This one is a doozey!! The trick with this one is loving "yourself" so that you can love your neighbor in this rightful manor-do not allow anything or anyone to get a foot in the door and kill your joy and more importantly, your testimony!  God didn't make any junk and He certainly has not ever said, "OOPS! Where did this person come from?" Everyone has a "purposed" life...so let's get busy loving ourselves so we can hurry and love on each other!  GOD BLESS!