Alright I had to look up the word "morbid" after reading your comment Mike. I think I also need to remove my morbid comment above after finding it (except I can't edit comments. :) ). I thought morbid meant "of death" or something specifically relating to death. After looking it up, I was wrong. That seems to be happening quite a bit lately. I don't think this topic is morbid. Actually I think it comes up quite frequently. Rick Warren seems to have built a movement off of it "Why are we here?" Joking about it doesn't seem wrong to me either. Humor takes the edge off of sadness. Sometimes that is necessary to heal. One of my favorite scenes in "Good Will Hunting" is the one where Robin Williams relates the story of his deceased wife waking herself up because she farted (and he claimed it so as to make her happy). On the other hand, sometimes it's necessary to reflect on it. My father was over this weekend. He has trouble seeing and his body is becoming more frail. My mom passed away 5 years ago. They used to go to Bluegrass festivals around the area pretty much all summer. The reason he was over was because our church had a service that was a Bluegrass service. He cried a lot, and towards the end, I heard a song I've heard a million times before but never really paid attention to the words besides the chorus. I was standing by my window, On one cold and cloudy day When I saw that hearse come rolling For to carry my mother away
Will the circle be unbroken By and by, lord, by and by Theres a better home a-waiting In the sky, lord, in the sky
I said to that undertaker Undertaker please drive slow For this lady you are carrying Lord, I hate to see here go
Will the circle be unbroken By and by, lord, by and by Theres a better home a-waiting In the sky, lord, in the sky
Oh, I followed close behind her Tried to hold up and be brave But I could not hide my sorrow When they laid her in the grave
Will the circle be unbroken By and by, lord, by and by Theres a better home a-waiting In the sky, lord, in the sky
I went back home, my home was lonesome Missed my mother, she was gone All of my brothers, sisters crying What a home so sad and lone
Will the circle be unbroken By and by, lord, by and by Theres a better home a-waiting In the sky, lord, in the sky
We sang the songs of childhood Hymns of faith that made us strong Ones that mother maybelle taught us Hear the angels sing along
Will the circle be unbroken By and by, lord, by and by Theres a better home a-waiting In the sky, lord, in the sky
Will the circle be unbroken By and by, lord, by and by Theres a better home a-waiting In the sky, lord, in the sky |