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If Starbucks Were a Church
||July 25, 2007|5922 reads
 

To add a comment to "If Starbucks Were a Church"
zachary snow
July 25, 2007
I think you are dead right. Sad...
Brad Peglow
July 25, 2007
In other words, Starbucks is like the high places. People go to church seeking counsel and blessing. But they visit the high places (places where idols like caffeine are worshipped) to find comfort and sleep with the temple prostitutes. Okay so maybe not that bad, but you make a great point.
Andy Monro
July 25, 2007

If the church were about selling something, then I suppose that it might have a great deal to learn from Starbucks, because Starbucks is fundamentally about selling things. But, the church is about being sent into the world with a message of free forgiveness to proclaim (Matthew 28:18-20, Mark 16:15-16, Luke 24:45-47, John 20:21-23, Acts 1:8). Its preaching should be clear and in the languages of the hearers. But, this does not mean that its proclamation should be turned into a sales pitch.

I have the feeling that if Paul were here today he would spend less time trying to turn the church into Starbucks and more time going into Starbucks and preaching the Gospel (Acts 17:16-34).

zachary snow
July 25, 2007
Amen jam! You've identified the problem very well...the church has become an institution that tries to "make a sell" to "seekers" instead of equipping the saints for the work of the ministry.
Mike McCorquodale
July 25, 2007
Amen, Jam137!
Andy Monro
July 25, 2007
Just to add a little more, the church should reason and persuade and make a defense of the faith with gentleness and respect, as it says in places like Acts 19:8, Acts 28:23-24, 1 Peter 3:15. But, none of this equals selling something, because grace cannot be sold or bought or earned---rather, it is given and received (Acts 8:18-20, Ephesians 2:8-9, Romans 3:23-24, Romans 5:17).
Kathy
July 25, 2007
Interesting thoughts, Carol.  The following line in particular jumped out at me for some reason.  I'd love to hear you flesh out your picture of this a little!
Are we moving towards a lazy television-like way of doing church?
Carol Suh
July 25, 2007

Thanks for the comments all. 

Kathy, I guess what I meant was sometimes it seems the message is made to appeal to the masses in such a way that requires little effort and response on the part of the reciever.  Like when I watch television, all I need to do is sit back and let the images and messages come to me.  I'm allowing brands to market themselves to me.  It's comfortable and easy and requires little effort on my part as the viewer.   

Likewise, if there's little effort in receiving something, there's little value to me in keeping it as well.  (ooh.. that sounded deep huh?) :)

Sue
July 25, 2007
I was curious to see who's profile page the "desperately needed" link was going to take me to!  
Andy Monro
July 26, 2007

Perhaps it's now worth bringing up liturgical worship. Christians have been worshipping liturgically during the entire history of the church, borrowing many components of their services from the Jewish synagogue worship that had developed during the previous centuries (since the time of the OT exile). In liturgical worship, there is a rhythm of God speaking to His people and they responding back to Him in prayer, praise and thankgiving; there is certainly not the sense of just "sitting back."

Also, sanctuaries of liturgical churches often impact the senses in many ways, including sight (through images, architecture, etc.), sound (through instruments such as organs) and even smell (through candles, incense, wine, etc.), and these experiences can "stick" with us in a manner that is unattainable by projecting movies, PowerPoint slides, etc. For this reason, I think that it is important to carefully consider how the overall worship environment in a church strengthens or diminishes faith.

This brief outline of a Lutheran service and this picture of a particularly striking Lutheran sanctuary (not mine!) may help clarify a little bit of what I mean. As a footnote, I'll add that certain Lutheran hymns are far from being "comfortable and easy" to sing, but I have grown to really appreciate them.

Matt Farina
July 26, 2007

This reminds me of something Jesus said.  "Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit,  teaching them to observe all that I commanded you;" (Matthew 28:19-20)

The interesting part about this is when you dig into the greek.   Jesus is saying to make disciples and you the way to make disciples is by baptizing and teaching.  Now, I am not saying there isn't experience; but, I think we are doing a lot less of the teaching and learning.

Think about it this way.  Can you really experience being in someone presence without knowing them?  Imagine being in the presence of Abraham Lincoln.  That would be amazing for most of us.  Now, imagine you didn't know who he was or what he did.  You probably wouldn't care so much.

