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Unlike her big brother who has spent several nights at "Aunt Kat's" house, Sarah, my 8-year-old niece had only stayed overnight at my house once, maybe three years ago. Sarah is truly a "Mama's Girl!" She and I have shared many special days together, but when it's time for bed, she wants to be at home where her "mama" can tuck her in.
Yesterday I got a special surprise. I took my parents and Sarah out for Father's Day lunch. She and I had a play day planned for Monday, and I told her she could go home with me yesterday and spend the night if she wanted, knowing she wouldn't go for that. But she did! So from yesterday afternoon until this evening, I have played and played and played!
I have playfully told Sarah many times that she is my favorite niece, to which she always replies that she's my only niece. My only niece, yes, but truly special nonetheless! Sarah's name is Sarah Katherine, named after me, and, like me, she has an affinity for the arts and academics. She just finished 2nd grade and tested at an 8th grade reading level. Her mathematical skill and her vocabulary are impressive for her age. She can recite the names of all the books of the Bible, and she has a delightful sense of humor. Of most importance, however, she is a kind, caring, and compassionate little girl with unusual maturity and sensitivity to others.
She did get homesick at bedtime last night. She went to bed bravely, but was crying 20 minutes later. I held her and told her stories about when I've been homesick, and about when her brother Charlie was homesick at my house when he was younger. She laughed at these stories, finding comfort in knowing it could happen even to Charlie, and she soon went to back to bed and slept peacefully.
Except for bedtime (which although sad, was sweet and tender), the visit was all happy, with tons of smiles and laughter! We played 2 games of Monopoly and several games of Family Feud and dominoes. We watched The Princess Diaries 2 and Ice Princess. We went to Mr. Gatti's to play games (video games, air hockey, etc.) and to Cold Stone for ice cream. (She ordered watermelon ice cream with M&M's.)
Sometimes adult life can get so harsh. Work deadlines, committee frustrations, challenging interactions, house and car concerns . . . What a blessing to have children in our lives. They ground us. They remind us of joy and of play. They remind us of honesty and innocence. And amazingly, the time we spend with children, as blessed as it is to us, is just as blessed, and oh, so very important, to the children! I would not exchange these two days of Monopoly and princess movies for any other experience, no matter how productive! My little Sarah is a most precious gift!  Little Sarah attacking her Aunt Kat with a squirt bottle; and 1st grade Sarah.
9:37 "Whoever receives one such child in my name receives me; and whoever receives me, receives not me but him who sent me."
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Denise |
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June 19, 2007 at 4:18am |
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Kathy, I can relate, aren't children wonderful? I enjoy my two grandsons so much. They fight with each other like cats and dogs, but I would not trade the times I spend with them for anything. Money could never replace the joy it is to share my time with them. Their's is an unconditional love. Their love is close to God's love for us, for they are so forgiving, and trusting, and faithful. I thank my God for those little ones, for life would be so dull without them. |
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Sometimes it takes a child to let me see how much time and worries I spend in the trivialities of life. I am happy you spend quality time with the innocense and happines of a child.
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What a wonderful story, Kathy....something tells me these were some of the most productive days you could have had... |
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Great story...last night, my little guy (he's three) just didn't want to go to bed, so I told him I'd lay down with him 'til he fell asleep. Now, that doesn't happen all the time, so it's not like we're messing up his sleeping on his own, but there'll be a day when it's not 'cool' to have daddy do that, so I don't ever pass it up. Watching a child sleep makes you feel close to God...he's a little perfect human being, God's creation, so full of energy and promise for the future, and it lets you slow down and realize that, just as you said. |
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Believe it or not, but a few non-father guy friends and I discussed the joy of raising children. We may make great fathers or not, but we all agreed that children were little people too deserving as much time, respect, and patience we hope to get from them one day. One story I'd like to share went something like:
I knew she wanted to be pushed in the stroller and just got in. So he told her that she had to ask: "may i have a ride in the stroller please?" She got out and thought about it for a moment and asked "may i have a ride in the stroller please?" He replied: "yes you may, thank you very much for asking".
