3:1 Likewise you wives, be submissive to your husbands, so that some, though they do not obey the word, may be won without a word by the behavior of their wives, Sometimes the Road is Narrow, sometimes the Road is Hard, but are we not given the strength to walk?  If we have not the strength, doesn't the Lord provide it in His embrace?  I will admit to finding it difficult to submit.  It is against my nature, I am human.  But how much smoother things go when I submit.  Oh there are times I am forced to submit but do not agree with the end result of the situation.  But I am slowly  learning that if I don't like it, agree with it, etc.  tell it to Jesus.