This is something we are loosing that seems to be tied to the current post modern trends in the church. 

If you don't know who God is and what He does for you than why choose the church over starbucks? If the people you know at starbucks treat you with more love and concern than the Christians you know why not just have a warm cup of coffee?

And, the solution is not a coffee bar at the church.

Thanks for your thoughts on this book.... I think I just might have to go read it now. 

Mike n Laura
July 26, 2007
Actually for me, Starbucks is like the 4th place. It's an attractive place to go hang out, as long as we can get the comfy chairs! If not, well... then the 4th place might be the Bare Bones Grill & Brewery across the street... mmm, realizing there's no real point to this comment... good blog though!  ~mike
Voice in DC
July 26, 2007

Venti Carmel Latte for the fifth pew on the left, please.

Charlie  Lafferty
July 26, 2007

I'm with Mike, I think we could learn much more about being "light to the world" in a bar setting.  Most folks don't go to a bar just to drink.  They go cuz they find friends there and they can open up and bare their souls to others.  Traditional churches don't provide this opportunity and some would rather not admit they have problems.

I don't think they had bars or taverns in the first century, but if they had, I bet Jesus would have been there.  I'm not sure what folks talk about in Starbucks.

Randy Lloyd
July 27, 2007
I know several men who meet at the local Starbuck's for Bible Study, so I guess that could make it the 'third place'.  I have even heard that there is a Starbuck's type coffee shop in one of the Mega-Church's somewhere here in the DFW area that has a Starbuck's type coffee shop.  It is opened to all and they have local Christian Musicians come in to play. Of course I just go for the caffeine; give me a Latte any time. J 

Randy

Lucia Johnson
July 27, 2007
totally agree...dido
Jeff Hansen
July 27, 2007

Very excellent and insightful post!  I had never realized this interesting Starbucks parallel/metaphor before.  It really fits!  Along these lines, a "fast food church" description comes to mind.  Similarly, with all of the watered-down church services out there, I tend to think of them as "diet church" or something. 
 
jam137 - Thanks for posting those awesome links!  They're very useful and informative!

Andy Monro
July 27, 2007
Dulcimerist, let me guess: either you wrote up the page with the service outline or else you know  the person who did. :-)
Valerie Lynn  Williams
July 27, 2007
Thoughtful and concise as wellas interesting.
Linda Core
July 27, 2007
Making your way in the world today takes everything you've got.
Taking a break from all your worries, sure would help a lot.

Wouldn't you like to get away?

Sometimes you want to go

Where everybody knows your name,
and they're always glad you came.
You wanna be where you can see,
our troubles are all the same
You wanna be where everybody knows
Your name.

You wanna go where people know,
people are all the same,
You wanna go where everybody knows
your name.

Making your way in the world today
Takes everything you've got;
Taking a break from all your worries
Sure would help a lot.
Wouldn't you like to get away?

All those night when you've got no lights,
The check is in the mail;
And your little angel
Hung the cat up by it's tail;
And your third fiance didn't show;

Sometimes you want to go
Where everybody knows your name,
And they're always glad you came;
You want to be where you can see,
Our troubles are all the same;
You want to be where everybody knows your name.

Roll out of bed, Mr. Coffee's dead;
The morning's looking bright;
And your shrink ran off to Europe,
And didn't even write;
And your husband wants to be a girl;

Be glad there's one place in the world
Where everybody knows your name,
And they're always glad you came;
You want to go where people know,
People are all the same;
You want to go where everybody knows your name.

Where everybody knows your name,
And they're always glad you came;
Where everybody knows your name,
And they're always glad you came...

Cheers!



Full Lyrics Index:

Jason Arnold
July 29, 2007

One thing I've noticed that is a great way of "re-claiming the third place" is to have Bible studies -- actively and often -- in places like Starbucks as many time a week as possible.  And no, I'm not meaning so that the people in the Bible studies can have a Caramel Frappalattesmoothie with next to their highlighters and notepads (my wife used to be a Starbucks GM so I'm allowed to make up drink names lol), but rather so that the people in the Starbucks can be exposed to those reading and studying the Word of God.

10:17 So then faith [cometh] by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.

