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The Heart Of A true friend
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Joyful Servant
August 11, 2009
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What a wonderful testimony of your friendship with Dora. I am sad though that she didn't let others break her barrier of independence and let someone support her through her sick time.

I was intrigued by your title sis because just today I was reading this blog by Rev. Clary on "How to Tell Fake Friends from True Friends". I think this is a lesson we all need to learn in life. I stumbled upon his article today. Not by accident I am sure *smile

Joyful Servant
August 11, 2009
Well, now that I have my MC "fix", I best get back to unpacking. I am still surrounded by boxes and boxes and would like to get the insurance claim finalized as a few things have been broken in the process of the movers packing, storage and retrieval. This is a big job for me. Please pray for me my friend. God bless you xoxo
Lara Leger
August 12, 2009
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I think I'd have liked Dora very much.  Praise God you had a friend like her. I pray you are given another friend that can challenge you, hold you accountable, encourage you, pray with you, fellowship with you...just be a true friend.  :)  I want one too.  A super godly one!
Destiny Diadem
August 12, 2009
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WOW! Thanks for sharing that. God bless you. I pray God sends you more friends like Dora.

Father, send me some more godly friends too.
ihsallthetime
August 12, 2009

Thank you for sharing the link Penny.  I even printed it out for future referrence. 

Yes, Dora was just too independant for her own good  I have observed that people who are suffering with life threatening illnesses tend to go off by themselves.  I suppose it allows them more private time with God.

Blessings of peace, joy and love go out to you my friend.

Joyful Servant
August 12, 2009
I'm glad you printed out the link sister. I've read the article a few times now. I can say that Rev. Clary's advice is most practical (and based on biblical teachigns) and something I have and am learning along the journey of life =]
ihsallthetime
August 12, 2009
Yes Lara,

I pray that we all have friends like that.  It is greatly needed in the body of Christ right now.

Blessings of peace, love and joy go out to you my friend. 
ihsallthetime
August 12, 2009
Yes Destiny, we all need Holy Spirit filled friends.

Blessings of peace, love and joy go out to you my friend.
Destiny Diadem
August 12, 2009
The article says, "When you destroy someone else’s reputation, you have in effect, committed murder because you have stopped that person from carrying on the plans of God and kept souls from being saved." Father, help us to discern fake friends.
ihsallthetime
August 12, 2009
Destiny I hear you sister.  However, if we as Christians see or hear someone saying or doing something that we know may cause them or others to turn away from Jesus Christ, we are supposed to warn them by going to them privately, then if they continue we take two witnesses, if they still continue we tell it to the Church (body of Christ) or publicly address the issue.  Then if they still continue we cast them out as heathens as Jesus admonished His disciples to do in Matthew chapter 18. That is the proper way to do it, all the while praying for their soul and a change of their heart. This way, our conscience will be clear, because our motive will be right. Our focus should always be on saving the soul from hell by showing them the right path and that is what Paul taught also.

If it is truth and G-d is in it, I am positive they will not fail regardless of how many "enemies" came against their ministry or works. If their reputation is intact, then they should have nothing to worry about. (smile). 
Joyful Servant
August 12, 2009
I think you and Destiny are talking about two different things. One is the consequence of destroying a person's reputation (quote taken from Rev. Clary's article) and the other is how to deal with someone who is doing wrong (Marcia's point). These are not diametrically opposed truths...simply that Rev. Clary's article was not talking about how to deal with a wrong doer.