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| Grace to the Mailbox Bashers |
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| We live out in the country, and a favorite activity of some teenagers is to go around on weekends, late at night and bash in mailboxes with a baseball bat. I wish they would find something more constructive to do with their time, but after living here for a long time, and replacing our mailbox several times, I know it is something that will always be a part of rural life. I forget how many times we have replaced our mailbox. This last time, earlier this summer, my husband, Jim, finally came up with an idea that we hope will last. We bought a bigger mailbox, put the smaller (bashed in) mailbox inside of the bigger one, and filled the gap in between with cement. Here is what it looks like... 
One night a few weeks ago, Jim watched from our house as the teens came along our road and pulled up to our mailbox and tried to bash it in with the ball bat. After we inspected it the next morning, we found there wasn't even a dent. I am hoping that it might have given the culprits a sore arm to have hit that concrete. It did however, keep our mailbox from being damaged yet again, and having to replace it. Damaging a mailbox is considered a federal crime. Since the mailbox is the property of the U.S. Postal system (even though I buy it ??), whenever someone damages one, they are breaking the law. Of course, it only works if the law is enforced. It isn’t. We even got the license number of a car a few years back whose occupant was hitting mailboxes on our road, reported it to the sheriff, and to my knowledge no one was ever prosecuted. I guess it just isn’t a serious enough crime to bother with.
Jim did catch a neighbor boy one year, who was out with a friend on our road, bashing mailboxes, and he followed their car as they went home…so he knew who it was. Rather than report it, because he didn’t want the kid to have a federal crime on his record, he made sure the kids parents knew about it, and then made the kid fix or replace all the mailboxes on the road that were damaged. Jim chose to show grace to the kid, but also enforce some consequences for behavior that deviated from the rules. Through Jesus, God shows us grace even though He may still make us deal with consequences for our behavior if we don’t do the things we are supposed to. His desire is not for us to suffer or be eternally lost, but He wants to help us to make right choices every day. So when we do something wrong, like a parent, or a police officer, He will guide us to do the right thing, and cause us to experience the consequences that result from inappropriate actions. Like the kid that Jim caught and chose to give a less severe punishment, rather than the punishment he deserved, aren't we lucky that we have Jesus to stand between us and God, to cover our sins, and prevent us from getting the punishment we truly deserve! But, we have to choose to let Jesus protect us from bad actions, like the cement that now covers our mailbox and protects us from the ones who wish to do us harm. We need to follow His word, and His leading in our lives, and make choices based on prayer and the wisdom that He gives us.
  
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| Don't get me wrong, I think this is a great post, but I really need to comment about how cool the concrete mailbox is! I love this idea! |
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September 10, 2007 at 12:41pm |
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| Rich, I find the mailbox an amusing thing, and a great conversation piece! My husband can come up with some pretty good things sometimes! lol |
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| Wow! That's all I can say. This deserves to go into the Redneck Hall of Fame. Your husband is a genius in my book. |
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| Yeah, I bet he's used duct tape a time or two! |
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Deb |
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September 10, 2007 at 12:47pm |
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| MulletPreacher, I will have to tell him that. He will be thrilled! :) |
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What a wondeful anaology. John Stott tells a marvelous story that reveals the forgiveness that we have in Jesus. He states, "Not long before she died in 1988, in a moment of surprising candor in television, Marghanita Laski, one of our best-known secular humanists and novelists, said, "What I envy most about you Christians is your forgiveness; I have nobody to forgive me." What you and your husband showed was a spirit of forgiveness motivated by an overwhelming sense of grace that you received from God.
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Deb |
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September 10, 2007 at 1:06pm |
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| Pastor Tim, thank you for your thoughts. Isn't God's grace a wonderful thing? I am so blessed, and so thankful, I can't even describe it. |
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Deb, great story. I think mailbox bashing has been a favorite passtime of teens since there have been cars. I like the idea of having them replace the boxes they bashed.
The concrete is a great idea...I jsut wish we could figure out how to keep them cow tippers from knocking the cows over at night. |
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Deb |
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September 10, 2007 at 6:30pm |
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| DC, there are cows across the road from us. They used to belong to my husband, but now belong to the neighbor. I don't think anyone has tipped them over...yet. I have heard of it happening though. Don't know how you can stop that. lol |
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Deb |
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September 11, 2007 at 6:15am |
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| PsalmsGirl, it is sad that so many kids are filled with anger, and that so many parents won't take responsibility for their kids behaviors. My question is why are these kids out so late at night doing this stuff? Don't their parents care where they are? My mother never let me stay out that late at night. |
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Deb |
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September 12, 2007 at 10:53am |
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| PsalmsGirl, I did not see your new pics, but I will go look at them as soon as I am done with this. This mailbox is so heavy that a person would need a way to lift it up on the post. lol |
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