How would you treat each other if he or she was Jesus? I pondered this question in regarding my husband and my lack of discipline in cleaning my appartment. God posed this question to me about two months ago now while in a serious discussion of my lack of house keeping duties. I fell all to pieces in my sister's arms. She told  me she me she loved me and she wanted to see me change. I felt unworthy of God's redemptive grace. The more I thought about I realized that she was right and GOd began to work in my callous heart toward my husband in regards to housekeeping. My appartment has been clean ever since that day. I say this to say if you have something to say to brother or sister in Christ go ahead and do it and make sure it is the Lord calling you to do it because you won't see a change in the other person unless it is from the Lord. The Lord knows when the right moment is and He will let you know. I am sure it did a work in both our hearts and set us both free. I have had other people tell me the same thing but some how this was different. I thank you Lord for that conversation.