge the reality of it in your life.

This acknowledgement, however, is a VERY specific process.  Simply admitting, "I'm not perfect", has little if any value.  If you are eaten up with sexual immorality, you won't get any traction by saying, "I have struggles sometimes".  You have to admit it and turn it over to Jesus.  You also have to trust that you are free from that sin - or else you'll wind up back in it.  A lifelong struggle is NOT victory - that's white-knuckling it.

I had lower back pain and I believed God for a healing.  I also did the works of one who wants to be rid of lower back pain.  I rebuked the infirmity in the name of Jesus and I claimed victory (By His stripes, I am healed!).  To date, I am free from back pain.  But simply believing God for healing isn't enough.  Faith without works is dead.  So I did the works that Jesus showed us to do.  I rebuked the pain.  Faith plus works resulted in healing.

Acid Reflux has been a smidgen less cooperative, however.  But at this writing, I am down to about two antacids a day rather than two every hour.  God is good!  What worked for back pain is working for acid reflux.  Thank you Jesus!

I am free from the sin of sexual immorality because I believe God has taken that sin away from me.  Obviously, I don't hang out in strip clubs or surf Internet porn anymore because, to me, that would be deadly.  I don't want to go back there.  I have to trust God for my salvation (remedy) from that sin because I know what a miserable failure I am at resisting that particular temptation.  I have victory indeed but ONLY in Jesus.

I was recently taken out of action with an attack of hemroids - the most severe case I have ever suffered.  It was not pretty and it was most painful.  In order to be "loosed" from this infirmity, guess what I have to do.  First, I have to own it - I have hemroids - then claim healing by the stripes of Jesus, then rebuke the devil.
17:20 And Jesus said unto them, Because of your unbelief: for verily I say unto you, If ye have faith as a grain of mustard seed, ye shall say unto this mountain, Remove hence to yonder place; and it shall remove; and nothing shall be impossible unto you.

If you have faith, ye shall say...  The opposite of that is true also.  If ye have doubt, ye shall not say...  Most Christians who die of disease have never spoken to their mountain.  Oh, they certainly beg God to heal them but they never do  what Jesus said do.  That's faith without works.  Jesus said that if you had faith, you would speak to your mountains.  Most Christians, by that definition, are unbelievers.  They are afraid of the persecution of those who would call them "Name it and claim it" Christians.  Fear of persecution is keeping lots of people out of the kingdom of God.

I knew a woman who was in the church for 15-years.  Once, in a conversation, she confessed all kinds of sin that she was involved in at the time (naked pictures on the Internet, doing drugs, etc.)  I couldn't believe my ears.  I was freakin' out.  I was like 6-months old in the Lord (again) and I couldn't believe she was stuck in the very thing Jesus had saved me from.  But there we were - two people who were conscious of their sin.  One was walking in it, the other was delivered from it.  I was happy to be free but at the same time, she was in it over her head.  I prayed for her and then I got out of there with a quickness!

Sin consciousness is only beneficial if you are free from it.  James was not talking about freedom from sin.  He was talking about being stuck in it.  Look at how he described the tongue.

3:8 But the tongue can no man tame; [it is] an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.

No man can tame the tongue.  Compare that to the theology of Paul.

4:13 I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.

One apostle is defeated in that "no man can tame [the tongue]".  Another apostle "can do all things through Christ".  I would assume that would include taming the tongue.  One apostle preached a message of power that he called "my gospel".  The other apostle preached a message of defeat that he called "religion".  One apostle emphasized the importance of Jesus, the other barely mentions His name.  One apostle says we are justified by faith only, the other says we are justified by our works.  One apostle says we are "free from sin", the other sees a sin in every action or inaction.  One apostle collected money from his churches to feed the starving members of the other apostle's church.  The apostle who was saved by grace through faith did more good works than the apostle who was justified by his works.

30:19 I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, [that] I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live:

The bible seems to present two ways.  One is called "good news", the other is called "pure and undefiled religion".  It's up to us to chose life or death, blessing or cursing.

Rob

shane bowyer
November 04, 2008
Rob -  I don't personally see any validity to name it and claim it theology, or anything close to it.  It all seems to be pride mistaken for faith.  How you explained your belief doesn't appear to me to clash all that much with James.  It seems to me to be the other side of the same coin. 

You mentioned James reference to the tongue, in that "no man can tame it".  How is he wrong, no man can tame it?  Only God's grace and mercy can bring any weakness within us into submission.  I feel the need to defend him because Paul and the other church leaders respected his judgment and council.  He was a leader of the early church.  He wouldn't have been aloud to lead, in fact he would have stood a better chance of being linked with the Pharisees than the church if he believed what you say he did.  If what you say about him is true he would have been a persecuter of the church not one to further the gospel as the book of Acts confirms he helped do.
Mike n Laura
November 04, 2008

"One of his sons - a deacon in the church - shares his theology of condemnation.  And it's all based on James 4:17."

Rob, people have also used scripture to justify things like slavery and genocide. However, it isn't scripture that is enslaving anyone in guilt, it's the misreading of it. Have you consulted any other sources of info on the scriptures which trouble you? Or do you rely entirely on yourself to stumble into the proper reading of it? There are people who have devoted their lives to the study of scripture. You would do well to consult some of them. At least get yourself a fresh perspective, and one that honors scripture, all of it.

I'm not on MyChurch to debate any topic endlessly. I left this one when I read this - "If a passage of scripture is destroying people, how do we stop it?" I read in my bible the following, 

All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work. (2 Tim 3:16-17)

Rebuking and correcting don't feel good, and they aren't supposed to either. Scripture's purpose isn't to put us all into a warm fuzzy comfort zone. Sometimes we struggle with what we read. But if the struggle leads us toward God, it's all good. There is also the lesson here that someone more experienced in handling scripture is needed to teach, rebuke, correct, and train. May I suggest you find such a person and quit leading the less experienced astray.  Yes, this comment was written in love and with great concern, brother. Concern for you AND for my readers. If you have anything more to add, please do so by messaging me. Thanks!

Ron Falcone
November 05, 2008

Terrific word! I just taught on the same idea recently and used the song by Bob Carlisle(?)"We fall down" and it really hits home with not only humbleness, but the willingness to get back up after you fall down.

Be blessed by He who blesses.