I think what he's trying to tell you is to seek after him right now. Instead of seeking "her". God will put things in place if you seek him instead of chasing our human desires, which includes the desire to have a girlfriend. When it says "Keep your way far from her", i think he means keep your "way" close to him.
those are all GREAT ways to put it!! and i think you should just pray your heart out and just listen...instead of talking to Him just have a time where you are just LISTENING to Him and He will show you the way. sometimes thats just how it works and allyou can really do for the situation...dont worry! just trusin the lord with all your sould mind and strength and things will all come out. so yeah! :) it will be ok. just remember that He is in control no matter what happens at any time in the future! :)