""When does something become so out of control that you can't stop it from happening. When the only hands that can have any control over the situation are GOD himselfs hands.  At what point does your lifes decisions affect your every movement?  At what point...    There are so many 'at what points' that its like a kid asking why all the time. "Why do birds fly & we can't?" Or "why is the sky blue?" The decisions that one person makes are on him or herself only.  Yes, you can say that people influence those decisions & I'm not disagreeing with that at all.  But I believe in free will just as GOD has given it to us freely. In our free will we make our decisions based on what 90% of the time fits our needs best. That is most people but not all. The others are more likely to swing the other way & be all out for everybody but themselves. You will VERY rarely see someone who can balance that out 50/50.  The majority of the time the person is one, or the other.  Too many times I get in situations & make harsh judgments or have surprising panic reactions.  I personally will be the type to please everybody BUT myself. I always have been a people pleaser.  I will go out of my way just to see someone else smile or to see somebody else get joy out of something, not always being because of ME doing it. But I get more of a quote unquote blessing out of the person not knowing it was me. Because I feel good that in their confusion they just know that somebody somewhere wants them to be happy. In that case, I am happy that they are happy, & they are happy that they are happy...a win win :)  Now comes for the situation where the person finds out who has done the good deed...  This tends to make a scene & a lot of questions come about from it. They want to know how who why when & where about absolutely everything!!  Those things just simply are not important. What is important is the final outcome of the joy/happiness. When all the questions are being asked they tend to lose the joy & happiness that they shortfully had. When that point comes its been a waste but when u have a willing person on the receiving end to let it go & just be happy & take in the joy its a job well done. Everybody likes to see job well dones because it creates a sense of completion & achievement to the victor so to speak. They feel as if they finished it successfully & if that person becomes difficult & tries to go down the questioning road its also been all for nothing all over again. Its an awesome yet complicating simple process :) 

I'm going to sum up the entire paragraph in one easy sentence. -If something good happens to you for whatever reason, thank GOD for being as amazing as he is!-  That's it...that's all u need because it covers every possible part that goes into it. GOD created earth & everything in it. That's including you & me.  So if we bless somebody & GOD gets the credit, we should thank him for giving us the FREE WILL & the opportunity to bless that person.

GOD Bless you all""