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A Christian Perspective On How To Right The Wrongs
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Joyful Servant
June 15, 2009
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Joyful Servant
June 15, 2009

Amen sister. We do have a Crisis Pregnancy Centre here which I do try to help so that women and young girls can get the practical help and Christian counselling they need. Even after counselling some still choose an abortion but others will give their hearts and lives to God and receive practical help with the care of their children (food, clothes, socialization, support, counselling).

Sadly, I do not think there are enough Christians who give to support this work. I wish they would as such an organization makes it easy for them to do something constructive about abortion, rather than stand on city sidewalks, shouting at people who have made their decisions. I pray there is such a Crisis Pregnancy Centre where you are...some place that you can work with. God bless you for what you are doing.

Keeping The Faith
June 15, 2009
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Minister Of Poetry
June 15, 2009
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Amen Penny
Keeping The Faith
June 15, 2009

Thanks for this message...we have been contributing to the CPC here since March. Even though I never had a child - I was adopted - and knew at some point I was "unwanted"...I challenge anyone that can to find an agency as this or Salvation Army, Crisis Ministry, etc to support thru gifts and/or volunteer work.  You never know when you may be on the other side of the fence and need their help. We all are guilty of taking so much for granted...

 

Joey     R
June 15, 2009
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WELL PUT !!

Amen, and Amen.  There has been too much condemnation and too little effort to help.
ihsallthetime
June 15, 2009
Thank you Penny for your input and suggestions.

I know about the places you mentioned, but there is only so much those places  are willing to offer.   (I know).  

I am asking the Churches to get FULLY involved.  I believe Christian Counselling and accountability to do what is right by God should come before the pregnancy occurs,   The scripture tells the parents to raise up their children in the way of the Lord and when the children gets old, they will not forsake it. 

I hear the cries of many of the children who were abandoned by their birth mothers and fathers all the time.  It is an ache that cannot be quenched, because no matter what, you are tied to your birth mother's umbilical cord and you are genetically and emotionally bound to your birth parents.  I know of many, many grown men and women who cannot have a healthy relationship with the opposite gender because they are lacking in the nurturing of their birth fathers and mothers.  I have done a deep study on this because of the many people I come in contact with who are on anti-depressants.  There must be a better way to handle this. A vast majority of fathers are abandoning their babies and the mothers are burnt out and frustrated and they will sometimes take out their frustration on their children and now both the mothers and the children are suffering from the spirit of rejection.  I do  believe people need more Spiritual enlightenment from the Word.        

Shalom to you my friend  

ihsallthetime
June 15, 2009
Hello Stu

Thank you for acknowledging
ihsallthetime
June 15, 2009
Hello my sweet friend Lynne

Thank you for your input.  I was raised by both my maternal parents, but did not have a good relationship with them because my mother rejected me in her womb, all because of my father's behaviour towards her while she was pregnant with me. (I did nt find this out until I was a very grown woman).  I was also very depressed and oppressed most of my life, until I met my Jesus and then it was all lifted.  I was blessed also to go to my mother and make peace with her and get the healing we both needed before she died.  I did the same thing with my father before he died, so I am totally healed from the spirit of parental rejection (thank you Jesus).  I have done a deep study on this and I am now trying to council others, so that they also may be healed and perhaps not make the same mistake with their children. I have already enlightened many in my immediate family and was surprised at the outcome.  Some cried with relief, because at least now they know what is bothering them and they can now seek the help in the right direction.

One thing I learned that sin brings forth death no matter what, and rejection brings a heaviness with it that can only be lifted when the one who is rejected allows Jesus to do the healing, unfortunately, many people do not realize that it is the spirit of rejection that makes them feel so depressed and oppressed.  I have taken some counseling courses given by some of the Agencies mentioned and have learned something from each that may help someone when the time is right.  This is a  very delicate subject and many are afraid to venture to give any information that may tip the scale in the wrong direction.  therefore, the help is limited for full recovery.  
ihsallthetime
June 15, 2009
Thank you for the AMEN corner Joey.  I am trying to get people "stirred up"  but I want it to go in the direction where healing and help will come from the right sources. (the Churches).  It is time we hear from the Pastors, Evangelists, Preachers, Deacons, Board Members, Members of Churches, even pew warmers can get involved.  Amen? 

