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contemplating suicide
4 stars|7 comments|February 18, 2009|254 reads
 
 i read the blog "pls read" but didnt really put to much thought into it until today. my freind josh asked a girl out. hes very into her. she is the MOST heartless person i have EVER met. he has attempted suicide twice so far! he has also informed her about this. she laughed.

p.s. to josh i love and care about u

 
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Kathy
Kathy
February 18, 2009

Are adults aware of Josh's attempts?  If not, please share this info with a school guidance counselor or another trusted adult in a position of authority.  At 14 every rejection can seem unsurmountable, but if we work through them, they can help us grow and mature.  As cruel as others can seem to us sometimes, they are never worth throwing our lives away for.  I'm praying for Josh, and I'm glad he has you for a friend. 

black sunshine
 black sunshine
February 18, 2009
im telling my step dad
Prophet Jay
 Prophet Jay
February 18, 2009
Suicide is nothing to take lightly. Even joking about it will leave residual thoughts that can manifest at a time of feeling low or depressed and can wreak havok with the word of God. Even if a person is only trying to get attention, there may be some disturbing thought patterns going on that may just be symptoms of an even greater problem.
Cheryl Whit
 Cheryl Whit
February 18, 2009
Yes, tell someone just like Kathy said and Prohet Jay also is right on track.  

Josh, God has a plan for you.  I do want to share a verse with you, it is pressing on my heart to do so, usually i do not 'toss' a verse someone's way especially if they are very down due to the difference in interpretation at a time in one's life but I feel i should tell you that God has big plans for you and when you are persecuted {like this girl is doing} then God has someone MUCH MUCH better for you.  I have been through this in relationships and now it is a ministry God has given me, TRUST me...God has SUCH a WONDERFUL girl for you.  Seek God first, look towards God by reading your word {Bible} going to youth time, church...and then God will give her to you at the right time for both of your lives.

29:11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith Jehovah, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope in your latter end.

 

God has a wonderful and it starts right now...choose life!
black sunshine
 black sunshine
February 18, 2009
hes being so stupid and deserves so much better!!! i asked him who would so-and-so say and when i got to his dad he said his dad would be happier so i said SO WHAT IF YOUR DAD WOULD BE HAPPY but 1 good thing lately hes said hes an aitheist but today he said had i suceeded i wouldnt go to heaven
Liz Bell
 Liz Bell
February 18, 2009
Please get him help as we as a family experienced suicide last year when my daughter-in-law sisters husband of just a year or so took his own life he was just 23 and left Dawn with a 18mth baby son their lives were shattered not that the little boy will remember but he could tell something was wrong.
So as I say get him help before it is too late
crystal
 crystal
August 07, 2009
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I know this blog is old but I do pray that your friend is allright now. My sister tried suicide a few years ago. Just a feew weeks ago, a friend of ours lost her son to suicide. She is heartbroken. I think that a person must be hurting very badly to think about this. But they are not thinking about the hurt they leave behind.
If this girl is that thoughtless, she doesn't deserve your friend
All my life I was in either an abusive relationship or a verbal one, so was my mother and my grandmother. My husband asked me why I stayed with men that cared nothing for me.  My answer shocked me, Because I wanted to be accepted. I was blind to the fact that I wasn't accepted the wayI was, I was letting them mold me into what they wanted. Pretty stupid huh?
Sad how we can let others make us feel so usless, and no good.