Often we forget that we don't need to always approach people directly, face-to-face with tract in hand, about the Gospel.  We're called to be fishers of men!  When was the last time you saw a fisherman jump into the water, grab the fish with his bare hands and yank the hook through the fish's lip?  Instead, he looks for a place where the fish are, casts the appropriate lure in the general area, then waits for the fish to make the move.  He doesn't make the move for the fish -- that would be hunting, not fishing -- but rather the burden falls upon the fish as to whether he wants what's being offered or not.

People will know you're a Christian the same way the fish know a human -- they just sense it.  As a result, after observing you for a short time, they'll either assess you as a threat or a possessor of something they desire, andthey'll make the move when they're ready and the Lord prompts them to.  Rushing that process is quite frankly getting in the way, and it is never an improvement on the pace the Lord has set for that person.

 

Wendy Billings
July 30, 2007
Well, yes. Everyone seems to be getting lazy, including me. However, you don't need the church for refuge, cause the church is where you go so long as you truelly believe in Him. If you are just going places to relax or meet up with fellow christians, it's all good.
dave buckingham
July 31, 2007
I love everything about this post.
Kaylen Jochimsen
July 31, 2007
this is from a bit further up the post, but i want to talk about alice's post. My favorite lines were:
My present view is that church is a group of folks with a common purpose 
And:
We have a lot of pretense of perfection, of 
pressed clothes, of Sunday morning pasted smiles.  We need to admit our need for each other and for Him - and roll up our collective sleeves
to "come as we are" and know that our presence is important to those here - they are truly glad we came. 

I've found that the reason lots of people are never willing to listen to what you have to say is because they either think that 1) they aren't good enough for the church or 2) the think that churches are hypocritical, because they talk of how everyone makes mistakes and is forgiven and anyone is welcome, and then shun people who they think have made too big of a mistake or don't belong. i actually think this is a really good topic and maybe we should start a blog for just this, because there are lots of things here to discuss.
Voice in DC
July 31, 2007
Just about  the time we think we "get it right", that worship is just about perfect, that the teachings can't get much better, that the alter calls are effective, someone walks in and asks for a Grande Dutch Latte and you say...we don't do that here.

I truly hate being made to feel uncomfortable, but I learned a long time ago that any service where I walk away from feeling comfortable was nothing more to me that a ritual.  I personally enjoy having the consumer-based fulfillment outside the holy of holies, but when we enter in, I want nothing but God.
Kaylen Jochimsen
July 31, 2007
to me services are when I want to learn everything about god and how to live so I please Him, but what about the other parts of church, like small groups or some youth groups, that also give you a safe place full of people that are having the same struggles as you to fellowship with?
Voice in DC
July 31, 2007
In those cases, I am all for meeting people where they are and making life real for those small groups...each with their own personalities.
Kaylen Jochimsen
July 31, 2007

i'm just saying that for a lot of people church can be like a safe haven, a place where you don't have to fight to explain why you believe what you believe or why you won't go to that beer party or why you don't like some rap music or why you don't dress like most people or whatever it is people bother you about. It's really hard to stay focused on god and stay strong in your faith during the week at school where it seems like a lot of people are always harassing you. Yes, I need to hear the sermon and grow in my faith, but I also need time around my fellow christian teens. I look forward to Wednesday nights and Sunday nights all school week long. When I go to youth on Sunday not only do I hear and sermon and discuss it, but I also talk to my friends about the stresses in my week. When I go to bible study not only do I get to dig deep into the meaning of god's word and see how it relates to my life, but I also get encouragement that gets me through the rest of the week.

Charlie  Lafferty
August 02, 2007
Why do so many feel that studying, worshipping, praying, discussion and just plain ol' living the Christian life has to be tied to church..especially the one "I" go to? 

Is ekklesia tied to a name, belief system, creed, building, or a Person?  Could God's idea of ekklesia be coming together anytime and anywhere, and in many various ways to enjoy His life together and encourage one another and reach out to others?
Voice in DC
August 02, 2007
Charlie, certainly no disagreement there.