Children are smarter than we give them credit for. They're generally eager to learn, gain approval, and show/accept love. Most of the early angst (terrible two's) is in response to their inability to communicate properly, but I've seen that taken care of by their learning of sign language. |
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| God bless you and your daughter richly!! |
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Yes my own kids remind me of innocense, doggone it, ain't it wonderful?? What a heartwarming contribution this is! ~mike |
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Kathy |
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June 19, 2007 at 5:09pm |
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Denise, Lourdes, Voice, GrowinginFaith, aaalllen, Valerie, and Mike: Thank you for responding to my overflow of joy and love!
Growing, I know that feeling! I lay down with Sarah when she went to bed the second time, and she went right to sleep. Those days are definitely limited!
Mike, you are funny, doggone it!
Denise, yes, they like to fight, don't they! I much prefer getting my niece and nephew one at a time, because their together dynamic is completely different! |
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June 21, 2007 at 9:11am |
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| Thanks, Claymagnet! Both of those really are good movies! I could watch them again! |
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| I have two children and their mother as friends and they just adore me. The guys and I the oldest is 13 the youngest is 10. We play all kinds of games at their and my house. Mostly video games. They are the rough and violent kind I would rather not play. I have to remind myself that this is not real and ignore it completely. I try to get them to play other ones but they mostly have that kind. We played the Boardgame Monopoly just a couple of Wednesdays ago and it was very fun. I think that I lost but then I like to see kids or just youger ones win. I'll tell you that I am in my 34s. Have a great day. |
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Kathy |
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July 03, 2007 at 9:42pm |
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| Thanks for your thoughts, eckerdman! Children are so impressionable that every interaction leaves an imprint on them. It is such a responsibility and privilege to be a positive influence in their lives amidst a world of confusion! |
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July 03, 2007 at 10:00pm |
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| Kathy, Nice story! Any Aunt that takes their niece to Cold Stone Creamery deserves a star for sure! My favorite, yum :) Better Batter with white chocolate chips...gotta have one! I am just glad the closest one is a half an hour away, or I would be a broke cow. |
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Kathy |
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July 04, 2007 at 5:15am |
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You are a woman of refined taste, Sue! :) If you girls stop in for lunch on the way to the OBX, I'll buy you a Better Batter with white chocolate chips, I love it size! |
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July 04, 2007 at 5:50am |
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| Kathy that is a wonderful way to fill a day or two thank you for sharing it. I remember when my nieces were small they would come and stay with me they were such joys to spend time with. We played for hours and always ended with special treats of somekind. Now it's my grandkids and it is a blessing for me but as you say it's a blessing and a lasting memory for them my niece's now one 40yrs old and the other 37 talk about the fun times we use to have. |
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| Spending time with kids is such a blessing from God.It's hard to say who is more blessed them or us.Sometimes I suspect it's us.We often take the kids in our life for granted not realizing how fast time flies.Been thinking of having my niece(15) over for a week.Thanks Kathy,I'm making that call now. |
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Kathy; I love this post. It is so beautiful the relationship you share with your niece and I am certain your nephew too. I have been an auntie since I was 14years old. I love each and every one of my nieces and nephews (5 girls and 4 boys). I remember holding my first nephew for the very first time, he had the most beautiful red hair and he was jaundice so his skin was yellow, but he was such an amazing thing to me. That was my first experience with a newborn, he was so tiny! Two months later my first niece was born with a long body and the biggest brightest eyes I have ever seen. I have been so blessed by each and every one of them. Now they range in ages... Let me see James is 21, Felicia will be 21, Randy is 19, David is 18, Veronica is 18, Nicole is 14, Nathan is 10, Destiny is 6, and Shanice will be 4. My boys are 10 and 12. I can't believe I can remember their ages, it is hard to keep track. I have always had a special bond with my nieces and nephews. My relationship with them prepared me for my own babies. All children are wonderful whether they are your own or someone else's. |
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July 04, 2007 at 11:16am |
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Amen, Kell! Ages 4-21, and 9 of them! That's a lot of aunt love! And you have a new profile pic! Thanks for sharing your story!
Rosie, amen! Our investments in children's lives bring forever dividends! I'm 45 and still treasure childhood memories of time with my Aunt Margie!
Racunpoodle, we will be on the lookout for another niece-day blog coming up soon! :) |
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July 12, 2007 at 6:10am |
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Hi Rick! lol - I do accept new nephews and nieces occasionally! The next time you are passing through Salisbury, NC, I will take you for pizza and ice cream, and even buy you some game tokens! :) |
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| You inspired me Kathy, am tring to make arrangements for our niece to come next week. |
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