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 " The Heart Of A True Friend This is a testimony of a good friend who has since passed away. Her name was Dora. I met Dora one day after I was born-again. We would get together on the telephone and discuss the scriptures. She was from Jamaican Nationality and prided herself as a no-nonsense type of individual, but when we began to speak of the goodness of Jesus Christ, she would always begin to quote the psalms and cry. I would wait until she finished crying and then continue the conversation, which was always based on what we were both going through at the time. At the end of each conversation we would always agree that we MUST do it the way our sweet Jesus taught. I would sometimes tell Dora if she made it to heaven, she must give Jesus a message for me, that He must send more help for me to carry this burden. Dora would laugh and we would hang up the phone until next time we had something going on in our lives. I would always tell Dora, to give it to me straight up if she thinks that I was going off the straight and narrow path. One tedious day after shopping with Dora, we got back to my house and while waiting for me to take her home, she began to rattle my nerves by saying really annoying things. Well, I snapped at her and took her home. We did not hug each other as we normally do and I knew that Jamaican no nonsense attitude had become a barrier between us. Jesus was using this situation to test us. When I got back home, my daughter had brought a friend for me to pray for whom she had taken to the doctor due to pains in her stomach and they could not diagnose what the problem was and she was in excruciating pain. I found that I could not pray because there was something blocking my prayers. After a few minutes, I realized it was the fact that my friend Dora and I had parted in strife. I immediately called Dora and asked her to forgive me for the way I responded to her and she tried to back off by saying it is okay. I insisted that I was wrong and told her that I could not get my prayers answered until I cleared the slate with her. After I hung up with her, I felt a sense of relief and then went to pray and minister to my daughter's friend and she felt immediate relief from her pain. I just laid my hands on her and told her that is what Jesus taught His disciples to do and I prayed that Father heal her in the name of Jesus Christ. It was that simple. She never complained again. Well, my friend Dora died of gastric-intestinal cancer a few years ago, even though she never ate out and ate all the right foods which she cooked herself. She never told anyone, but she moved way out in the (boon docks) and furnished the new house with everything she wanted to have and there she died alone. I miss my friend Dora. I am asking Father to send me friends that I could really fellowship with, especially when I have a particularly heavy situation and I pray that the ones He sends will speak the truth to me regardless of how it is said as long as Jesus Christ is lifted up by my obedience to Him. Because in the end, that is the only thing that really matters in life. With lots of loving memories towards my friend Dora and our testimonies of true friendship. Looking forward to more testimonies of true friendship with those I meet in my travels on myChurch. Your friend and sister in the Faith Marcia |
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| August 11, 2009 |
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What a wonderful testimony of your friendship with Dora. I am sad though that she didn't let others break her barrier of independence and let someone support her through her sick time. I was intrigued by your title sis because just today I was reading this blog by Rev. Clary on "How to Tell Fake Friends from True Friends". I think this is a lesson we all need to learn in life. I stumbled upon his article today. Not by accident I am sure *smile |
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| August 11, 2009 |
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| Well, now that I have my MC "fix", I best get back to unpacking. I am still surrounded by boxes and boxes and would like to get the insurance claim finalized as a few things have been broken in the process of the movers packing, storage and retrieval. This is a big job for me. Please pray for me my friend. God bless you xoxo |
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| August 12, 2009 |
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[star!] | I think I'd have liked Dora very much. Praise God you had a friend like her. I pray you are given another friend that can challenge you, hold you accountable, encourage you, pray with you, fellowship with you...just be a true friend. :) I want one too. A super godly one! |
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| August 12, 2009 |
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[star!] | WOW! Thanks for sharing that. God bless you. I pray God sends you more friends like Dora.
Father, send me some more godly friends too. |
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| August 12, 2009 |
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Thank you for sharing the link Penny. I even printed it out for future referrence.
Yes, Dora was just too independant for her own good I have observed that people who are suffering with life threatening illnesses tend to go off by themselves. I suppose it allows them more private time with God.
Blessings of peace, joy and love go out to you my friend. |
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| August 12, 2009 |
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| I'm glad you printed out the link sister. I've read the article a few times now. I can say that Rev. Clary's advice is most practical (and based on biblical teachigns) and something I have and am learning along the journey of life =] |
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| August 12, 2009 |
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Yes Lara,
I pray that we all have friends like that. It is greatly needed in the body of Christ right now.
Blessings of peace, love and joy go out to you my friend. |
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| August 12, 2009 |
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Yes Destiny, we all need Holy Spirit filled friends.
Blessings of peace, love and joy go out to you my friend. |
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| August 12, 2009 |
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| The article says, "When you destroy someone else’s reputation, you have in effect, committed murder because you have stopped that person from carrying on the plans of God and kept souls from being saved." Father, help us to discern fake friends. |
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| August 12, 2009 |
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Destiny I hear you sister. However, if we as Christians see or hear someone saying or doing something that we know may cause them or others to turn away from Jesus Christ, we are supposed to warn them by going to them privately, then if they continue we take two witnesses, if they still continue we tell it to the Church (body of Christ) or publicly address the issue. Then if they still continue we cast them out as heathens as Jesus admonished His disciples to do in Matthew chapter 18. That is the proper way to do it, all the while praying for their soul and a change of their heart. This way, our conscience will be clear, because our motive will be right. Our focus should always be on saving the soul from hell by showing them the right path and that is what Paul taught also.
If it is truth and G-d is in it, I am positive they will not fail regardless of how many "enemies" came against their ministry or works. If their reputation is intact, then they should have nothing to worry about. (smile). |
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| August 12, 2009 |
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| I think you and Destiny are talking about two different things. One is the consequence of destroying a person's reputation (quote taken from Rev. Clary's article) and the other is how to deal with someone who is doing wrong (Marcia's point). These are not diametrically opposed truths...simply that Rev. Clary's article was not talking about how to deal with a wrong doer. |
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