As Kaylen states, though, a church building with a known structure does provide a safe haven.  As such, I have to agree with her, too, that there needs to be a safe place to go to be encouraged, to meet with others, and to just "be".
Maria  Sanchez
August 03, 2007

Church is not the building, but the congregation of the saints, you can worship God on your own, but Psalm 133: 1Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!  This means anywhere, I have prayer service at my house once a week, and other brother's have it at their homes on the other days.  We are always "In church".

We often indulge in things that are temporary like a tall white mocha chip frappuccino.  When we indulge in lifelasting things like the presence of God and the Holy spirit, we are satisfied to the fullest in and out of church.

Great blog.

john cummins
August 03, 2007

I think Carebear said, and Kathy quoted her, "Are we moving towards a lazy television-like way of doing church?"

My response is moving towards, what do you mean moving towards? We've been there for about 20 years IMNSHO. All we here about is "seeker-friendly", "needs-based", and comfort.....

I can hear the Lord say, "My house is to be called a house of prayer", can't you??? 

Jason Arnold
August 05, 2007

Makes me think...how come most people don't know what prayer is?  Or if they do, why don't they realize it more often?

Prayer is the two-way communication between the Lord and His people, both expressing to Him all our fears and questions and requests and thanksgivings and Him communicating to us what He wants us to know at that moment.

When Jesus repeated "My house is to be a house of prayer", He was reminding them (and us) that the whole point of even having a "House of God" was for people to meet together for the purpose of hearing from God and communicating with Him.  It's not a place to hear about "Seven Steps to Financial Abundance" or "The Five Reasons Why God Wants You Happy" -- it's a place to be focused on and growing in relationship with the Lord!

Go figure!

I hate the fact that we even call them "services"...sometimes I wonder how people can leave a "service" and not have the impression that the church is there to serve their needs, since that's what so many churches spend their energy doing.

The most honest statement a pastor can make is this: "This building isn't a church, the people of God are His Church, and if you think that this place exists solely to pander to your comfort and convenience, you've been sorely mistaken."

What the mature believer knows (though they might never say it out loud for fear of sounding "harsh") is that they exist to serve the Lord first, His people second, and themselves last.  They don't attend a fellowship to be served by others, but to serve.  This flies in the face of "Starbucks Christian Church".

Voice in DC
August 10, 2007
...still waiting for my Caramel Latte...third pew, left side, please...
JP Carlock
August 13, 2007
Love all the comments on this subject. Two things though first I do believe that the good Lord never needed any certain place to just sit down and spread the good word. He was not ashamed he did not need a place to hide to feel free to talk about God.
Also there is two sides of the church one being the business side (the UGLY side), where churches must try to sell themselves. The more congregation there is the more help we can provide for the poor and sick. Churches also need money coming in just to pay the electric bill and the water and any other bills they may need to run the church. We all forget about that side but unfortanetly this takes money; the only way to get a bigger congregation is to sell the church by the word of mouth and advertisement.
Charlie  Lafferty
August 13, 2007
More questions:

Why does the church need a business side?  Where is an example of that?

Why should churches even be in the selling business?  Our living should identify who we ARE and Who we belong to.

Why do we need bigger congregations?  Where is that found?  Why not LIVE what we believe that the world may see.

Why not get with other saints during the week and enjoy the Lord together where ever we may be.  Starbucks might be a good starting place :).

Why not volunteer to help the poor?  Why not share what you have with others less fortunate without seeking anything in return?  Why not find a family that can't pay their utility bills and pay it for them?

Why not invite others to our homes and get acquainted at the dinner table?  Why not put an add in the personal section of the news paper about seeking others who would like to get together and share their journey/adventure with others.

Why not practice the "great commission" by changing GO to as you are GOING..as you are going through your day to day life, be ready to give an answer to any who would ask?  Ah, but first we must live in such a way others will want to ask..hmmm.

