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| "Trippy" People - Part Two |
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Two more people from my trip. Final part tomorrow. ~~We were standing in line for the bus back to Jersey, and I was watching the people running through the terminal to catch the buses that had already boarded their queue of passengers. I thought of the logistics of it all: they had to get out of the office on time to catch the subway on time to be able to get to the bus on time. Many of them were cutting it pretty close. Was it a daily occurrence for them to have to run to get home? You were standing in line in front of us, carrying a bag that had your work shoes and papers in it, dressed in brown wool slacks and a striped sweater. Your hair was thick and straight, mousy brown with a little bit of gray, and I guessed we were about the same age. A man in a blue work shirt and dirty work pants came out and said something about a canceled bus run, but we couldn’t hear him well enough to know if it was ours. We asked you if you knew what he had said, but you hadn’t heard him either, so you went to the front of the line and asked those people and then came back and told us it was a different bus route that he was talking about. This was good news. My daughter asked you if you rode the bus daily and you said yes, that you worked in New York but lived in Tom’s River, NJ. I thought about how long that bus ride was for you every day: an hour-and-a-half there in the morning and the same in the evening. We were catching the 5:15 bus and you wouldn’t be home until seven at the earliest. Did you make so much money at your job in New York that the commute was worth it? Or was it that the job itself was so great that you didn’t mind all the bus time spent getting there and then getting home? Were your weekends packed with all the stuff you weren’t able to get done during the workweek, with your daily three hours of commuting? I couldn't come up with a scenario where I would be willing to do what you did every day to get to and from work, unless God told me I had to. I thanked Him that I lived and worked in the same city. I thanked Him that the commute from one end of my city to the other was only four miles and took fifteen minutes at the most, and that was during "rush hour". ~~I saw you at the gate in the airport while we waited to board the next plane. You and your wife were holding onto each other so tightly: you, with your arms around her shoulders, your head resting on top of hers; her, with her arms around your waist and her cheek pressed against your chest. You clung to each other, both of you crying. I imagined that she listened to your heartbeat as she held you, trying to memorize the sound of it. The announcer called us to the gate for boarding, but you didn't move. You two were still standing there, in each other's arms, when I got on the plane. I found my seat and watched for you. Finally you walked down the narrow aisle, stopping while the people in front of you got their carry-ons stowed and settled themselves in their seats. Dressed in your desert camo, you stood there, tall and strong, firm resolution written on your face, with eyes still wet from your tears.
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John |
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November 13, 2007 at 3:43pm |
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Good stuff, especially the one describing the husband and wide separation.
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Gene |
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November 13, 2007 at 3:55pm |
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Jen, you really got me with these two stories.
I thought how you were almost describing me in my work situation. I don't live in NYC but still, my drive into work each morning which takes about 45 - 55 minutes in good weather. (No, it isn't the money, If I live closer the housing costs are too high to afford it.)
Then you managed a clean punch in the heart with the story of the husband and wife.
Thanks. |
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November 13, 2007 at 5:35pm |
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| John and Gene - Glad you liked it, guys! |
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| I use to live in Neptune NJ near Tom's River. Great one the world is a small world after all God Bless. Doyle Crowe. |
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| You're such a good people-watcher. I love the details.. reminds me of college :). |
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November 13, 2007 at 6:40pm |
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Doyle - I still have relatives who live near Tom's River, in Beachwood and Lanoka Harbor. Carol - Good to hear from you, stranger! :-) Where did you go to college? |
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| I'm just gonna say AWSOME? |
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| 2 questions Do you write for a living and if not why not? OK one question 2 parts. |
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| I love people watching too, it's so fascinating! I don't think I could ever recall in this much detail though. Hmm, your blog makes me wonder if I've ever been blogged about w/o my knowledge...... |
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November 13, 2007 at 7:33pm |
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| God bless our soldiers and all their families,especially at this time of year. That was beautiful Jen. Thanks |
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| Again, thank you for sharing...takes me right there. Awesome! |
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November 14, 2007 at 5:45am |
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Jen you can truly capture a sense of life that most of us miss. Do you take the time to write things down daily in a journal or do you just have a great memory? Either way I love your writing. peace |
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November 14, 2007 at 9:41am |
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| This is excellent Jen. You brought tears to my eyes with the husband and wife. That is a scenario that happens a lot. I love your eye for detail, and I am glad that you are sharing this with us. |
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November 14, 2007 at 9:59am |
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Dave - Glad you liked it, friend! :-) I'm hoping to become a "real" writer someday... Mike - That would be weird to read a blog and find yourself in it, wouldn't it? Not sure that I would like that, unless of course they said wonderful things about me! :-P People are very fascinating! We're all so different! You're right, Denise, in remembering our soldier and their families to God! Thanks for reminding us! |
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Father God, I know you said that we should not covet our neighbor's anything... but come on Lord, 15minutes in rush hour.. Lord that just ain't fair! Father forgive me my transgression as I forgive Jen her 15 minute ride to work. Amen! LOL
