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Several weeks ago I cut off the tip of my left thumb while trying to push open a stuck lock of a bathroom stall! I stopped the bleeding within about 15 minutes with wet paper towels and opted for a band-aid rather than going to see a doctor, in hopes it would heal itself, and it did, much quicker than I thought possible! Within a couple of days the wounded thumb was no longer demanding any of my attention, and I was using it normally within a week. Although I can still feel that the tip is gone, it is not noticeable to the eye, and I no longer give it any thought. It has healed.
Yet, last week when I exerted energy opening something with the use of that thumb, it hurt, and I remembered the wound. Then a few days ago when I was helping a friend return a trampoline to a high shelf in the store, again normal pressure brought a moment of pain, and I remembered the wound.
Do old wounds ever completely heal? What about the harsh word spoken to us years ago by a co-worker? Or the pain of losing a relationship that we hoped would last forever? Or the grief of losing a loved one to death? Do we ever fully heal from rejection, by a friend, by a job, by a group? Does a season of loneliness ever really get buried without a trace?
Or, even after we have moved on, do similar circumstances bring back the old pangs, attributing to the new circumstances, perhaps, far greater relevance than they would merit on their own?
Everyday we walk amongst people who have been wounded. One careless word may bring someone a flood of pain. Looking past someone as if he does not exist can call up a sea of isolation within him. Leaving someone out of a conversation can tear open a fragile wound.
Just for today, may I be a healer. May I freely give a pat on the back, a hug, a kind word, a compliment, a loving smile, a simple healing touch, to every person I meet, knowing they are all wounded somehow, like me. 1:5 For this very reason make every effort to supplement your faith with virtue, and virtue with knowledge, 1:6 and knowledge with self-control, and self-control with steadfastness, and steadfastness with godliness, 1:7 and godliness with brotherly affection, and brotherly affection with love. 1:8 For if these things are yours and abound, they keep you from being ineffective or unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 5:22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 5:23 gentleness, self-control; against such there is no law. |
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| October 05, 2009 |
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| October 05, 2009 |
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[star!] | Amen my friend. |
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| October 05, 2009 |
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[star!] | This is a reality... not understood apart from God. Thank you for sharing this. I like... hehe Love ya. |
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| October 05, 2009 |
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So true Kathy. And surely we can all reach out to somebody else, just for today. And when the tomorrows come we can do it again...and again...and again. And God will be in it, to heal. |
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| October 06, 2009 |
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[star!] | This is a message that we can't read/hear enough...glad to see it! |
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| October 06, 2009 |
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| October 06, 2009 |
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[star!] | Kathy, this is a great reminder that many people walk with hurts that are buried and we cannot see them. I do believe, however, that there is total and complete healing through the blood of Christ. I have experienced it myself...old hurts I carried for years not knowing how to give them up...then being totally released because I, with God's help, left the hurts at the foot of the cross (so to speak). The release and the freedom that provides is absolutely incredible. That said, I wish I could say I have been able to experience that with every old wound I have. I haven't. Perhaps that is part of the process of conforming to His image and being perfected in Him. Or perhaps, like your thumb, it is simply my thorn to remember that God's grace is sufficient for me. |
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| October 06, 2009 |
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Have had this on my mind most of the day. Finally had a chance to look up the song this blog brought to mind. It is an old one. Called Wounded Soldier by Danny Daniels.
For I am a wounded soldier, but I will not leave the fight. Because the Great Physician is healing me. So I'm standing in the battle, in the armor of His light. Because His mighty power is real in me.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GpRRJ-ea_uQ&feature=player_embedded |
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| October 06, 2009 |
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[star!] | ouch, ouch and double ouch. This goes so well with Mrs. J's blog about pickin scabs. Yes, we've all been wounded at one time or another, and I guess some of us heal faster than others. Enjoyed the read |
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| October 06, 2009 |
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| October 07, 2009 |
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Kathy you are soo right about walking by and missing the hurt people often carry around. They may appear whole and healthy both physically and emotionally, but that may not be as true as it appears. We need to stay open to God's direction in our interactions with our coworkers, friends, and family. Thanks for sharing your insight. peace |
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| October 08, 2009 |
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[star!] | Very good word Kathy! A word in due season.
(Just to spare your thumb next time :) Any key that will fit in the hole will usually unlock those locked bathroom stalls. You need to know all of the tricks when you have a cleaning business! |
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| October 21, 2009 |
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| I completely agree. Please don't take this as flippant, but it seems as though on those days that "I freely give a pat on the back, a hug, a kind word, a compliment, a loving smile, a simple healing touch, to every person I meet," I wind up getting hit on ::hangs head:: (I wish I were kidding)
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