How about getting together at Starbucks, McDonalds, the park, etc. with a few others and discuss this further and see what the Lord might do?
James Shears
August 14, 2007
I read Sweet's book and loved it.  I'm going to read it again to see what else I can glean from it.  The main thing I got the first time is that the church in the 21st century needs to find ways to engage all the senses in order to have the opportunity to proclaim the truth of the Gospel.  The growing churches in this country are doing that.  We Lutherans have a hard time moving past the old "lecture-only" model.
Casey Nunez
August 15, 2007
Actually at my Church we have in fact set it up just like a starbucks and offer a very wide variety before and also after service and also on friday nights.
In addition we do not have your usual Row Seating but replaced the seating with Round tables and some very comfie Chairs.
The pastors son josh Actually works at A starBucks in bermingham alabama.
I Personally am not a coffee Drinker but love the set up at my church.
If you are In The saint Rose Area Come Check us out For A truly heavenly cup Of coffee and some awesome Spiritual Food to go with it.
Easy On the Cream and heavy On The holy ghost please Sir ;)
Pierre du Plessis
August 16, 2007

Hi guys

pierre here from South Africa.. our church is called 3rdplace. we meet in a bar and give ppl (good) coffee free. then teach to them. it is a very relaxed and easy atmosphere.. not threatening to un churched or non churched (whatever you wanna call ppl) types. We want to be like starbucks (even though we do not have starbucks here, we have something something similiar called Seattle Coffee.. which i think is better..). so it is a easy place to come to, with hard teaching. unchurched does not equal stupid (all the time :) ). aaanyway check it ou if you want: www.3rdplace.co.za

 love

rich schwartz
August 16, 2007
I actually wish church were more like Starbucks.  Anyone who knows me will find the first statement shocking.  However, the reason is that I know that as a corporation Starbucks does more for the world than many churches.  I would have no problem is seeing that even the good they do is sin because they do not do it for the glory of God, but that's where it would be good for the church.  Examine it this way: Starbucks has (basically) one product. It is offered in varying ways but none the less still one product. Likewise, so does the church.  Here is a kicker.  You can see through its annual report exactly where the funds are going.  Where is your church dollar going?  I by no means seek to have an easy-cheesy service.  Again if you knew me, you would know that I am the last guy who desires pop church full of bubblegum rockers grooving to the beat in order to create a pseudo christian experience.  I would say though, maybe we should look at what Starbucks gets right, that we get wrong... so wrong.
Royal Nation
August 16, 2007
I am a starbucks alcoholic.... So to see this makes me think. What if I spent as much time in GOD's word like I do at starbucks... Or why don't I do a Bible study at star bucks.. The atomsphere is set...And there is so much peace there... I think the next time I do I will take my word.
patti parrott
August 20, 2007

I wish I were more like Jesus - what a great attitude he had when dealing with people.  Take Zacchaeus for instance.  As Jesus was passing by on the street, He looked up and saw this short guy, who just happened to be a crooked tax man, perched up in a tree trying get a look at what was going on.  In modern-day venacular, Jesus said something like - 'Hey dude, why don't you come down and we'll hang at your place, and maybe get a bite to eat.'  I mean, how much more down to earth could anyone be about sharing the gospel?  'Go ye' down the street and keep your spiritual eyes open for people who need God. 

Church should be a powerful place where people come to experience the presence and glory of God. This generation does not need some dummied down version of the gospel from a church podium.  But everyone is not going to come to a church.   Carry the glory with you to Starbucks, McDonalds, everywhere.  Be the salt that makes them thirsty for Him.

pp

Craig Gilman
August 23, 2007
The work that our church is doing in Birmingham City Centre (United Kingdom) is addressing this need. www.b1breathe.net
Derrick Campbell
August 23, 2007
Praise God ! It Seems To Me That The god Of This World has blinded us all ! if we can allow something like this to occupy or prescious time ! Do we not know that ! nither of the topics at hand has anything to do with SALVATION!

If we just could take our eyes off of everything else and focus on get ourself together and in right relationship with our FATHER in Heaven ! than we all could be changed into that image! from glory to glory!

we need to pray daily LORD Change ME!

whats wrong with the church today is that the saints of God Are to busy trying to play God instead of seeking Him and worshipping him in spirit and in truth!

neither of us can point a finger at any body for any reason because we all have sin and fallen short of the glory of God! the scriptures say that even on our best day that we are as filty rags in his site!

so this means that we all despertly need to be in church! whether it's in a coffe shop or a shopping mall no matter where you may find your self if Greather is He that is in you is really in you than CHURCH IS WITHIN THE BELIEVER!

Jesus Said go out into the highways and by ways but we want to try and seperate ourself from those who we have been sent to invite and tell of God's Love For Us !

