Leebythesea

........MORE about me, ....go to my MYSPACE; lee by the sea. Although, I am there for Music...more photos and info…about me.

Over all;

I am a small town girl at heart. My family roots are Italian, Portuguese and Greek.

An INFJ (http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp) Myers and Briggs

Through and through! Those links will tell you more than I would want you to know…LOL. OVERALL; I seem to be a bit of a philosopher.

I just sold my business (Gallery) located in downtown Carmel. Glad I got out when I did. I am taking some time off, going back to school, psychology/counseling maybe psychiatrist. This is a BIG life change for me after all that corporate world, I lived. We will see if I make it and don’t just become a BUM!!.

I have one daughter, (11 years old). Of course she is perfect and beautiful and smart! I am open to having more children if that is what life brings.

.I am a lover of all the ART’s, music all that it encompasses. I have to have some sort of creativity around me.

I don't compare. OMG, there is a lot of lovely people in the world; I would need full time therapy myself instead of giving it! Not to say I couldn’t look better…we can always improve, just looking for someone that thinks I am pretty. LOL

I am all woman with curves and am happy in my skin. I would not consider myself low maintance and the perception of that statement is ludicrous; it tells of a girl that does not” maintain” herself. I am sure most men would not even be attracted to a lady like that…unless you are a “real” hippy and that is fine, but I am not that..I shave my arm pits, wear heels and dresses and do all the girly things. I like anything old…Retro-Vintage look; 50’s 60’s is great always classy and sexy. Inside maybe a little without the funny cigarettes- cigars only!

I am very positive overall and usually the one (in everyone’s life) trying to find the good in spite of certain days that bring more of a challenge than others. My friends all call me….If I call for help someone has died or I need you to post BAIL…hahaha.

I am not “into” drama…. but not afraid of “life”, “it” happens and we can’t control it…so I say let’s get through it with a smile. We will someday forget or the event fades in our memory...THANK GOD!!!

Anxiety is not a large part of my life and prefer others that don’t live there.

I am an true introvert, but most that know me say; I can be extroverted…once I am given the stage. I can hold my own and have no problem interacting, approaching people or having fun. I love a good party of any type and will defiantly say” yes” to music and dance anytime!

I am very black and white…ether love” it” or dislike” it” or just except “it”…lol. I seem to be very intuitive and dislike games and bull ----. I am what I am and those I choose to spend my time with will have similar convictions.

I choose to not live in a place of fear of man, (worried about what others think) I am confident yet not arrogant and through my trials; I have been filled with compassion which clothes my judgment of others and creates acceptance and gives forgiveness for much ignorance in this world. I love diversity and need others input in my life to be complete. I choose to not live by the basic rules and hate the "BOX", but look great in a BOW.. ;)

Most of my friends I have obtained since I was young and they will be my friends for life. (They come with the package like them or not…) If I call you a friend you are a friend, you can count on me, LOYAL like a dog!! Most of my friends are musicians, artist or nut cases....for real. LOL

I am not a stereo- type Christian, nor a big "church" fan, dislike organized religion. Yet, I do love God and Jesus, He is a big part of my life. I need someone that can talk about religion and God without squirming or trying to convert me to there denomination way of thinking. I rest in the light of God and His truth to direct my life and it works for me.

Currently I am very involved with our local RED CROSS as their Public Relations Board Member. I am always up for a cause, if worthy and I am willing to sacrifice for it.

Politics and I don’t get along…I currently do not belong to a party…only because there hasn’t been one I can fully support. If there was I would.

I am against war of any kind, yet I will not judge you if you support it. I do not blame any one involved or employed by our state. I have great compassion on this situation and pray God keep everyone involved safe in this time and that they would have wisdom.

I have traveled abroad. My bags are always packed…;) Europe is in my blood, I would love to live there for a season, or at least have a home there. I understand this culture and at times feel as if I don’t fit in America. Back East is closest to my heart…the people seem to be more my style, if it wasn’t for the weather, I would live there! Any travel will change your prospective...which will change you…and I feel that all change; ends in good!

Homework, my daughter, music, literature, friends, computers and MYSPACE fulfills all my home entertainment. Not much TV…except for the occasional Sports game, Discovery and Disney…Movies I am a James BOND nut! I like Action, Comedy and some girl flicks….in that order..I usally like off beat films.

Food is something I share and I can give back that makes people feel good and promotes fellowship and unity. Basically, I CAN COOK BABY!!! This equates family and friends to me; I live for dinner parties and love to attend them.

It is true; a way to a man's heart is through his stomach and big boobs!!! Yes, I am a christian and can still use that word. That was to see if you are still paying attention! A new restaurant (and or) in a new town…I am there!

I enjoy vegetable gardens (organic when ever possible) and fresh flowers on the table where ever I live.

Wine or Cigar Bars, Local dive, Music concerts, Travel, The Theater (not the one with the plastic seats), Resturants, Dinner Parties and the Beach pretty much sum up my outdoor entertainment.

I used to teach tennis but had a serious injury to my arm and still recovering. It has affected my outdoor activities in my life. I walk on the beach now and am working on my one handed back hand. I do exercise…only because I have to not because I like it.

With the time left over in my life (the little I have) I date and I write books. I study history and humanity; it is quite hilarious. I write drama productions, short stories etc. , PR, Non profit and Management is my background. I am a leader, entrepreneur in most situations yet have no problem delegating or taking orders.

I am open to having a serious relationship at this time. I am divorced and I would like to say I am ready for marriage again; but relationships bring the best and worst out of us… it is always a surprise what is inside us when intimacy is embraced. It is scary, yet I must Love again.

The only thing I can say is if I commit (love) again, I am in for the long hall! I do believe I have learned some skills that may make the path easier. I will bring life, passion and love to a home. I have a great relationship with my daughter and her father. It is the best situation you can have. I am blessed

Chivalry is not dead...and a man that can "live" that is a real MAN!

OK….God fearing, disco dancing, pin me up against the wall, expressing gratitude while I hold his hand as we live a nostalgic romance from a time forgotten.
What more do I need, I am in LOVE! LOL

IN MY MATE: I am looking for a STAR to stand behind.

I am looking for a man with a testimony of stability with flexibility, encompassed in literacy, educated in the finer things, ambitious, outgoing, a giver, lover of the arts, secure, teachable, loyal, adventurous, spiritual and lives in peace.

One that can really accept someone for who they are and not try to change them…and if they can't accept them on any level then to be courageous, mature enough to move on.

I strongly dislike religious, controlling, angry, blaming-victim type people, cheaters, liars, worriers, and overly macho men. (That was a mouthful.. LOL)

I am attracted to submitted power and intellect. The James Bond type - yet can still teach softball and can fix things with his power tools or at least try. Stylish in his dress, no geeky or outdoor look…but not someone that spends longer than me in the bathroom- vain. Or, is more turned on by himself than me.;)

I need a very "romantic" passionate person…Public displays of affection are a must, within reason! A real lover, willing to be lost in love, vulnerable and ready for a relationship.

Summary; Strong enough to maintain a tempestuous lifestyle without losing passion, yet interesting enough to remain a challenge without being obstinate, and secure enough to be faithful.

Someone that has already found themselves, created themselves and is over themselves.

My mom's quote; "you need all 3; spiritual, physical and natural". I have found some attributes, one or two throughout my journey, but never all 3 in a mate...I know mom is right, and my failure has proven it. I won't allow myself to love again until I have all 3.

I don't expect anything, I am not willing to be to someone else, friend or mate.