I am going through something right now and it really has nothing to do with the passing of my mother. Granted missing my mother does not help the situation but it is a little more complicated than that. At the lowest point of my day I reached out to a few of my online friends and confided my dilema to them, here are their responses:

Brightness:

I'm so very sorry to hear about your situation Sandee..and many, many times christians like yourself ask the same question over and again. I wish that I had the ultimate answer...I don't rightfully know the particulars of your circumstances, however the one thing that I'm positively sure of is if the Spirit of the Lord has conveyed a prophetic msg or has spoken a promise that God has in reserve for you through His anointed vessel, then it absolutely has to come to pass, because the Lord's word can not return unto Him void! There is no possibility of that ever happening!

I don't know who has lead or has communicated to you the process of the 77 day waiting period, however, Sandee, know matter what, you can't give up now. You've come to far, this encourages me to believe that you must be closer to your blessing than before. God delivers in seasons. Previously, I had waited on the Lord to answer a prayer that I had prayed well over a decade ago...and oh did this thing cause me to sweat, suffer, fast, cry in essence to walking in the statues of the Lord and laying down my life as a living sacrifice..

For years nothing had developed in my favor in reference to my petition until this present day...Finally, I got a word that my Pastor had ministered to me about three months ago....My sister, if "GOD" said it that settles it..it is done, and nothing or nobody can take it from you...Test and trials may come to try your faith, yet you still must remain steadfast and immovable...continue walking the walk by faith my sister not by sight..your blessings are in the making in the spiritual realm, then in due season it will be submitted to you according to God's appointed timing.

The Lord knows what you are in need of, and He is going to supply all of them...but don't become distracted by the waiting process, you are not alone, so many others are holding on also...same here...God's word and promises are bond...they will come to past!

I'm standing in prayer with you!

Gator:

I know how you feel....Trust me I do I've been waiting in a certain area of my life for 13yrs, and have seen people fall in sin and get what I want. The only thing I can come to grips with is God's grace is sufficient for me, and that my situation is designed to give God the glory. Sandee you don't have to go down Egypt to get what you desire. God's got all that you need and could ever want. Your misery will become your ministry and you will be a light and example to many if you go through it the right way. WoW can you imagine that. An example to many of how God brought you over. Be encouraged Sis.

Brightness your response got the best results, thank you. Gator you were right on time with your testimony and scripture. Tony, your testimonies are always enough. Rach and Nikki thank you guys for the Telephone calls, know that I appreciate everything that you guys attempted to do to uplift my spirit.