If you really got a problem with a coffe shop or whatever ! dont speak on what you don't like about it but find something you do like about it and begin to build on it by speaking life into

life and death are in the power of the tounge and they that love it will eat of it's fruit!
now imagine im an unsaved seeking soul and I come across this

is that what CHristians do place them selves on a higher level that those who they have been sent to serve !

look at it like this if starbucks gets under my skin you know what I would do !

I would pray ! and ask the lord to Go before me into that starbucks and prepair the hearts of every indivisual that walsk through the door and I would walk in prayed up and confident that God's Word will never return un to him void and i will read the word silently to myself !

and greet people with great big smiles and say hello to everyone who crossed my path! and let my light so shine that others might see my great works in christ and come asking what must i do to be saved!

but today we go out and condem everything that we feel aint right!  Jesus said him self that he did
 not come to condem the world but that through him the world might have life and it more abundantly!

Please don't be offended by this I was just led to say it ! and the truth be told I really like the post! its a great one and can be a sermon unto the glory of God ! use It At starbucks to make conversation ! and you have opened the door to ask some one if they know Jesus As Thier Personal savior!

Loved Your Post May God Bless Us All! Richly In His Grace And Mercy through Jesus Christ!


Charlie  Lafferty
September 06, 2007
It seems to me WE focus way too much on church.  We see church as some separate entity apart from us.  A place to go, an object to give meaning to our lives, a scheduled time to perform in a certain way that may be different from the way we live outside those scheduled times and walls.

How can the church be in us?  Are WE in ourselves?  Are WE not church/ekklesia?  Starbucks is just one of multitudes of places we can come together, encourage one another, glorify God and BE church..a light on a hill, salt, a compassionate ear and heart, an expression of God's life in us being lived out in order that others may see God in a practical way.

What a great testimony and time of enjoyment with others in BEING church (Christ's body) through out our day to day living.  The world is longing for this reality but they look for it in bars, clubs, concerts, etc. - and yes, even Starbucks!  Why not show up and reflect the Light?
Kelly
October 20, 2007
This kinda got me thinkin'...

My husband and I started out going to the "traditional" service at our church.  It was nice.  It was OK.  It was boring.

Then we heard about the "contemporary" service.  It is up-tempo.  It uses a lot of music.  It has a great Bible study feel.  It serves coffee.

We go to the contemporary service every week now.
Jay Price
October 20, 2007

Graham Cooke, one of my favorite authors/teachers calls Starbucks St. Arbucks and uses it as a place for one on one fellowship/ministry. He does so much of his Father's work there, he calls it his "other" church.

But his speciality isn't mega-media churches like Leonard Sweet writes about. With Graham it's all about relationships. That's paramount. Love God, love others. That said, I do have some experience with media-rich churches and was a member of one where Sweet spoke several times. I liked it to a point. The big screen, the movie clips, lots of music, a cafe. But the disco-ball - now that I hated!

 

Charlie  Lafferty
October 20, 2007
Hey JK, I love Graham Cooke. He actually started a Bible study at a pub in England.  I have a recording of him speaking/prophesying about the "nature of God."  That revelation has been revolutionary in my life.  You can find it at http://www.fellership.com/thenatureofgod.wav.  When you first d/l the wav file it may take a while to fully load.  The written text of the recording can be found at http://www.fellership.com/thenatureofgodtext.htm.
GIL MAZA
March 26, 2008
Get this Barna Research stat from 2001...

By the end of the decade, 50 million Americans will seek to have their spiritual experience solely through the Internet, rather than at a church; and upwards of 100 million Americans will rely upon the Internet to deliver some aspects of their religious experience.

Read the rest here:
The Year's Most Intriguing Findings, From Barna Research Studies
http://www.barna.org/FlexPage.aspx?Page=BarnaUpdate&BarnaUpdateID=103

Great thought provoking blog Carebear! Thank you!!  (shamefully an admittedly hopeless addict of Starbucks coffee.)

Gil
Carol Suh
March 26, 2008

Thanks for the comment Gil.  Barna research is always eye-opening and makes me wonder, how can we not be cynical about what's happening?

But aside from that, you and me need to repent!  Hahaha.. :)