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Jen |
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November 14, 2007 at 11:16am |
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| Hey, Pastor Aminata! Hate to rub it in, (but I'm gonna anyway!), but my "commute" is often much less than that. It just depends on where the job site is that we're painting at. We had one painting job that was two blocks away from our house; that "commute" took about 1 minute. God is good. :-) |
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November 14, 2007 at 3:16pm |
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Oops! Missed a handful of comments! Prue, Glenn and Deb - Can't tell you how much I appreciate you taking the time to "talk back at me" about what I've written. :-) As much as I love to write, I don't do any kind of journaling, Glenn. At best I might jot down a subject for a blog, but that's about it. I had told another friend recently that I needed to get this stuff from my trip off of my brain, primarily before I forgot it! Almost there...  |
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Jen |
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November 14, 2007 at 6:37pm |
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| Okay, so maybe part three will be a day later than I said... |
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November 14, 2007 at 9:22pm |
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| R - No vintage bands; just a bad pun. (I love bad puns! Hmm... is there such a thing as a good pun?) Bring on the Chicago music! |
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Gene |
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November 15, 2007 at 10:58am |
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In advance, my apologies. But! since you brought up bad puns. . . .
I wondered why the baseball was getting bigger. Then it hit me.
:)) ba-bum-bump! |
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Jen |
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November 15, 2007 at 12:40pm |
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| Love it, Gene! Encore! |
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| Yep. Good stuff! I will have to remind my hubby that the 40 minute drive to town everyday ain't that bad! lol |
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| Great stuff. I can identify with the soldier and his wife. It is very hard to pack up your husband and send him off to war. I was just a fortunate wife to have him return. |
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Jen |
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November 16, 2007 at 7:37am |
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Lara - One of the reasons we decided to leave Seattle (and move to Montana) was because of the traffic. When we had to start checking traffic reports on Sunday to make sure we would allot enough drive time to get to church in the morning, we knew we'd had enough. Becky - It takes a strong woman to send off her man and then continue to go about life at home without him, keeping the family on track and things running smoothly. My mom had to do the same thing. Thanks, ladies! :-) |
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Gene |
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November 16, 2007 at 4:26pm |
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Jen,
Only because you asked:
The butcher backed up into the meat grinder and got a little behind in his work. |
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Jen |
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November 16, 2007 at 4:59pm |
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| Ewww! |
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Jen |
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November 19, 2007 at 6:44am |
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| But it was still funny... Thanks, Gene! |
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| Once again, the travels with Jen are awesome. I could relate to both of these folks. Like Gene, I have a long commute because we decided we wanted to live in a place we could afford on one salary. Tradeoffs we make in life.... |
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November 21, 2007 at 12:44pm |
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| We traded income (living in Seattle with better jobs) for lifestyle (Montana!). No regrets. :-) |
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November 24, 2007 at 2:47pm |
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love the writing! another similarity.... I don't think ANY job is worth THAT kind of commute "unless God makes me", that would be my thoughts exactly.
We moved further away to have an easier house payment on the size home we need for our growing family, but now we can't take it anymore. Hubby has to drive 55-1and a half if traffic is bad....about 10-12 hours per week most often just on the commute! With 4 kids here at home waiting all day til the big moment when Daddy gets home, it just isn't worth it anymore. Now we are looking to change jobs, move to the city, whatever it takes. God is always doing a new thing!
Thanks so much, Jen, for sharing. |
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November 24, 2007 at 5:17pm |
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| Hey, Jen! Even when we moved to Helena, we opted to live "in town" instead of "in the country" because it made it easier for all the running around I had to do with four kids going to homeschooling activities and sports stuff that they've been involved with. The kids all started working before they started driving, (b/c the only way they were going to be able to drive was if they bought their own car and paid for their own insurance), so living in town was a blessing, then, too. They found first jobs within walking distance of the house. I think Max had the farthest walking "commute" at a little over a mile. |
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Kathy |
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November 24, 2007 at 5:22pm |
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| Wow! 2 great stories, both shared by so many. |
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November 24, 2007 at 5:31pm |
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| Thanks, Kathy! It's funny. These "people" and others that I came across (or visited) on my trip keeping popping back into my head. I like to think about how unique God has made us all. |
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| As usual, Jen, you have very good blog. This is very entertaining and gives "food for thought". Keep up the excellent writing! |
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Jen |
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January 05, 2008 at 1:36pm |
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| Thanks, Yahschild, for stopping by and reading! |
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