This Scripture reminds me of the hurtful things I have experienced at work lately. I could have used a gentle tongue many times, but only received hatefulness. It puts me in the frame of mind to think about the words I share with others in my day. Do I share kind and gentle words or am I harsh and unkind? Do my words build others up or tear them down? I just said to a man, "You can catch more flies with honey Paul, than with vinegar." An old saying, but very effective if followed. Do I use honey or do I only hear the negative that others say and then judge them? In case you haven't noticed, I am very critical of myself. I don't follow the line, "You're only human" as an excuse to say and do the things I do. Instead I follow more in the Apostle Paul's belief that "I do not do what I want, but do the very thing I hate." (Rom. 7:15 NRSV) I want to be more Christ-like in my dealings with others, but struggle each day with worldly issues.

One day a co-worker was pushing my buttons and wouldn't let up. I tried desperately to ignore his remarks and condescending words, but it finally got to me and I opened my mouth, swore at him, and told him to "shut up!" My fellow employees were shocked at my behavior because it has never happened before. I was angry for about five minutes then the Holy Spirit took over and convicted me. I went to the ladies room and sobbed for about ten minutes. I cried out to God for forgiveness and asked Him to change my heart. How could I be an effective witness to this group of unbelievers when I was showing them that I was no different then they? I needed to be above that. Afterall, isn't that what a Christian is; set apart? I later appologised to all involved in this encounter and have not fallen to that level since, but am fully aware that without the help of the Holy Spirit I could easily fall prey to it again.

So, today this Scripture is more important than ever for me.