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There used to be a time when I wasn't so honest. If I went to the store and they missed charging me for something, or charged a lower price, I would not call their attention to it. Believe me though, if they charged me twice for one item, or over charged me, I was right there to let them know!
These days though, I really have this deep burning desire to be honest about everything. A few weeks ago I was not charged for a bag of cat food, over $10 in price, and I called the store asking if I could put it on my credit card rather than run back to the store. They told me they needed the UPC code, and to bring it with me the next time I came to the store. I did...I gave it to the cashier when I checked out and explained that they hadn't charged me for it the week before, and she looked at me like I was crazy. She then thanked me for my honesty, saying most people wouldn't do that. I know, because I used to be one of those people.
The other day, I looked at my bill and got charged twice for an item, didn't notice it until I was already home, and didn't feel like it was worth the effort to go back(it was only $3.99). In my younger days *smile*, I wouldn't have been so easy going about it. Maybe the Lord has worked in me???
I try to tell the truth in everything, and if it is something I know will hurt someone, then I may not even speak of it, depending on what it will do to that person. I probably even go to the extreme in giving information that will prove my truthfulness and/or innocence, because I know that I used to lie, and one lie led to another, and I got caught up in those lies. I am not sure if people believe me all the time now, even though I have changed, there still might be that seed of doubt in their minds that I am not being truthful because of the past.
But I know that God has worked in my life because of my desire to be truthful. After all, it is a reflection of Him that I want people to see in me.
How about you? How honest are you?
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| February 05, 2009 |
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| In the ways of which you've discussed, I am very honest. I grew up with a thief in the house, so that tends to push you into it to the extreme. However, sorta like you mentioned, you don't need to tell ppl ALL your emotions or feelings about them, unless God leads you to, because some things do NOT need to be aired out. If it is going to tear them down and do them more harm than good than "shut up." lol So is there such thing as too honest? Only when our honesty destroys someone. Otherwise, go ahead. :-) |
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| February 05, 2009 |
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| I used to be really bad about not telling the truth or even partial truths as a kid but I met a guy who did not tolerate that kind of behaviour and I tried to stop doing it but it wasn't till I made it right with God and told Him I was sorry and to help me to quit doing it that it made a difference in my life. Now I have had a hard time because all three of my kids did it alot as children. It takes a long long time to get that trust back once you screw it up. I believe you when you say you have changed because I know I have and all things are possible to those that believe in Jesus. Thanks for sharing. |
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| February 05, 2009 |
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There's honest, there's really honest, and then there's crazy geek honest!
Honest: point out to the cashier during checkout that she overlooked an item
Really honest: go back into the store after discovering the overlooked item while getting in your car
Crazy geek honest: drive 20 miles back to the store to have the cashier ring up an overlooked item for $2!
I've been all three during my life. I think the "crazy geek" honesty basically makes you look like an alien from outer space, and people quickly become suspicious and distrustful of you b/c you are so "different", lol. I generally keep it at "really honest", lol. Good blog Deb, it'll be interesting to read other responses! |
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| February 05, 2009 |
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| That was a great read!! I really learned something from it. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with us-- it was wonderful! :) |
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| February 05, 2009 |
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I thank God that He has brought me from where I used to be (younger) to now (old lady,smile). I was a terrible liar when I was growing up. I think part of it stemmed from my insecurities and lack of self confidence. However as I became older and into the Word I realized that I didn't need to impress anyone except my Father.
I have been in situations where I was undercharged for something or something was overlooked and I brought it to that person's attention. Someone drops some money and you tell them about it. People look at you funny and in all honesty you wonder why bother, but you know why.. It's the RIGHT THING TO DO....
When you feed upon the Word and it gets into you, you know the RIGHT things to do - Praise God...
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| February 05, 2009 |
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If any man say he does not lie, he deceive himself.
God's word, for God's people..I love you. |
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| February 05, 2009 |
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| I am a pretty honest perosn. I learn as I grow that is for sure and each day I learn from my mistakes. |
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| February 05, 2009 |
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| I'm being Honest that I have lied. I told my kids there was a Santa (Smiles) |
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| February 06, 2009 |
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Lara, is there such a thing as too honest? I do believe there is. Sometimes we just need to keep our mouths shut :)
Janeice, It is great that you met a guy that didn't tolerate dishonesty, but to meet the Lord and have Him be the One to help you change, that is the ultimate gift!
Mike, well, I guess I do have my limits on honesty then. I wouldn't drive 10 miles back to the store to have them ring up the $10 bag of cat food. But I did take the UPC code in the next time I went to the store. So I guess I border somewhere between really honest and crazy geek honest :) Thanks for your input!
Sherlock, I am glad you learned something from it!
mstovall2003, why bother? Because it's the right thing to do, AND because the Father knows. :)
KC Joe, we are imperfect, so we are going to end up telling a lie or stretching the truth no matter what. Thank the Lord we have Him to help us make it right.
Wolf Spirit Child, oh, yes, I think the biggest way we learn is from our mistakes. At least I know that is true for me.
Remarkable Terry, I remember when I was in the second grade, my teacher told our class there was no Santa Claus. Goodness, did that rile up some parents! There are some things that are just fun, like Santa, and maybe there is a way to do it that is considered not lying :) |
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| February 06, 2009 |
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| I'm very honest! I also remember the days likeu said I would argue if they over charged me but i wouldnt say anything if they undercharged me or if i walked out with the paper undermy arm and didnt pay. BUT THAT was many many years ago!!!! I REMEMBER a time when I was younger ( much LOL) I found a change purse in a cart at the supermarket, I opened it and found over a $100. I took the money and spent it, think then it was a gift. Today If i find money I do what ever it takes to find the owner. As it might be ther last bit of money for the year,or there rent money . God has molded me differently today and I am so grateful for that! |
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| February 06, 2009 |
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| Donna, I am so grateful for the changes that God has made in me as well, and I am happy for the changes He has made in you. Isn't He an awesome God??? |
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| February 06, 2009 |
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| How odd, this subject matter was a topic of conversation in our Sunday school just last week and we were commenting on how strange it is that you are made to feel like you are the odd one for wanting to be honest. It is indeed a strange experience, especially the first time it happens to you and I agree that most people don't know how to relate because it is not what they are expecting. But doesn't your spirit feel good when you know you have followed the way of the Spirit and glorified God; praise Him. |
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| February 08, 2009 |
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| Teral, yes, it does make you feel good when you know you have followed the way of the spirit and glorified God. Way cool! |
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| February 08, 2009 |
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| Jesus restores, thank you for sharing your stories. It does pay to be honest, if for no other reason than to know we did what was right. God sees it, and He will reward us someday! |
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| March 09, 2009 |
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Excellent blog. I have hit that wall, too; I seldom spoke up about being overcharged or undercharged. Then it was only when overcharged noticeably. It occured to me that I do have to make sure I speak up about both. So, I do both now. |
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| March 09, 2009 |
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| Jen, I think it is when the holy spirit is inside of us, we have to do the right thing...no, we WANT to do the right thing. |
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