We can all be a blessing to others, so that we can be blessed, Amen!
Lara Leger
June 15, 2009
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ihsallthetime
June 15, 2009
Thank you for the star Lara.  I know that means you approve.  Any recommendations  or suggestions, please feel free to add your input here or better yet, at your church.  I will continue to contact the churches and any other Christian Organizations in my area and let you all know of the outcome.  Also, if you have any information from the churches in your area would you post it on this blog please?  This way, I will be able to properly direct those seeking help to Christian services.

Shalom to all my friends
Mike n Laura
June 15, 2009
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Marcia, this is a great blog, there is much I agree with here. I like how you put God on the throne, attributed him with the power to effect change. And yes, there are many talkers, many "judgers", who like to assign blame, pronounce guilt. But where are they when the "unwanted" babies come? Thanks for sharing your perspective, sister.
ihsallthetime
June 15, 2009
Thank you for acknowledging Mike.  I try to look from all angles and sometimes I know I may not put all of my thoughts together the way it is in my brain.  (smile).  I'm trying. Could I please get an "E" for effort please?(lol).
Joyful Servant
June 15, 2009
Hey sis, I understand where you are coming from. I don't mean to suggest that Crisis Pregnancy Centre is the only place for help. I strongly do believe the Church body must do their part too and that means, each of us as we are able. I was basically thinking that if you have a CPC in your neighbourhood, then this is a great place to give support. I also strongly support your efforts to do more...and I pray that others will come along side you there to help you. You are involved in a good work and I praise God for your heart to help. I love you sis. I give u a "G" for effort =D...that means excellent and very good, lol.
ihsallthetime
June 16, 2009
I addressed this subject back in 2008 and received NO input from ANY of the CHURCHES on this site.  This is nauseating!  See my response to Steve Simm's blog below:-

 
August 27, 2008 at 8:46am
I believe we should all share the "gospel truth" with others, before they go to the obortion clinic, because by the time they are at the clinic, they have already made up their minds to abort.......
I was appalled at the amount of people who say they go to church regularly and are considering abortion. Another thing churches can inspire that person to keep the child, if they open the doors 24/7 with a food and clothes pantry. Perhaps a recycling of baby clothes and baby amenities can be done by members of the church.  What about babysitting amenities?  Is'nt that what church should be all about? helping people?.  People are already stressed out and would like to know that they can find healing in the church.  How about a prayer and counseling facility in the churches?  Just my thoughts on the subject.
 
ihsallthetime
June 16, 2009
Here is my follow up to the ssame blog:-

 September 01, 2008 at 7:28pm

Helloooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

Anybody thereeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Do you know of any church or churches that is now doing what I suggested?

Please inform me I will like to donate my time talents, and treasures.

Thank you

ihsallthetime
June 16, 2009
ONE person was interested enough to offer me a link to an Organization called care net.  See below:-

 Great blog, great comments. 

Ihsallthetime--there is a ministry called
Care Net.  This ministry is absolutely wonderful.  It provides pregnancy tests, counseling, ultrasounds at some centers, baby clothes, diapers, formula, homes, counseling for post abortion women, etc.  I have been involved in this ministry off and on for over seventeen years.  I have only wonderful things to say about the compassion and love this ministry exhibits to all women in a crisis pregnancy whether the woman chooses life or not.  Please check out the ministry link I provided above to learn more about the ministry.  To find a center near you use this link and click on Find a Center. 
Mike n Laura
June 16, 2009
Awesome link. I think that I might be donating to them through the workplace.... There you go, Marcia. People who want to help can always find a ministry, there are hundreds, maybe thousands, on the internet. When God says "So why didn't you DO anything?" we will be w/o excuse. Thanks for being a positive agitator for change.
ihsallthetime
June 16, 2009
That is the least we can do for His Kingdom to come on earth as it is in heaven Mike.  Thank you so much for acknowledging and for your words of encouragement brother.  I was sent another link by someone else from Michael's blog and did not consider posting it here as yet.  I believe I must check out these links because I want to know that I am sending people to a "Christ Centered Organization".  I will have to personally contact each of the Churches in my area and see what I can hook up, not only for those who are considering keeping their babies, but those who really have needs otherwise and is really serious to make a change in their life.  I believe if the Churches do their part the job will be easier and people will have the true hope in Jesus Christ when they see true Christians in action.  Keep checking and please put out feeds at your church also for them to get busy creating the help their people need.  Again, thank you brother.

Shalom to you and your family.